GOODMORNING! Mr. Kellen Kash.  How are you Today? I was reading your Blog the other day and i could'nt agree with you more. [ONE] on the point of those who COMPLAIN instead of DOING something! in the Being more PROACTIVE to finding solutions to Contribute More POSITIVELY, Rather than staying in there Negitive situation, present conditioning or Mindstates.  Me, Well,.. I personally Believe as you do and you are absolutly Correct to say and speak as ou do.  It is  TRUTH. You see, when you say that We ALL [all of us,]  in this world have Struggles in life, it means everyone on the planet has something or another to live and learn from and most certainly Overcome. That goes without saying, as it is true for ALL! Within the WORLD we live in as a society WHOLE as well as  Individualy also.  However,  if we just Sit back Complain and place BLAME on anything and everything outside of OURSELVES for whatever the Reason or Negitive impact That may have been caused to us WITHOUT Bringing out from that it's Opposite in POSITIVES,  Then HOW in the world are we ever to get to the point of LEARNING from that circumstance or difficult stuation enough to PUSH FORWARD and Heal Ourselves.. WE MUST HEAL OURSELVES even if it means all by ourselves and we are NEVER alone so long as we know that we have God. I Mean,.. Our Ancestors Did they Not Overcome?  And what a Perfect Example is What was THEIR Prime Example not what it meant? FOR THIS.. THIS is what it Means to OVERCOME a situation or Circumstance does it not?.. Of course it is. 

When we CHOSE to Take from a situation However Negitive the impact may have been and Flip it, by Turning it into a Positive Then What we then are infact doing, is Making the Experience WORK for us by ALLOWING us to Benifit by Whatever POSITIVE that we chose to see in it. It's Really all in the way we VIEW the particular situation that may have Impacted us. If the experience is bad or a negitive one, we sometimes have tendencies to focus soley on what was bad for too long that we don't always recognize or notice the good. And what's good about ANY Experience is we are then able to LEARN something from it that will enable one the ability to stretch and grow and become wiser through that of their experience. SOME peope learn vital lessons so not to REPEAT them. SOME learn lessons that Give them the Understanding they needed so now they Can be able to better Relate to the World or to another for how another might feel. Some Draw from those Experiences Only what they need that will shape and Mold them into the Characters that they become and HOPEFULLY Someone that our creator Master maker and heavenly father is Proud and pleased to see in us Because something tells me that God is never too far  and That Everything that we experience go through and endure will be test of faith and Charachter and will without a doubt tell the stories of our HEART.

We will Never get anywhere in Life or come too far in this world or in our lives, if we just sit back and waist time and energy focused soley on the negitives Rather that the positives. And I'm Sure there will be circumstances where we will sometimes have to find ways to bring out the GOOD in a situation. And sometimes we might even have to FORCE ourselves to do that and it might be hard to do.  But all in all I Think  it's Really  a choice. You can either Complain Or you can DO something about it. You can Either Choose to see the Bad or the negitive OR you Can choose to USE the bad or Negitive to create Positive solutions for how you're going to go bout TAKING from that Negitive experience and Drawing out from it a POSITIVE. And That's just what you do.

OverAll It's a CHOICE and by choice, I CHOOSE to See to it That any given "negitive" situation circumstance or struggle that i have ever endured in mylife OR WILL ever Come to face and have to endure in the future for that matter,  to be viewed as "OPPORTUNITIES" to GROW and LEARN. And to always TAKE from Those ONLY what I NEED to BECOME BETTER, STRONGER, WISER, BRAVER, or whatever is going to do or takes to EMPOWER me to gain or RE gain if need be, in me whatever strengthening there is,  to Make it through and face bravely yet another day and continue to rise and KEEP on rising just to be able to Go on and Be STRONG. for myself, for The ones I Love, for those who Look to me for Guidence, for my Creator to be Proud of me,  Then so be it.  One things for Certain and That is,.. [I WILL GO ON ] I might not always have the answeres or Know exactly what to do. and I Might not ALWAYS do the Right thing, Im going to make mistakes sometimes and Im going to FALL down but Im going to get back up and Face another Day even if Ive got to FIGHT the whole way through I know it CAN be done and HOW iam going to do it... is FAITH and the right motivation is what's going to get me there.. Like you said by setting Goals and step by step doing what NEEDS to be done to Accomplish and Achieve is how its done. If one is Not surrounded by the Like minded individuals it may only slow them down so if you are a Person such as the one described As The [BAD JUDGE OF CHARACTER] Then Take a Lesson from Mr. Kellen as he says you may want to think about a New positive Circle of people.  So long as a person has Faith in themselves, along with Motivation Then I Believe a person can go far.  Because it is Written that a Persons Faith even as Small as a mustard seed Can move Mountains, and Iv'e SEEN a Mustard seed. I've Held one right in the Palm of my hand in Demonstration I was Teaching to my children once and thought WOW!  [Faith! and The Love] is ALOT!  Belief  and the power to VISUALIZE then ACTUALIZE is Everything. So for me, Nomatter what shall ever come of mylife  I'll Face each and everyday day with NEW Knowledge and growth mentally, intellectually, emotionally, physically, and Spiritually Better than I Was Yesturday. And That my Friend is The Way it is Done. 

