a friend of mine wrote a blog recently, and i felt it needed a girls's perspective.  so, here's my take on it...and a caution, i tend to ramble...

yes boys, it is true...if you tell a girl you don't want to get serious, then she's going to be all over you!  i'm basing this not only on my response but many of my girls who have only wanted a boy because he didn't want to be "caught".  there's just something about it.  if a guy tells you he isn't looking for anything and is upfront about what he does want, then he's doing something that many guys have a problem with...telling the TRUTH!  i don't know if this is always the case, but it has to have something to do with it.  also, let's face it, girls like the chase just as much as the boys do!  it's fun!  you have to work at it.  you can't just wear a t-shirt and jeans (even if that happens to be what the boy likes for you to wear); you have to fix the hair and put on make-up.  it gives us something to do, something to work at.  guys that are too into you, and yes it is possible, are kinda annoying.  now, there are extremes on both ends, but there always needs to be some type of challenge.  even though i am admitting to this, doesn't mean i'll treat the situation any differently next time it presents itself.  boys will go on not wanting to be in a commited relationship, and this will continue to make girls find them more attractive!