Well, life isn't really a hard thing to figure out. The reason why we are here, it's pretty simple. Life is about experiences and what we percieve, achieve, believe and what we do with the analyzation of of what I just mentioned. If you are religious than you believe that what you do while alive will transpire into the otherworld, your heaven, your nirvana, your pastures or whatever you percieve as an afterlife.
Life is difficult because the nuances of experiences seem to inhibit our minds daily patterns and we must adjust to changes that are thrown at us. We have several options when these new experiences are thrown at us. We may either suck it all in and live it, or we may take pieces of the experience and add it to our daily lives, or we may just deem it moot or not to even play into it.
Life is a wonderful thing. Enjoy everyday that you have and percieve it as a gift. You may not have been asked to be born but you are alive and what you make of your life may affect generations, both positively as well as negatively. When you open your eyes in the morning think of it as a miracle. That will make your day go by better.
I thought I would just pass an idea on to you.
Take care
Dom