So last night, I went ahead and cleaned out the storage unit so that my ex and I wouldnt have to share one anymore because lets just face facts- we didnt get along well after his sheistyness. So I finally get it all done after he's blowing up my phone telling me to get it done (didnt go over well with me) and I can breathe a sigh of relief.
I call him to get my clothes out of his dormitory, and he tells me-oh yeah..uhh....I threw them away. "Wait wait....WHAT!?" "Yeah I needed the closet space and I gave you four months to come get them"
WHAT!? You needed closet space from a couple pairs of jeans? I had the opportunity and the want to fuck with all of your shit in the storage unit, and I didnt-in fact I left a lot of stuff that was mine as a gift to you-partially because I knew you liked it and partially because I no longer wanted it- and you threw what was mine AWAY!? Especially since you were at the storage unit several times during that period and just could have put it in there since you were moving people in and out of the unit without my consent anyway? How incredibly childish and petty.
For those in my friends list who do not know, my ex and I were together 6 and a half years- until he cheated on me with a boy he met on the internet.
Throughout the relationship, I helped him a lot. I gave him a place to live when both sets of parents kicked him out, I put up his end of the security deposit so he could actually get a place, I was the one who encouraged him to go back to college and sat him down and showed him physically with a calculator that he could do it, I was the one who was there when he wrecked his car, I was the one who sat in the ER with him, I was the one who was there whenever he needed to rant about work, school, friends, roommates, what have you. Me and my family did so much for him and for him to act as petty as he has and throw away things that werent his. For him to play mind games with me after we had broken up and exposing me to health risks that I dont deserve is just ridiculous.
I was a great girlfriend and I got fucked over by someone who claimed to have loved me for years, because he all of a sudden decided he wanted some cock. Then he decided to fuck me over with the storage unit by dumping my shit everywhere haphazardly. THEN he threw my shit out. After we put you up, after I helped you get into college, after I payed your stupid loans so you wouldnt default and destroy your credit further, after I put myself in debt just paying your idiotic security deposit so you would have a roof over your head, after I got the storage unit with you so you wouldnt have to pay it on your own.
Well, all I can really say is I hope that you are prepared for Karma. Because you know as well as I do-that Karma is a bitch and it all comes back times three. Good luck with that.
For the record- I was a good person in all of this. I never called him out on any of this bullshit until now. I never destroyed or fucked with anything of his. I was nothing but a good person through and through. Thats the reality- sometimes when you are a good person and sometimes when you try to do the right thing, people who have no shred of morality will try and take advantage of that. Karma.