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City: FORT LAUDERDALE/NEW YORK
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Signup Date: 2/21/2006
Thursday, August 28, 2008 

Category: Writing and Poetry
Today is august 28.. The day my daddy pasted away. Even tho its been 4years, I still
haven't really faced it. I know it may sound crazy to you. But I haven't. I have to stay
strong for my family, "glo" never breaks. Just not in front of them at least. I
want to tell you a few things about my dad. He was such a hard worker. My dad was such a
hustler. Whatever it took. He was fly too !! =) who could kick some butt. I got that from
him. And his temper. He was loving. Yes, he had his faults. But I forgave him for
everything & anything he put us through. We stuck it out as a family. Which a family
should do. I hope to find half of a man my dad was. I love u daddy!! I find my strength
in my lord. It is difficult at times. To think my daddy won't walk me down the aisle. Even
be apart of my son's life. Watch him grown into a man. Things like that really gets to
me. Yes, I am just like you! I endure heartache and sorrow. While I write this, tears are
coming down my face. I know I don't show that side of me ever. But I feel like you
"my new extended family" really Care's & loves me!! So I will share with you my
happiness as well as my sadness. I know my dad is in a better place. But I still wish he
was here with me. I was just reading something in the bible I would like to share with u.
"Jesus is our peace"! That means when we have him, we have peace. When he
becomes our lord and savior, peace is ours forever, no matter what situation we find
ourselves in. We don't get peace from the things he gives us but from his presence in our
lives. I have peace knowing he is in a better place. To know he is no longer hurting.
Like he was here on earth. but i still miss him dearly.. I love you daddy with all my heart and soul. your princess
glo!!!
rUSS g YO BARBER...

 
very touching..
 
Posted by rUSS g YO BARBER... on Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 5:22 AM
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@Hestia209 FREE R.Tycoon!! *RF4L*

 
Mama! jus reading Your name headline gave Me chillz... & now to read Your post really touches Mah heart:( tho i find it warming to know that You're turning to THE BOOK OF LIFE "THE BIBLE" to find answers in ah time of need... It will fill up!! All of those wordz of wisdom!

i also agree that in a way itz comforting to know that Your Dad iz in a Much Better Place but itz understandable for You to miss him still! You do know tho that he finds peace in YOU being okay & at peace with Your life here on Earth without him. You will be with him someday as We all will be our loved ones thru Eternal Life.


"Jesus is Our Savior!"

Much Love To You Mama!! After the day iz done... You will re-adjust & be okay!! Promise:))

♥Hestia
 
Posted by @Hestia209 FREE R.Tycoon!! *RF4L* on Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 5:31 AM
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BIG BILL

 
MY CONDOLENCES GLO, SAYING THINGS OUT LOUD ALWAYS MAKES FEEL BETTER, SPECIALLY IF SOME ONE IS LISTENING
 
Posted by BIG BILL on Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 5:37 AM
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THE OFFICIAL MYSPACE PAGE OF CHAD A.K.A. MRNICEGUY

 
THIS IS A VERY WELL WRITTEN BLOG G-LO.

 
Posted by THE OFFICIAL MYSPACE PAGE OF CHAD A.K.A. MRNICEGUY on Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 5:45 AM
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"I Do3s Wh@t I Do0o! G3t it!??lol ~StAy-FLy C
StAy FLy

 
Damn Glo! You just made a tear drop! We here for you tho fam Take it ez N hold the family down! My Condolence Goes out to you and the rest of the fam! Luv you!:~)..
 
Posted by "I Do3s Wh@t I Do0o! G3t it!??lol ~StAy-FLy C on Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 5:46 AM
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Rockness

 
I wanted a new blog from U a while ago, im sorry it was a hurtful 1 but I still appreciate it...I hear ya. Its still a good 1...more 4 U then me...I think... n hope...its a good thing to express it! God Bless & Much Love :) XOXOXO
 
Posted by Rockness on Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 5:57 AM
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lameek

 
My heart goes out to you "GLO" ...i can understand totaly taking your time to deal with the grief of losing your dad ,given the fact that so many look up to you , i can see u feeling like u have to maintain a strong demeaner , but baby dont lose sight of the fact that u are very human and u to can have a moment of weakness !!its ok !!! take all the time you need cause nobody can tell u how or when you should stop or start somthing so close to your heart !! ... Feel free to stop by n drop a line ... your friend LA......
 
