My good friend E Goddess wrote
"SAYING GOODBYE ALL OVER AGAIN....
Category: Life
We make decisions in life because realistically we know and believe they are the right ones. However, it doesn't necessarily mean we won't end up feeling miserably as a result of our choices. Simply because something is right does not mean it hurts any less...
Saying goodbye is certainly not an easy task, especially after one has shared a precious bond with another. But at some point you realize that staying together will only make matters worse. You have grown apart, see the world from different perspectives, and don't aspire to reach similar goals in the future. With that being said, why does it seem almost impossible to let go-why is it so damn hard?
You're heart feels heavy. Your chest feels like its caving in-you can't breathe. It's almost as if someone you cared deeply for has died and you're suddenly left to mourn and only think of fond memories.
They say that with time all wounds will heal. Now that doesn't seem realistic. The pain may never heal. However, you may learn to deal with it in the future, but you're heart will "4EVA" remain broken.
MY GOOD FRIEND MARDI WROTE:
Real talk. In any case its hard to say good-bye. Whether it be you and someone parting ways or someone leaving this world for the next. In all cases you develop feelings that...lock you in to this person and they become apart of your world. Memories, good or bad, experiences all of it becomes part of your world that just you and that person share and its hard losin a piece in your world in any scence.
I got this in my e-mail today and I would like to share it.
PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR LIFE FOR A REASON
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.!
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant."
I can relate all too well, I love how this girl,.....young lady rather, expresses herself and I love how she loves my input lol! I won't say much on it but when you realize something is a "poison relationship" gotta remove yourself from it or you'll wither with it. Refer to my blog "Truth about me ".......