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Gender: Male
Status: In a Relationship
Age: 31
Sign: Libra

State: California
Country: US
Signup Date: 4/22/2006

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October 18, 2007 - Thursday 
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(THIS BLOG IS VERY VERY OLD....IM IN A RELATIONSHIP,SO READ IT IN THE EYES THAT IM NOT I GUESS.IN OTHER WORDS DONT SAY I HOPE U FIND HER ETC...I ALREADY HAVE,ENJOY)LAST TIME I DID THIS BLOG,PEOPLE WERE A LIL SALTY AT ME.!!!O WELL!!!!!!(SMILES),..THERE WERE SOME THAT LOVED IT,THNK U....AN OFTEN QUESTION ASKED IS, WHAT TYPE OF GIRL DO I LIKE...,OR ,AM I,IN 2..WELL ,SOME OF U R SAYING"I HATE THIS QUESTION AND IM NOT GNNA ANSWER IT,4 UR OWN PERSONAL REASONS,AND THATS UNDERSTOOD,BUT I WILL..................ILL GIVE U WHAT I WOULD LOVE N A PERFECT WORLD.IM PICKY AND DETAILED SO PAY ATTENTTION...................A TYPE THATS,CALM ,COOL, COLLECTIVE,INTELLIGENT,CLASSY,BUT KNWS WHEN 2 BE,MY WIFE ,BEST FRIEND AND NASTY!!!!IT RYMED,BUT I DIDNT MEAN 2,LOL...... SHE DOESNT HAV 2 COOK,BUT IT WOULD BE NICE...I CANT EITHER ,SO WHO AM I 2 LAY THAT REQUIREMENT OUT.HAHA.I DNT DO WELL WITH (PDA)PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION.SO U GTTA LET ME BREATH(AS I WILL LET U.)A LIL SOMETHING HERE N THERE IS COOL......TYPE THATS,PASSIONATE,CAN CARRY A CONVO,OPINIONATED,BUT NOT CONSTANTLY CONFRONTATIONAL.(FOLLOW ME)LOVING,UNDERSTANDING,LAID BACK,FUN,AND SENSITVE.(BUT NOT OVERLY).I DO ENOUGH 4 THE BOTH OF US.LOL...........AND ON SOME PASSIONATE TYPE SHIT,4 THE RECORD!!!!! NOT ON THAT SIMPIN BS...HA!....OKAY,DOESNT MINE SITTING STILL AND ACTUALLY DOING NOTHING,DOESNT MINE QUITE SPELLS,BASICALLY COMFORTABLE,CONFIDENT,STRONG,ENCOURAGING,UPLIFTING,AND SUPPORTIVE..........O..SECURE SECURE SECURE!!!!!!!!!....2 AS CLOSE ,AS COMPLETLEY SECURE,AS" SHE" CAN BE.I CANT STRESS THAT ENOUGH..JEALOUSY IS A AUTOMATIC VIOLATION.!!!!!!!!!KATTY 2 OTHER WOMEN WHEN DUE CREDIT SHOULD BE GIVEN......CANT,AND WON,T BE TOLERATED...IN CONTROL,(OF SELF)AMBITIOUS,OPEN MINDED IN MOST, IF NOT,ALL ASPECTS OF LIFE.ATTENTATIVE,AGGRESSIVE.(SEXUALLY)ETC......CUZ I AM NOT,(UNLESS IM BUZZED, OR REALLY FEELIN THAT ZONE.) TYPE THATS,SPONTANEOUS,LOVES 2 SMILE,LAUGH,POSITIVE,OPTOMISTIC CUZ I AM NOT,LOL.I NEED THAT BALANCE......REMEMBER IN A PERFECT WORLD......................THIS IS NOT AND ADD 2 LOOK 4 NE ONE.!!!!AINT HAPPENING...IM SINGLE AND HAPPY..THIS AINT AN ADD 4 U 2 PORTRAY ,IF ITS NOT U......IN A PERFECT ,AND IMPERFECT WORLD,UR EXPECTATIONS ARE ALWAYS SUPPOSED 2 BE HIGH.........THE TYPE THAT,MAKES ME FEEL WANTED AND NEEDED,BUT NOT 2 THE POINT OF CO DEPENDENCY.....(DO NOT MKE ME UR WORLD,MAJOR TURN OFF)........MAN I CAN GO ON AND ON...SO UNTIL THE MORNING IM TIRED ILL BE ADDING SHIT,LOL......
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*Rachel Eh?*
Rachel Alix

 

Hmmmm......insightful!

