I think only one other person reads this shit but me, but who cares. Im just posting because i just want to let some stuff out, get it off of my chest.
I'm tired of seeing all the "nice" girls with asshole boyfriends, or other guys that don't deserve them. For the most part, I don't know the boyfriend or the guy shes interested in, I dont want to seem like someone who prejudges people, but a lot of the time you can get a good read on someone by how they look and act. I can't stand all these guys that think they're gods gift to women, just because they think/know they look good. (I'm far from gay, but I know when a guy looks better than me.)
These cocky guys usually are assholes when away from their gfs, they are hitting on another girl getting her number, just using their gf as another rung on some kind of dating ladder. Here's a line from the Marilyn Manson song User Friendly. "I'm not in love, but im gonna fuck you till someone better comes along." And its pitiful to say it but most guys are like this now.
Plus the fact that these guys lower girls self-esteem, and somewhat ruin them for the nice guys out there. It's all a bunch of bullshit.
Then if asshole guys weren't enough to worry about, you gotta worry about the girls that are "too nice" to let you know how they truly feel. Here's how it goes: you tell a girl that you are interested in her, and she says that you are cute, nice, whatever, and makes you think that she's interested back, but she isn't at all. All she is doing is saying that to make you feel better about yourself temporarily, until you ask about trying to date her and that's when out of the blue the truth comes out. It's either that she was blatantly lying to you or she was telling you the truth the whole time, but even, though you are cute, nice, funny, caring, etc... you aren't her type. So what kind of guy do these girls want? Ugly, mean, humorless, insensitive people? What's the word im looking for? Oh yeah, thats it assholes. What a coincidence, I'm back to the beginning of my rant.
It may be just me but i'd rather have my feelings hurt right away and say I don't have a chance and have me think you are a judgmental bitch than go up and down on an emotional rollercoaster.
If everyone was just honest, we'd all be better off.
to be continued later, im not done yet