Comrades

How does a conventionally honest man feel comfortable telling his future “girlfriend” that she is the most special woman in his current life when he has a girlfriend who is already the most special person in his life?  This is the inception of a superficial relationship.

I find it critically difficult to fathom sharing significant feelings with one woman when I have established those same feelings with another woman.  Sometimes the true feelings one shares with a certain person will not exactly connect.  How does one transfer these feelings to another where connection occurs and be genuine?  It seems as though it is merely a façade.