Your ideal girlie is going to have a lot to live up to...'in a perfect world'.  I agree with most of it except for the "Cattiness" part....b/c a girl luuuvs to hate (J/K). 

No really, it's nice to see you know what you want...just remember "A diamond with a flaw is worth more than a pebble w/o imperfections".

ps. all bets are off when ur drunk...lol!

 


 
Posted by *Rachel Eh?* on June 5, 2006 - Monday - 4:31 AM
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U CAN BE RICH WIT MONEY & POOR IN HAPPINESS~SHYIMA

 
IT'S FUNNY 4REAL B/CUZ IF YOU READ MY PAGE OR MY BLOG ABOUT ME..I SAY THE SAME EXACT THING'S REPLYING ABOUT AN IDEAL GUY. HOWEVER I DON'T TELL THEM EXACTLY EVERYTHING I LOOK 4 THEN IT WON'T BE NATURAL, THEY'LL TRY 2 BE THAT PERSON INSTEAD OF THEMSELVES YA FEEL.I CAN'T FIND ANY REASON THAT ANYONE SHOULD FEEL SALTY ABOUT THIS BLOG, YOUR BEING VERY TRUTHFUL & UP FRONT..THEN AGAIN WESLEY IN THIS LIFE & WORLD TODAY WE CAN'T PLEASE EVERYBODY!! IF THE TRUTH HURT'S THEN OUCH, BUT IT IS WUT IT IS WITH ME..JUST FROM READING YOUR BLOG YOU SEEM 2 BE A REALLY COOL GUY, I'M SPEAKING 2 YOU AS A PERSON 1ST NOT THE GUY BEHIND THE LIGHT'S CAMERA & ACTION..I CAN SEE PAST THE FAME & SEE & EXCEPT PEOPLE 4 WHO THEY TRULY ARE..SO YOU SEEM 2 HAVE IT ALL TOGETHER..SO WHEN YOU DO FIND THAT SPECIAL SOMETHING OR SOMEONE OUT THERE, THAT NOURISH YOUR SOUL & BRING YOU JOY CARE ANOUGH ABOUT YOURSELF 2 MAKE ROOM 4 IT YOU DESERVE IT..JUST JUDGING OF WUT I READ YOU SEEM 2 BE A GREAT CHARACTER WIAT..THEN AGAIN YOU PLAY SO MANY DIFFERENT CHARACTERS IN MOVIES I WOULDN'T KNOW WHICH ONE WAS YOU LMAO.. I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST & HAPPY SUCCESS 2 COME :D

TAKE CARES,
SHYIMA
 
Posted by U CAN BE RICH WIT MONEY & POOR IN HAPPINESS~SHYIMA on January 2, 2008 - Wednesday - 1:58 AM
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Car-layy.©
Juicy C

 
damn! yo ideal women is alot of stuff
 
Posted by Car-layy.© on June 5, 2006 - Monday - 5:03 AM
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™MS. CARI ™

 
Anyways I think that the way you describe your woman is how every woman should already be, but anyways that's just me...............
 
Posted by ™MS. CARI ™ on June 7, 2006 - Wednesday - 8:54 PM
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1/2 man 1/2 amazing

 
what up wes, this ya boy bigmoo  u about to have all the lady doing a 360 peoples well i'm glad u telling them someboby gotta do it..peace
 
Posted by 1/2 man 1/2 amazing on June 10, 2006 - Saturday - 3:59 AM
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Nicole Williams
Nicole Williams

 

That list ain't nothing. It only seems like a lot to a person that feels they can't meet it. Reads like me to a "T".  Keep your standards high and have faith in them and that will woman will be there for you. here i am baby.  LOL

When's the next Houston's drop in? I'm Hungry.