Posted by lameek on Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 5:58 AM
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Loco Gringo M.I.C. 63

 
I'm sorry for your loss. It is never easy losing a loved one.

 
Posted by Loco Gringo M.I.C. 63 on Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 6:02 AM
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}l{mama butterfly}l{

 
Dear Gloria,
I am sorry to hear about your father!! I, like you, lost my father years ago. Although he wasn't in my life as a little girl, he will always be my Daddy. I just got married in August, and it was really hard to think that usually, the fathers walk their daughters down the aisle, but mine wouldn't. My mother walked me down the aisle that day. My grandparents were there, and assured me that if he were there, he would have walked me down the aisle on my special day and been proud! It was hard, but I think that he was there in spirit and was happy that I found someone to take care of me and to treat me like a lady should be treated.
Something every father wants for their little girl!!
I know that your father would be proud of you because you have came a long way!! I met you a long time ago, when you danced for Laz.
How time has gone by, and things have changed!! I know that you are a hard worker, and you seem like you are a good mom! I wish you all the best in everything that you do!
If you go to my profile, I dedicated Christina Aguilera's "HURT" to my dad!! I blamed him for all the things that went wrong in my life, but in time I have learned to forgive him, and that has gotten me by, and made me realize that life and time are precious, cherish them both and one day I will be with him(my Daddy) again!! God Bless, Michelle
 
Posted by }l{mama butterfly}l{ on Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 6:07 AM
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♠.ǺLCHεMι$†.♠
D. Cervantez

 
i feel you GLO.

i lost my mom Dec.
of 2006
the worse day of my life.

i really dont have friends here in Arizona
but i do have my girl
its just she hasnt been through this kind of PAIN
just my Familia so its hard to talk to someone
whos not family and hasnt gone through it.

i would talk to my family but i know they feel the same way as me
so i guess i need some one whos been through my pain and is not family
that way we cant share stories and make each other feel happy!
I know ull stay strong cuz u always have.but time comes when memories hit us out of nowhere thats when we need to vent and write it down.our feeling of the ones we love and lost.

So remember you have a friend whos just going through it too.

Take Care and Keep FLYING !
ALCHEM!ST aka: David Cervantez
 
Posted by ♠.ǺLCHεMι$†.♠ on Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 6:08 AM
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M.

 
Daddy's Little Girl

If I had my life to do over,
I'd have chosen you to be my dad
once more.

Even if it meant losing you again,
It's worth all the tears in the
world.

You were my sunshine when skies
were gray.

I loved you and honored you;
You took all my tears away.

I was happy to be with you,
Proud to be your little girl.

Sometimes we would argue,
But to me you meant the world.

What can I take from this?
My heart is completely crushed.

But nothing loved is ever lost -
And you are loved so much.


Keep you head up.

 
Posted by M. on Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 7:00 AM
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Brian

 
I know exactly how you feel Glo! My grandmother died 4 years ago, and I still haven't gotten over it. You can never get over losing somebody that you love, you just "move on." And time doesn't help.

 
Posted by Brian on Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 7:03 AM
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..*::JESSI::*.. TWITTER.COM/JELUV227

 
I too lost my grandmother 4 years ago and I feel the same way Brian. She was like my mother. She actually had custody of me when she died but I had just turned 18 and was moving out. The last time I saw her and spoke to her was her last night alive, she died (of cancer) the following morning. I get thru some days without a tear but she is always on my mind. When times are really rough is when I cry the hardest wishing she was here to talk to. I hope you find peace in Christ and he comforts you. Remember, each day that passes (no matter how hard it gets) is another day closer to seeing her again.
God Bless! :D
 
Posted by ..*::JESSI::*.. TWITTER.COM/JELUV227 on Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 12:05 PM
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Tierra lacaramel
Tierra jones

 
Wow! Im very speechless. Im the same way I ve lost people n put on a face for the family Showing my strong side, not the inside. I know it takes a lot especially for women. These days we've switched roles with men we put up so much armor, stronger than ever for the right reasons n will bring them down when necessary. But thankyou for opening up your soul n continue keeping god first. Im pretty sure your father felt every word.