To Survive this world. We must adopt the Strength of our Ancestors, Their Spirit, Their Fath, Their Motivation and Their incredible Power Standup and Endure. To Stand up and DO something. That's How Changes are made. That's How History Was Made. And That is How we BECOME all tat we Are that is Inspirational and Great. We can ONLY become Great by becoming PROACTIVE.  And Being Great doesn't necisarily mean achieving materally or what the WORLDS View of success is. Being Great can be found in humble means. Being Great Can be in finding peace amongst a world of War. Being Great is being a Good person Compassionate Caring Loving helpful giving and kind. Being Grat is Beng a Person who Contributes to society However way they see the NEED so long as it Insires Hopthat brings about a positive. Being Great is Being a Father to your Children a Provider and Loving and Dependable person Man, woman child and Friend. ect. There are so many many ways to be great to which Only the Creator could truly and accurately be the Judge of. For that is all a Meassure of ones Heart.  And when I Think of our Ancestors and all that they've endured and have Overcome Then I Know for myself, all of  What we are Truly Made of SPIRITUALLY! and That we Can WIN even if we shall Fall trying to achieve it. We have the Power to Endure all things so Long as we have The faith.. The Courage.. The Heart.. The Determination.. The Wisdom.. The RIGHT MOTIVATION.. and Mindstate Purpose and Plan Then We Can OverCome Anything and i mean Any. So long as we Remember to Keep in mind that Everything in life and in this Universe has a Purpose WE CAN NOT HAVE ONE WITHOUT THE OTHER. FOR LIFE,  ALONG WITH OUR EXPERIENCES Good Or Bad ANYTHING WITHIN OR OUTSIDE OF THIS UNIVERSE INCLUDING OURSELVES WE ARE MADE UP OF OPPOSITES AND ALL THINGS WERE CREATED TO HAVE IT'S  BALANCE TO THE OTHER AND JUST AS SURLY AS THERE IS DAY THERE IS NIGHT. THERE CAN BE NO UP, WITHOUT DOWN. NO IN WITHOUT OUT.  GOOD WITHOUT BAD.  JOY WITHOUT PAIN.  Or Finally but not least  POSITIVE WITHOUT THE NEGITIVE and a Person who's experinced a thing or two Well,..  i'd have to say that They'd Know JUST what it MEANS to be GREATFUL for all the Blessings that come into ones lives.  Bet they'd apprieciate them more cherish and protect them had they understood the profound impact of what the opposite held MORAL and Point is: There is never any use in complaining.  Complaining does'nt bring fourth Change.  But on the Other hand Now, Doing something about it> NOW THAT! is a Thought. Excellent Topic and POINT my friend. One i could not agree with More MR. Kellen Kash.
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ALSO...YOU MAY RECALL  Years ago there was a Show on air On BET Called TEEN SUMMIT Hosted by LISA Johnson? Well,.. I Grew up watching that Show and Ever since i was Just a Girl I Used to DREAM of Hoasting a Similar Show What I Loved about the Show as a CHILD was the Fact that it Directly Involved The Youth. it was a Group of Young people who Inspired one another to come together and Problem solve-Resolute. Taught them HOW TO Effectively Communicate and Build Positive/Strong LEADERSHIP skills amongst Peers that Advocated Peer Leadership Roles that Gave Opportunities and Examples of How YOUNG People CAN Make a Difference by inspiring others to do the same in coming together United for the good of a common cause Showing others that They too can make a difference by  also Becoming Positive Influences around the World. And ANYTHING That helps Build or Rebuild or restore Our Families Men Woman Children Homes and Communities Our Schools Our People and So Fourth and so on,  Oh!!  i Will Most CERTAINLY! Advocate and be in True and Upmost Support of   200%  So again, Iam with ANY Possible Movement that Provides us with POSITIVE INFLUENCES and EXAMPLES Always! for that.  And Mr. Kellen Iam PROUD to see That you are ONE of those Positive Examples in the Community As Well.   As I will Continue to wish you well on all of your Endeavors in life!  Because like i said I WISH i Only could have had HALF! of the Experiences That you've had You are So Young and it is Honorable to see a Young Black man such as yourself Doing all You've done and  Can. Im Sure it's apprieciated. 

Sincerely,
God Bless 
and  TAKE CARE