 
Posted by Nicole Williams on June 13, 2006 - Tuesday - 6:20 PM
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Nicole Williams
Nicole Williams

 

 
Posted by Nicole Williams on June 13, 2006 - Tuesday - 6:22 PM
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Nicole Williams
Nicole Williams

 

 
Posted by Nicole Williams on June 13, 2006 - Tuesday - 6:23 PM
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twitter.com/JessicaLaShawn THE JOURNALIST
Jessica LaShawn

 

Lord have mercy if that isnt a God-I-NEED-This Wish list I dont know what it is. You didnt name anything to left field that would make this woman 3 steps ahead of super woman. I hope you get what you want but most importantly what you need and deserve. You might be cutting yourself short Kid. Told you I's stop through! Darn Good read young chap!

 

Blessings King


 
Posted by twitter.com/JessicaLaShawn THE JOURNALIST on June 17, 2006 - Saturday - 8:08 PM
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MissVintageGold♥

 

You have a right to be picky u just dont want to be with any ole girl. I know because im picky too so dont feel bad lol. I have a list of my own qualifications lol.


 
Posted by MissVintageGold♥ on June 17, 2006 - Saturday - 8:52 PM
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★IM A QUEEN YA DIG★

 

I though that was tha shit, b/c most people don't think like that, and i luved it

              ur's truly: **~BROWN EYE~**


 
Posted by ★IM A QUEEN YA DIG★ on June 18, 2006 - Sunday - 11:29 PM
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@iDreamOfMiMi ♡

 
NiCE!! But I think u should check out MY blog on what a wifey is .... my definition is WAAAAYYY betr :-P [[hatin, but 4real tho ...]]
 
Posted by @iDreamOfMiMi ♡ on June 20, 2006 - Tuesday - 8:32 PM
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Jasmine
Jazz Daniel

 
Well here i am!all u need rite here!
 
Posted by Jasmine on June 20, 2006 - Tuesday - 8:40 PM
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Jasmine
Jazz Daniel

 

 
Posted by Jasmine on June 20, 2006 - Tuesday - 8:40 PM
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They Call Me Queen P

 
HAVE YOU BEEN FOLLOWING ME?!..YOU JUST DESCRIBED ME AS THO YOU'VE KNOWM ME FOR 20YEARS!!..BUT NAH, FOR REAL ITS GOOD THAT YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT SO THAT YOU'LL GET IT. I LIKE YOUR THOUGHTS AND HOW YOU DESCRIBE HER!!
 
Posted by They Call Me Queen P on June 27, 2006 - Tuesday - 6:28 AM
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*Its Ma Birthday Crabby Bitches!!!*
Sheena G.

 
Damn! That's a lot of WISHES! That's why I said what I said cuz I'm a SISTA! Turst me, there r sum REAL SISTAS out there! Well, GOOD LUCK findin' her****
 
Posted by *Its Ma Birthday Crabby Bitches!!!* on June 27, 2006 - Tuesday - 9:36 PM
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You have a long list, but i feel you when it comes to what we expect from our mate.  I'm so damn picky, and i have high expectations as well.  You've got to these days.  I can never get it all in one person.  They've all come short, somehow.  I guess that's why i keep a team...stay pimpin!lol.  At least your honest and you know what you want.


 
Posted by on July 19, 2006 - Wednesday - 12:32 AM
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PrimaVana
Ivana D.

 

I don't bump into much picky guys and thats exactly why I'm single. I admire a picky guy because it tells me that they aren't into almost anything with a vaginal section. Your thoughts about your ideal woman is well thought of.


