There is a 65% plus rate of military personnel that go oversea to get cheated on.

They leave there loved one behind to do there duty, facing fatal fire, rpg's(rocket propelled grenades), and all those lethal stuff simply to come back to there partner to be unfaithful or left them for another person.

I can't even comprehend how that could feel. i know that i wish that i will never have to be placed in that situation.
I know after being seperated from your partner people change but shouldnt your feelings stay the same? 6 months to even two years shouldnt affect someones love for another. But still that rate of being unfaithful is rising.

I just want to know how a person feels when they decide that they will no longer stay faithful and start seein/sleeping with other people.

only if they knew how much pain and  misery they bring to the person returning to find that their life is emptier than it was when they were overseas in the desert.

hurts so much thinking about it.