IT SEEMS TO ME THAT A LOT OF TIMES THAT YOU MUST FALL DOWN TO GET BACK UP. YOU CANT GET IN SHAPE WITHOUT A CONSIDERABLE AMOUNT OF PAIN AND PERSERVERANCE. IS LOVE THE SAME WAY?

EVERYONE HAS BEEN THROUGH ROUGH TIMES WITH THEIR LOVED ONES.I THINK THAT GOING THROUGH THOSE TIMES IS WHAT PROVIDES THE GLUE TO A MARRIAGE OR A RELATIONSHIP.I ALSO THINK IT CREATES THE BOUNDARIES THAT ARE SO NECESSARY IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP.NO ONE WANTS TO SEE THEIR MAN HURT OR ANGRY OFF OF ONES INFEDELITY NOR DOES A MAN NO MATTER HOW TOUGH HE IS WANTS TO SEE HIS WOMAN CRYING FOR ANYTHING. YOU KNOW WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT. THE REAL HURT WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE ALMOST DYING.THE HOW COULD YOU DO THIS TO ME. OR THE PAIN THAT MAKES YOU WANT TO TAKE A BAT AND BUST WINDOWS OUT OF HOUSES ,CARS, AND BUSINESSES. WHY DOES IT TAKE THIS FOR US TO FEEL LIKE HEY THIS GIRL REALLY LOVES ME?WHY DOES A WOMAN HAVE TO GET CAUGHT RED HANDED BEFORE SHE SEES HER MAN REALLY CARES. I THINK THAT SOMETIMES WE ARE JUST SELFISH AND DONT EASILY CONFORM TO THE RULES FOR FEAR OF HEY HES DOING IT TO ME OR SHE DONT CARE ABOUT ME FOR REAL. LETS GET REAL. WHAT DOES IT TAKE? I THINK THAT UNTIL BOTH PARTNERS REACH THAT PLACE WHERE THEY ARE SOBBING TOGETHER AND ARE ABLE TO MOVE FORWARD AND NOT KEEP BRINGING UP THE PAST IT JUST WONT WORK. HOW MANY OF YALL HAVE LOST YOUR MAN TO ANOTHER WOMAN.HOW DID IT MAKE YOU FEEL? HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE LOT YOUR WOMAN TO ANOTHER MAN. DOESNT THAT FEELING EXPOSE YOUR TRUE FEELINGS FOR HER LIKE NOTHING ELSE. I THINK WE SHOULDNT JUDGE. WE ARE HUMANS WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES A LOT OF PEOPLE THROW AWAY LONGTIME FRIENDSHIPS JUST BECAUSET HE TRAIN WENT OFF THE TRACK.ITS STILL A TRAIN.IF YOU PUT IT BACK ON TRACK IT WILL RUN FOR YOU.IF ITS A GOOD TRAIN.SOME OF YOU TRAINS AINT WORTH SHIT.LOL. HOW MANY OF US WOULD LIKE TO SEE YOUR PARTNER WITH SOMEONE ELSE?LETS GET REAL. SOMEONE TOUCHING HER TASTING HER.SOMEONE KISSING HIM MAKING HIM CUM OVER THE HOUSE FOR SOME COOKIES.LOL. LETS TAKE CARE OF OUR INVESTMENTS. THEY DONT HAVE TO BE THERE. COOKING,CLEANING,RELAXING,MASSAGING,PAYING THOSE BILLS,WASHING YOUR DIRTY CAR,CUTTING THE GRASS,KILLING THAT BUG IN THE BASEMENT,WASHING YOUR DRAWERS. LETS LOVE OUR FOLKS.THEY ALL WE REALLY GOT OUT HERE FOR REAL.ANYONE AGREE?

MARLON