 
Posted by PrimaVana on July 30, 2006 - Sunday - 5:35 AM
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JESS

 
Bro seriously this is the funniest shit I have read in a while.  Well hey I'm with you...seriously too many people settle and I agree at all times keep your standards HIGH!!!!  I'm single and love it!!!!  A lot of my friends settled for guys they went to high school with (are you kidding me)...I graduated with a BBA in International Business have my own business and I am still single.  I think at age 25 women have not fully recognized who they are and women need to concentrate on focusing on themselves and building up their character so they are not jealous or have low self esteems.  You can be the most beautiful girl and if your man wants to cheat then he will.  Look at Dave Navarro (not cute) and Carmen Electra (she's HOT) and he cheated on her!  I think the important thing is for a woman to recognize who they are in Christ and once you have figured that out....then no one can touch you!  Then, when the man we are compatible with arrives we can truly say "you either like me or you don't...it is what it is...and if you can't handle me then....peace!"  Seriously though that was hilarious I was sitting here laughing my ass off at your blog!  I agree focus on yourself, your career and soon enough the "perfect woman for you" will show up unexpectedly!  Be blessed son!
 
Posted by JESS on August 1, 2006 - Tuesday - 7:28 AM
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WHOS HIRING IN NY

 
damm you really gets deep with this. i am like looking for all the same things you ask for in my ideal mate. makes me think about my life motto. "never settle for something less if you know you deserve and can have more" i live by these words. probably why im still single. i wont settle for less. it defines me. not that i dont do alot of compromising. but there has been no one so far to break past that line for me and stay there. i liked the part about you being not sexually aggressive. i always wonder if guys like that in a woman, or if its a turn off. nice. food for thought. i like that.
 
Posted by WHOS HIRING IN NY on August 9, 2006 - Wednesday - 6:04 AM
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God's Precious gift
Tia Winchester

 

well like you said your not accepting any offers but I do hope you find her

 

but I think I fit some of those I am classy laid back intelligent calm cool and collective some times and I can be a wife even though I aint never been married before lol and nasty heck yeah I can I am a scorp so of coarse I can be a nasty freak lol j/k but if you want nasty we'd have to discuss that in private

and good I cant cook but will be cooking soon

and I'll give you a man some space because I sometimes get moody too and need me some me time as well

passionate duh I am a scorp and every sensitive and loving laid back I can carry a convo but not right a way though but once I warm up to you watch out

I love to Encourage ppl

I am very strong

 

 


 
Posted by God's Precious gift on August 10, 2006 - Thursday - 6:03 AM
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*ALLSTATE*

 

uve jus described me.lol

 


 
Posted by *ALLSTATE* on September 8, 2006 - Friday - 4:20 AM
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APHRODITE

 
Looks like i fit most of that too bad your not looking
 
Posted by APHRODITE on September 19, 2006 - Tuesday - 8:06 AM
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Toya

 
it seems like some women that commented are advertising, lol...lames.
 
Posted by Toya on September 20, 2006 - Wednesday - 3:50 AM
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Holla atcha gurl! What's up?

 

We tend to think that there is always something "better" for us out there.

Your list is not impossible, not by far, in fact, it is very doable.  But, please make sure that what you have put on your list is what you really want and when you get it (and you will), appreciate it and accept that it IS your "better" and most of all, do not take advantage of it. 

We need to do away with the "never miss your water until your well runs dry" saying because, if you let your "better" go for something else, and then you get her back, she won't be the same...parts of your list won't be there anymore and  you can't fault her for that.

I know there is no such thing as a "perfect world" per se', but once you find that love, you two together can have your "perfect world" as long as both want it, respect it, protect it and most of all, love it and each other.

I wish you luck.


 
Posted by Holla atcha gurl! What's up? on September 20, 2006 - Wednesday - 11:26 PM
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KISMET
Daisy Tavares

 

LOL that sound's like me LOL **JOKING**  but that same description that ur giving 4 a woman can also be used 4 a man crazy hunh LOL b/c while I was read this I thought "these r some good qualities for both a guy or girl". Got me thinking LOL **SMILE**


 
Posted by KISMET on November 14, 2006 - Tuesday - 6:54 AM
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♥{Fly Chica...We The Baddest!}♥

