A few people have been asking me for advice on the women they are pursuing and what they should do.  Now I'll admit I am no expert on women and if any man tells you that they are they are lying cause women are the hardest people to figure out on earth. 

With that being said I can give advice based off experience both from observation and personal.  Now every guy wants a beautiful woman don't let them fool you thinking that looks don't matter cause they do you cannot find a guy that says "oh I'm lookin for a chick that looks like Craig Mack" (if you don't know what he looks like google him) Guys want a woman that turns head and I don't think there is anything wrong with that at all but what I tell guys before they go after this gorgeous woman with all their might they should know a few things.  The first thing I tell them they should know is that they will be competing with a laundry list of different guys.

1. The first type of guy you will be competing with is any random guy who comes close enough to encounter the woman he can be the guy just walking down the street, the guy at the gas station, the guy on myspace, just basically any guy you can think of. These guys really don't pose a threat any real self respecting woman would not go for a guy yelling at them in the street good women want to be approached the right way.

2. The second type of dude is her "friends" now women use this term as somewhat of a code for the guys they have a little interest in, it can be one guy or maybe more depending on the type of woman. Some woman feel that if you are not "officially" with her then she can do what she wants so if you're are new guy trying to get after her these guys are ahead of you in the race. These guys can be passed you just have to put the effort in show her that you like her and that you are different from the others just be honest and real I know most women really appreciate that.

3. The next guy is the ex boyfriend or boyfriends.  These are the men who have a had obviously a prior relationship with the woman they have been to the mountain top and some have been knocked off the mountain and some have just slipped a little bit and she is still very close with him even though they are not together. Always find out how long she has been separated from her boyfriend if it was pretty recent then you have to know her ex is still very much involved unless he has done something drastic but if he is very much involved you have to really bring your "A" game if she allows you to get close to her.

4. The fourth guy is a guy who has to be in her life if he chooses to be and that is her child's father.  Now I know some good fathers out there who can have a good relationship with there child's mother but there are the other men who can't stand to see their "woman" with somebody else because they still feel like she should be with them. I don't really have any experience with this situation but all I can say is be careful with this one. 

5. Let's be honest nowadays it can easily be a woman you are competing with and hey obviously she has something you don't so you better help her remember why she likes men.

Those are just 5 types of people you will compete with part.2 tomorrow if anybody has any input feel free.