 
Posted by Tierra lacaramel on Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 7:07 AM
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American Yuppiee

 
I know the feeling Glo the pain will remain but it does get better with time
 
Posted by American Yuppiee on Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 11:48 AM
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{Nevaeh's Mommy}*{Mrs.Simpson}*{Grandmom's
Jennifer Simpson

 
I know how you feel!...I lost my Grandmom and Pop recently...they raised me to be the woman I am today!...I miss them every second of my life!...sometimes thinking that they are watching over us keeps me goin...we have our own personal angels!

I found this lil poem yesterday:

"Time Goes By, Life Goes On, All I Can Think Is Why You're Gone"....

Keep bein you cause that is makin him proud!

God Bless!

Muah
Jennifer
 
Posted by {Nevaeh's Mommy}*{Mrs.Simpson}*{Grandmom's on Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 11:49 AM
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Blue Funk Entertainment

 
It is so refreshing to see someone of your stature open up like this. I can only imagine how you must feel today, but I'm sure that your father is so proud of you. I know that I am.


God Bless You Sweetie,

Jason
 
Posted by Blue Funk Entertainment on Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 2:59 PM
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Robb

 
I'm sorry to hear that your father has past on. You and i both know that he is in a better place now. Live your life and continue doing what you do. Live for your pops, as i will live for my fallin peers. He is watching over you smiling @ your achievements, cussin you out for your faults, but still loving his lil girl. As for ya son teach him the way ya father taught you, but better. You all will be just fine. I'll pray for you and your family and thats not even my style. I just want you 2 know that as a fan and a new myspace friend:), I'm here 4 u. Stay strong even G's cry baby, shit i know i shed a few................ Give thanks 2 GOD 4 him giving u ya father, because with out him there would be no u.............. ENJOY YOUR DAY BEAUTIFUL
 
Posted by Robb on Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 3:10 PM
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Mike Turner

 
This is a very touching piece. A lot of people think just because you are famous and pretty that you don't have a heart. I lost my dad 2 years ago and reading this is making tears come from eyes. Stay strong and know that both our fathers are in a better place.

 
Posted by Mike Turner on Thursday, August 28, 2008 - 3:14 PM
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Juice | Lakers 16-3

 
Rest In Peace
 
Posted by Juice | Lakers 16-3 on Friday, August 29, 2008 - 12:06 AM
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Eddy V

 
My condolences as well gloria. I truly know how ya fell being that I lost my dad about a year ago. The wounds are still fresh and sharing your thoughts with others heals the soul a bit. I miss my dad too so I know, feel and share the same sentiment as you. Just continue to make him proud senorita.


We Velez's have to stick together...lol... Cuidate y que Dios te bendiga chula....Mucho amor y carino from one Velez to another.....Eddy V
 
Posted by Eddy V on Friday, August 29, 2008 - 12:32 AM
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Par4eto

 
My condolences, Glo. It's never easy when you lose your love ones. In such times it's important to have somebody you can rely on. And when you reminisce only good memories to come. Give space for your grief, don't try to hide it, he deserves it. Even if you think it's too late. In time the pain will disappear, but good memories will stay forever.


Much LOVE!!!
 
Posted by Par4eto on Friday, August 29, 2008 - 5:09 PM
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John(Coyote)
John castellenas

 
A beautiful poem about your father. I lossed my father 11 years ago. I still miss his laughter and voice. Thank you.

Coyote
 
Posted by John(Coyote) on Monday, September 01, 2008 - 11:47 PM
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