 
I LUV WHAT U WROTE N WHILE ALOT OF PEOPLE WOULD SAY "OH U JUST ABOUT DESCRIBED ME" THEY'RE WRONG B/C NOT EVERYONE CAN HAVE ALL OF THOSE QUALITIES...I'M NOT SAYIN THAT ITS IMPOSSIBLE 2 FIND SOMEONE WITH THESE QUALITIES B/C NOTHIN IS IMPOSSIBLE N IMPOSSIBLE IS NOTHIN BUT IT WOULD BE RARE 2 FIND SOMEONE WHO MEETS THESE STANDARDS N I JUST HOPE U FIND THAT PERSON IF U HAVENT ALREADY...WHEN U GET THE TIME(CUZ I KNOW UR A BUSY MAN) FEEL FREE 2 READ MY BLOGS B/C I'M A POET N I LUV 2 EXPRESS MY FEELINGS WIT THE WORLD AS MUCH AS U DO...LUV U MUCH *MONA*
 
Posted by ♥{Fly Chica...We The Baddest!}♥ on May 28, 2007 - Monday - 10:49 PM
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Presleine

 
Where is the application? Cuz' that is all me!!!!!! If you don't mind long distance, i travel a lot. I love 2 travel! xxx
 
Posted by Presleine on May 28, 2007 - Monday - 11:15 PM
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SEXI_MZ. TATTOO~'XTRAORDINAIRE!!!~

 
I LOOOOOVE THIS ONE!!! I BEEN WONDERING ABOUT THE ANSWERS TO THIS ONE SINCE I WAS A LIL' GIRL IN THE SINGLE DIGITS!!! WOW!!!......ABSOLUTELY AMAZING!!! AND THE MOST KILLING PART OF IT ALL........IS THAT U JUST DESCRIBED ME TO A T!!! NO B.S.!!! WOW!!! EVENTHOUGH, I HAVE TO ADMIT THAT MAKING U MY WORLD WOULDNT' BE AS BAD AS YA THINK!!! EVEN IF I AM NEVER BLESS'D WITH UR PRESENCE AND THE PRIVILEGE TO MEET U IN PERSON SOMEDAY.........U JUST MADE MY DAYS THAT MUCH MORE SPECIAL!!!! U REALLY DID DESCIBE ME.....SCORPIO!!! AND JUST TO LET U KNOW, MR., SCORPIO IS UR PERFECT BALANCE IN THIS IMPERFECT WORLD!!! SO U CAN FEEL FREE TO BE JUST AS PICKY AS UR LITTLE HEART DESIRES....YA PERFECT GIRL DOES EXIST!!! I HOPE U DO CONTINUE THIS BLOG, BECAUSE I WOULD LOVE FOR U TO GO ON AND ON ON THIS ONE!!! U JUST LIFTED MY SPIRITS WITH THIS ONE!!! HIGHLY ENLIGHTENING!!! NEVER WORRY ABOUT THE ONES THAT WERE LEFT FEELING SALTY AT THIS ONE, U CAN'T HELP WHO U R AND THE TYPE OF WOMAN THAT UR HEART AND SOUL DESIRES!!! THAT IS WHAT MAKES ONE JUST THAT MUCH MORE DESIRABLE....WHEN THEY KNOW THEMSELVES AND WHO/WHAT THEY WANT/EXPECT OUT OF LIFE!!! THAT IS ONE OF THE GREATEST TURN ONS TO ME!!! DAMN NEAR LIKE FORPLAY!!! I HOPE UR INTO ASTROLOGY.....I SENT U SOME INFORMATION! AND ABOVE IS SCORPIO THAT U DESCRIBED ALL THE WAY!!! SO WHEN U RESPOND TO THIS ONE....I WANNA KNOW IF U BELIEVE IN/ARE FAMILIAR WITH ASTROLOGY AND WHETHER U REALIZED THAT U WERE TALKING ABOUT A REAL PERSON THAT DOES EXIST?!! NOT NECESSARILY SAYING ME, JUST IN GENERAL. CAN'T WAIT TO HEAR FROM YA AGAIN!!! LOVIN' YA LOTZ, IT'Z KELZ DA INC!!!
 
