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Tuesday, August 15, 2006 

Current mood:  contemplative
Category: Romance and Relationships
from OTASTY's page..

You Say You Want A Good Man...
You say you want a Good Man
And when it comes to finding one you won't.
Because when it comes to really wanting one,
Simply put; ladies you don't.
You say you want a Good Man
One that will always give you hugs,
But every time I turn around
You're always chasing after thugs.
You say you want a Good Man
Well I'm here to tell you that's not true
Because the last one that came your way,
Wasn't tall enough for you.
You say you want a Good Man
Cause you're tired of trifling mess
But you rolled your eyes at the last one
Because you didn't like the way he dressed.
You say you want a Good Man
One that will have you for his wife
Yet every time you come across one,
You say he's just too nice.
You say you want a Good Man
Now I'm not saying you should make him beg.
But a brother should at least know your first and last name
Before you open up your legs.
See if you try that with a Good Man,
In you he won't be pleased.
For he realizes, just like he could have,
Other brothers have had you with ease.
Now in order to get a Good Man
You need to listen; see it's in your favor.
Starting with the fact that no Good Man
Wants a woman who curses like a sailor.
And in your quest to find a Good Man
Listen as if it's Law.
You'll never find a good man,
If you always label him as a dog.
See a Good Man wants a woman
That expects to receive his best.
But you will never ever find one,
If you keep settling for less.
Now if you've found a man
That you think might be right for you.
You'll know he's not a Good man
If he won't go to church with you.
For in the life of a Good Man
You're not first, but don't take it hard.
See you're standing right there next to him,
But you're second after God.
So if you still would like a Good Man
One that will make you a real good husband.
There's only one thing left for you to do
And that's simply become a Good Woman
KRH1

 

Touche.  It is true that you attract what you project ... if there is a lack of a good man and one is definitely pointing a finger ... there will always be 3 fingers pointing back at them.

I come across good men daily ... but it's because I have no expectations for the exchange.  If I'm greeted with a hello and a smile ... I do the same ... reciprocity is a wonderful thing ... if we detach ourselves from the expectation/results and enjoy the journey ... would we be in a better place?  I think so ... Thanks for the post ... it's always nice to experience another person's moments of clarity.   Have a great day.

 

 

 


 
Posted by KRH1 on Friday, August 25, 2006 - 12:42 AM
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Stephanie
Stephanie Moreno

 

This is so true...Very well said!


 
Posted by Stephanie on Tuesday, October 10, 2006 - 9:18 PM
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SilkyDreams Poetry
Silky Dreams

 
I really appreciated these words.... thank you for posting.
 
Posted by SilkyDreams Poetry on Wednesday, October 18, 2006 - 1:55 AM
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Kaima by Karyn jenius

 
man... that is so true... well its a good thing i have stopped dating, and waiting to  serve my purpose~
 
Posted by Kaima by Karyn jenius on Thursday, November 23, 2006 - 6:58 AM
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Judy Cerda
Judy Cerda

 

That was an excellent rhyme.  I am married myself but see many women out there complaining there are no good men when they are the ones getting drunk and acting stupid in bars, swearing constantly, smoking, being loud and obnoxious and rude to other women.  Then they have the nerve to wonder why no good man comes around them.  I have many single good men friends who tell me that there are no good women and it sure seems to be true in the singles world.

 


 
Posted by Judy Cerda on Tuesday, March 13, 2007 - 11:29 PM
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