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Katrina



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Gender: Male
Status: In a Relationship
Age: 29
Sign: Gemini

City: Twin Cities
State: Minnesota
Country: US
Signup Date: 2/16/2006

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Thursday, March 06, 2008 
Tuesday evening at 6:40 PM I was the victim of a crime. While walking from an apartment building my boyfriend and I noticed two young adult males loitering near our car at the edge of the parking lot. When we got in, we realized our stereo had been stolen, and then that the passenger side lock had been forced. I have no proof that they were involved, but their behavior was suspicious.
I immediately called 911. The dispatcher told me to wait and that an officer would be there soon. We waited in the car. A half an hour went by. We were less than five minutes from downtown, and only a few blocks from a police station. The dispatcher told me they still had my call, and that as soon as a squad car was free, it would be there. I began defending the police in my head. Perhaps there is a big bust going on. Perhaps there are murders being solved. Maybe there was a big accident. Maybe someone was robbed – oh wait, some one was…
At this time I would like to express that when I originally called I did not expect that the crime would actually be solved. I am very aware, having been a victim of petty crimes in the past, that they are very hard to solve and do not have a high priority. What I did expect was that someone would be available to document the event for insurance purposes and my own peace of mind.
After waiting in the cold, feeling angry, violated, and extremely frustrated I called the dispatch again. It had been over an hour. I asked when I could expect an officer to come, and if there was any reason for the wait. I was told they are very busy and was put on hold. When the dispatcher came back on the line, she said, "It looks like it is going to be awhile, why don't you call the non-emergency line tomorrow to report it."
Feeling incredibly discouraged, I left the parking lot to drive the half an hour home. Less than a half mile away, I passed a squad car driving down the street in no apparent hurry. Inside are two officers.
It was frightening to realize that I did not matter. I had been basically told that for the last hour every single police officer in downtown St Paul had been too busy to swing by the scene of a crime. Where were the neighborhood patrols? Where were the men in blue that were suppose to be looking out for me?
I think it is ridiculous that I live in a city where people cannot expect anyone in power to take action over supposed "petty crimes", and that perpetrators of these crimes can expect to get away with them.
Call me naive, but I shouldn't feel more frusted at the police than I am at the criminals.
jesSICKa

 
you certainly aren't naive.

not to sound cheesy, but you have been hit with a heavy dose of reality, i guess.
 
Posted by jesSICKa on Thursday, March 06, 2008 - 4:48 AM
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Chris

 
don't feel bad, when I was watching our neighbors house get broken into the police drove past at about 30 mph down the alley and never even bothered to stop. thankfully the would be burglers were stopped by good Ole neighborhood vigilance...

but the night I had a naked asian kid high on crack wacking off on my porch.. held at gun point I got LOT"S of cops.
 
Posted by Chris on Thursday, March 06, 2008 - 12:31 PM
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Katrina

 
i think they want either sex, blood, or guns before they are gonna show up.
 
Posted by Katrina on Thursday, March 06, 2008 - 3:07 PM
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Thargnar
Turd Fergusson

 
So they're like the average movie goer?

Seriously though , it sucks, I had my car broken into the first night I moved down to the cities and lost not only the stereo but my entire collection of CDs which were still in there. Nothing makes you feel that cold empty pit in your stomach like impotent fury combined with the sense of violation you mentioned. Like yourself, the cops weren't even interested in what was stolen when I called, let alone serial numbers or anything. When I had my store burglarized up here in Brainerd they were slightly more interested, at least they sent a car, but when after a year went by and I found out who did it, gave them the names, and a piece of stolen property actually bought back from one of them through a proxy, they just said "Yeah, we know them. *Shrug*" It's true that there are more important things than property theft to deal with, I'd rather have the cops keeping a wife from becoming a battered wife than chasing my radio or some other pilfered property, but I've also sat while being pulled over for a BS reason on saturday night, done stupid human tricks for 15 minutes, and finally been let go when it becomes apparent that they aren't getting a lucky DUI or drug bust off a broken taillight, so I *know* that the cops up here have some time to kill yet don't choose to spend it doing anything other than reactionary calls or routine traffic stops, or are instructed to spend it that way from above. I do often wonder how hard they try and find burglars breaking into the million dollar lake homes though...
I try not to get too down on the guys that are the people I call and expect to show up when shitting my pants in terror because there's a crazy bastard with a gun outside, but if that's never happened and the only experiences you have had are poor, it's tough to keep in mind that there could be perfectly legit reasons for the way things are that you just don't know. It's a hard thing to look at equanimously, I guess I just wanted to say I feel your pain.
 
Posted by Thargnar on Thursday, March 06, 2008 - 8:51 PM
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Andrea

 
baby, boy i have been there. i did, after all, live in crack central vancouver. me, im quite numb to these things as i have become eerily used to it. but i remember my first time and how i was treated like complete shit by the asshole desk cop who really didnt want to stop his crossword to help me. im sorry for your loss. i know nothing anyone can say really makes you feel that much better. but just know that we'll be bitching up a storm our next shoot date. that should be relaxing. im just glad you guys didnt get hurt or robbed. i love you.
 
Posted by Andrea on Thursday, March 06, 2008 - 4:49 PM
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Jay

 
Sorry kid. I felt the same way last year when my someone broke into my car. Some days I think we need to help the boys with their plan to close off Little Pine and form our own country.
 
Posted by Jay on Thursday, March 06, 2008 - 5:36 PM
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Der Tod

 
Having experienced a car break in my self a year ago, I know just how you feel. Yeah, the police aren't everything and everywhere they ought to be but I wouldn't blame them either. It's not their fault that so many people just plain suck.
 
Posted by Der Tod on Friday, March 07, 2008 - 4:48 AM
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Nick
Nick Hillyard

 
I actually caught a guy trying to jack my stereo once. Being it the second time, with bitter feelings about the first, I buried him in the sub-straight that is now the 35E/694 interchange.
 
Posted by Nick on Thursday, April 03, 2008 - 10:12 PM
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