Posted by SEXI_MZ. TATTOO~'XTRAORDINAIRE!!!~ on August 2, 2007 - Thursday - 12:22 AM
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I am so janet jackson, anita baker & patti labelle

 
Darn...Sounds like me...well, actually...it is me...how I show up 2 months 2 late with you aready taken...snaps fingers...everything happens for a reason...do you except the same qualities in a female friend?...if so *raising my hand*
 
Posted by I am so janet jackson, anita baker & patti labelle on August 12, 2007 - Sunday - 11:19 PM
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YOU KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVED YOU KIM!

 
Okay I know this is old, but it's new to me, bc it's the first time I am seeing it. Wes J, you need a dag on beating. When in love there are alot of things you compromise on, I don't care what anyone says. The first thing that should be on your list is that you find someone that knows how to be on the same page with you spiritually. When two people can pray together they can stay together and the rest is just blissfully stimulating. If you haven't tried it, I suggest you look for that woman that can take you there and once you find her. Come back and thank a sista! A spiritual sista is all that and more. But on the real, you are what you attract. That's in a perfect / imperfect world.

xox, nite
 
Posted by YOU KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVED YOU KIM! on December 5, 2007 - Wednesday - 9:10 AM
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♫ ♪ SongBeam ♫ ♪
Kemesha Vassell

 
I realized in life u learn as u grow....experience if u will the outside of what u want. That's when u realize what u want. I think its great that u know exactly what u want in a female and, on the real tip, I hope for u the best. Most of what u want, I would assume, have to do with your lifestyle, that part on jealousy, so I get that very clearly. Im optimistic (not trying to sound like the girl u would want to be with even though those mannerisms are mine. Seriously though Im just conversing, not trying. I hope u got that), seriously, that u would get that female though we are not in 'a perfect world'.
 
Posted by ♫ ♪ SongBeam ♫ ♪ on December 6, 2007 - Thursday - 12:46 AM
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*~*Lady Dromov*~*
Ms Zina

 
wow....very interesting...i think that what u want in a woman is not impossible in an imperfect world..jus a lil rare to find. I feel like a woman should be @ least 90% of what u described anyway. Well good luck to u on ur journey to finding her, u seem like u deserve it. But..make sure that u can be all of this to her as well..;)
 
Posted by *~*Lady Dromov*~* on December 11, 2007 - Tuesday - 11:34 PM
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Linda
Linda lalala

 
WOW Wesley you really broke it down!!! LOL!! but hey I don't blame you! You can't just date anybody!! Thats how a lot of people end up in a bad relationship! so being picky can be good in some sense! lol
 
Posted by Linda on December 11, 2007 - Tuesday - 11:51 PM
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Angela

 
HMMMMM...INTERESTING.....your perfect woman sounds like my perfect man.....GOOD LUCK!......I have not found him yet. For some reason every man introduces me to their representative ...not themselves...lol <good luck boo>
 
Posted by Angela on December 11, 2007 - Tuesday - 11:58 PM
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"The Queen Of Drama Scene Magazine"

 
You know Wes...I give you all the props in the world on this one. I am thankful that thier are men that still want that!!! I have been all of that and then some and gets no love. You have brought some light to this darkness. Ia glad to hear that you are happy!
 
Posted by "The Queen Of Drama Scene Magazine" on December 12, 2007 - Wednesday - 12:29 AM
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BROWNIE

 
What happened to what u like physically? hmmmm?
 
Posted by BROWNIE on December 13, 2007 - Thursday - 2:09 AM
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TANYAH M. WARD "This Is No Ordinary LOVE"

 
Thanks for the SHOUT OUT...I thought I'd peep out your thoughts (smile).

I like that you are detailed and specific, that's something we're not enough of. Just saying "I want a good woman", is not enough. When we pray, God wants us to be specific and ask for what we want and for what we need in a mate. Never apologize for being specific...when we're not, is where we get into trouble, I should know...lol Check.Ya.Later

Peace, Love, & Many Blessings...

TW
 
Posted by TANYAH M. WARD "This Is No Ordinary LOVE" on December 13, 2007 - Thursday - 2:42 AM
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Sister, Sinner, Soldier, Saint
Michelle Fraser

 
Hey Wesley,

Reading your blog made me think of something my grandmother told me once. She said everyone has thier list of requirments for a mate, she/he must be.............................add your list here. Then she told me the list is the perfect way to know you are really and truely in love. Because my grandmother told me, when you meet that person, the one that was seemingly made just for you, the one that gives you that feeling you used to think you had known, but in truth you had not. You meet that person that makes you realize you have never really been in love before, the first thing you will do is........ throw away the list. The precious list will have no meaning and you will for once throw out the list, instead of them.


Believe me, When I met my fiance, I had a list, he doesnt even come close to my list, but it works and we are very much in love and we fit, it is a quiet knowledge that makes you smile to yourself and with one another, where you know that if anyone else had these particular qualities it would drive you nuts,deal breaker after deal breaker, I am a virgo, very neat and tidy. OK Im an anal retentive neat freak, I admit it. haha. and my man, god love him is the kind who leaves cabinets and drawers open, doesnt put the lid back on anything, not tightly anyway. Doesnt put away his clean laundry. Anyone but him I would have been done with. I always said and it was clearly noted on my list that he must be neat and organized. hahaha. The things that drive you crazy when others do them, somehow in him/her are cute or dont bother you at all, just makes you shake your head and grin to yourself as you see that they have done something that would have driven you up the wall if anyone else did it and those are the moments that you just know. He/She is the one. My man was the kind who would break up with a girl cause she accidentally passed gas or chewed with her mouth open even once. Me, I loved being single and by my self so I was always looking for something wrong so I could hide out in my house by myself again. Love was stronger than both our convictions and our pickyness... all that. When love shows up on your door, you will drop that list and realize the person on that list does not exsist, but real love does. and when she is standing in front of you and you can't remember even one thing on your list for a moment. You'll know. Good luck to you Wesley, hope to hear from you the day you throw your list away. Oh yeah and Hope you have a happy holiday.

Best Wishes,
Michelle
 
Posted by Sister, Sinner, Soldier, Saint on December 15, 2007 - Saturday - 1:02 AM
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CRIMSON aka smoov CRIM-i-nal

 
I'LL JUST RESPOND BY SAYING.... HEHEHE! I'LL LET YOU FIGURE THAT ONE OUT ON YOUR OWN. SOME OF YOUR WANTS ARE THE SAME AS MINE AND SOME DESCRIBE ME. DAYUUUUM, HAVE WE MET...LOL! IT'S ALMOST SCARY. ESPECIALLY THE PART ABOUT FEELING WANTED. ALL TOO OFTEN I DON'T GET THAT, OR IT STARTS OFF THAT WAY, THEN... WELL, YOU KNOW. OH WELL.
 
Posted by CRIMSON aka smoov CRIM-i-nal on December 22, 2007 - Saturday - 8:58 PM
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♥BRANDON'S PARADISE♥!!!

 
U KNOW IT'S GOOD TO BE PICKY BUT NOT 2 PICKY...THATS NOT ALOT SO IF A WOMEN THINKS THATS MUCH, THEN MAYB SHE IS NOT NONE OF THOSE CHARACTERISTICS...ALSO, SOMETIMES UR SOUL MATE MAY NOT BE WHAT U EXPECTED ALSO...SOMETIMES TO GET UR TRUE LOVE, U HAVE TO GO OUTSIDE THE BOX, SORT OF SPEAK...BUT AT THE SAME TIME U DON'T WANT TO SETTLE 4 LESS..A WOMEN SHOULDNT HAVE TO LOOK FOR A MAN EITHER...THE BIBLE SAYS A MAN THAT FINDS HIM A WOMEN FINDS A GOOD...UR NOT LOOKING, BUT AT THE SAME TIME MAKE SURE U DON'T PASS UP THAT SPECIAL ONE...ITS EASY 4 WOMEN AND ME ALSO 2 SAY THAT WE MEET THOSE CHARACTERISTICS...BUT ANYONE CAN SAY WHAT THEY ARE, IT ALL ABOUT UR ACTIONS...SO INSTEAD OF TELLING ANY MAN THAT I AM ALL THOSE THINGS...I RATHER SHOW THEM AND THEN THAT MAN CAN SEE THAT ITS GENUINE...WELL HOPE ONE DAY U FINE THAT PERSON...UR A VERY NICE (FINE) MAN...DONT THINK U WUD HAVE ANY PROBLEMS.....PS U NEED TO PUT A BLOG WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE UR GIRL TO LOOK LIKE?????
 
Posted by ♥BRANDON'S PARADISE♥!!! on January 2, 2008 - Wednesday - 6:59 AM
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SEXI_MZ. TATTOO~'XTRAORDINAIRE!!!~

 
ME!!!...ME!!!...ME!!!....EVERY LAST WORD IS ME!!! SERIOUSLY!!! I PROMISE AND GUARANTEE!!! IT'S ALL ME AND MORE!!! ..........SO WHAT ADDRESS AM I HAVING SANTA SHIP ME TO JUST FOR U?! LOL! THIS IS MY FAVORITE BLOG....EVER! ....PERFECT! DO MORE LIKE THIS! LOVIN' YA FOR LIFE, IT'Z YA KELZ DA INC!

CUM AND GET ME NAH, YA HEAR!? LOL!

P.S. BE ON THE LOOK-OUT FOR MY VERSION OF THIS BLOG ON MY PAGE....I'LL REMIND U WHEN I POST IT CUZ I GOTTA HEAR YA OPINION OF MINE!...K, MR. WES?
 
Posted by SEXI_MZ. TATTOO~'XTRAORDINAIRE!!!~ on January 10, 2008 - Thursday - 9:56 AM
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Miss Ashley
Ashley K

 
I am so GLAD that you used the word WIFE and not WIFEY!! i hate the word wifey! why? Wifey means "like wife" hece the "y" added to the end (salty, messy, etc) wifey is not a compliment to me. When a guy says a female is "wifey" material he is basically saying she is good enough to be like a wife(sex, cook, clean, shack up, ) but NOT good enough to marry. Being called "wifey" is the biggest insult. So a big THANKS goes to you Wes! for once again keepin that respect for women and I hope you have that special someone. God bless and have a happy holiday season!
 
Posted by Miss Ashley on January 10, 2008 - Thursday - 10:09 AM
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It's BeE BiTcH

 
......ok the world can go on and still that person can be....... but should they believe in love?.... and if they do to what....point...some are in love with being in love......


wat'chu think?
Wes....... oh Happy Holidays DANKE DANKE
 
Posted by It's BeE BiTcH on January 10, 2008 - Thursday - 10:09 AM
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Xscape

 
with all that being said, damm i still have that weakness for sweetness. damm you are one fine brother!! LOL.
 
Posted by Xscape on January 10, 2008 - Thursday - 10:15 AM
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PA55ION

 
Wow....your ideal woman is me. :)
 
Posted by PA55ION on January 14, 2008 - Monday - 10:06 AM
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5 Star Bitch
D wa Brown

 
I AGREE WITH YOU ON THAT ON YOUR IDEAL WOMAN.BECAUSE WUZ 1 MANS TRASH IS ANOTHER MANS PRIZE.AND WUZ SLIVER IS NOT ALWAY GOLD SO EVERYONE HAVE TO FIND THAT PERSON THAT THEY HAVE SOMETHING SPECIAL WITH.AND THINGS THEY BOTH LIKE TO DO 2GETHER SOMETIME EVEN WHEN YOU NEED YOU SPACE. HOLLA
 
Posted by 5 Star Bitch on January 30, 2008 - Wednesday - 10:21 AM
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♥BR@ZY B@RBI3♥ (I'M PR3GN@NT!)
Beauty Leonard

 
WELL I KNO YOUR IN A RELATIONSHIP BUT IF YOU GOTTA ANY FRIENDS OR ASOCIATES BOTH MALE AND FEMALE THAT ARE LOOKING FOR THA SAMETHING YOU JUST WROTE TELL THEM TO HOLLA AT ME CAUSE I FIT THA DISCRIPTION DOWN TO A T AND I'M LOOKING FOR MY MR. OR EVEN MZ. RIGHT.
 
Posted by ♥BR@ZY B@RBI3♥ (I'M PR3GN@NT!) on February 5, 2008 - Tuesday - 5:49 AM
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