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	Sandra Sandra Moffat	I hate to say it, but I have a feeling this is a side effect of our current age. I've been like that for about the past 6 months now and am actually going through the exact same thing right now. What's worse is that's its a decision that really shouldn't be taking this much thought! I hope it doesn't soon make whether to wear socks or not into something I need to consider a week in advance! LOL     Posted by Sandra on Tuesday, April 21, 2009 - 12:14 AM [Reply to this]

	barbara	i think the thing to do is move somewhere hot so whether to wear sox is not a decision i will need to make.... but then the question is..... where to move???? lol i'm glad other people experience this - i was seriously worried about my mind!!   Posted by barbara on Tuesday, April 21, 2009 - 10:10 PM [Reply to this]

	N	No. Ill buy something thdn later i wish i had gotten something else. It goes with everthing i do. I cant stand it.   Posted by N on Tuesday, April 21, 2009 - 12:20 AM [Reply to this]

	ROCK HARD ARTIST MGMT.	Maybe it is because you are now in the centre of the country and either way you look it is the same? Or you really do miss being in the Centre of the Universe?   Posted by ROCK HARD ARTIST MGMT. on Tuesday, April 21, 2009 - 12:49 AM [Reply to this]

	pecovgfx	Hi there! I guess most of the people are going through this these days.. it happens to me all the time too.. The TV is doing this to us all.   Posted by pecovgfx on Tuesday, April 21, 2009 - 4:10 AM [Reply to this]

	barbara	but the question is "how do i know what i truly want"???????   Posted by barbara on Tuesday, April 21, 2009 - 10:08 PM [Reply to this]

	leloftmusic	Make the decision and briefly write it down. When you change your mind the following day, reject it and stick to the decision you wrote down the day before. Why? Because your first answer was the correct answer...remember exams? Cheers from Lancashire, England luv!   Posted by leloftmusic on Tuesday, April 21, 2009 - 9:54 PM [Reply to this]

	barbara	i've tried the pro and con list - there are equal merits on either side! both lead to great results!!   Posted by barbara on Tuesday, April 21, 2009 - 10:09 PM [Reply to this]

	Ben Sigston	Oh Lord! That is the story of my life! The only advice that I've had on the subject is: as long as you make the best possible choice given all the information available, then you've done the best you can do. Wether or not it turns out to be the right or wrong choice is inconsequential. Lol That still doesn't address going back on decisions though. Hmmmm.......     Posted by Ben Sigston on Thursday, April 23, 2009 - 4:51 PM [Reply to this]

	barbara	we need wine for this conversation ben. but then i couldn't decide if i want white or red......     Posted by barbara on Thursday, April 23, 2009 - 6:18 PM [Reply to this]

	Andrew Peel Andrew Peel	My advice would be to be still lie down and visualise each alternative as a movie - the movie is very important - as if the decision has been made and see which way The Source guides you. If you feel attracted to one more than the other then do with that. It's the difference between 'doing' - they analysis paralysis over what to do and 'being in the moment' and going with that. If you find this is a common prolem there is a technique you can learn called EFT - Emotional Freedom Technique at http://www.emofree.com/ I have shingles at the moment and it manages the pain without drugs amazingly well. I am sure a talent like you will have no problem picking up how to use it. Thanks for being a friend - to your wealth and success Andrew Peel     Posted by Andrew Peel on Tuesday, April 28, 2009 - 5:31 AM [Reply to this]

	Sean	If everyday you change your mind about a decision, then its either not the right time to make the decision, or you should not worry about it and let fate make the decision when it is the right time.   Posted by Sean on Wednesday, May 13, 2009 - 5:51 PM [Reply to this]

	barbara	you mean just coast? that's not my nature.   Posted by barbara on Thursday, May 14, 2009 - 3:25 PM [Reply to this]

	Cgyj	Tough to say. Either go with your gut, flip a coin, rock, paper, scissors. Or use logic & reason. Or do what a collegue of mine would do at work when making managerial decisions....put a hand over an eye and squint with the other while he licks his middle finger and puts it up in the air and says " the wind is blowing that way!" Then he picks something? What that goofy technique has to do with anything I still don't know? But he was an odd dude? By the way his odd technique helped him move up the ladder at work. But it also helped him get fired. Lol I'm not laughing at the fact that he got fired but just the fact that if you live by the sword you might also die by it. He was a goofball. I don't think this advice helped you out any but I just started drinking Cabernet Sauvignon so the fact that I am still able to type and not misspell everything is a miracle. Give me about......mmmm 5 more minutes. Lol your pal in the San Francisco Bay area John.   Posted by Cgyj on Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 6:31 AM [Reply to this]

	Cgyj	colleague I think I misspelled it and something else in my last message. Oh I think the wine is getting to me.   Posted by Cgyj on Sunday, September 20, 2009 - 6:33 AM [Reply to this]

	barbara	so basically wine seems to be the answer.... thanks all!!   Posted by barbara on Tuesday, September 22, 2009 - 1:10 AM [Reply to this]

	Cgyj	Yes. Wine is the answer. Lol One of your earlier comments someone mentioned wine and then you wondered white or red? I say red. My sister says white. So let's see she likes to watch Monk. I like the new version of Battlestar Galactica so.... I guess you can pick by which t.v. show you like more and then pick that wine. Lol and if you've never seen either? You're out of luck. Lol Ok rock, paper, scissor. Ready one, two, three. I have rock. So If I win it's red wine. If you win it's white. :)  Or pick a picture     Picture #1. Red, Picture #2. White. Lol take care John.   Posted by Cgyj on Tuesday, September 22, 2009 - 1:44 AM [Reply to this]

	barbara	i go for #1 all the way! thanks for the explanation!!   Posted by barbara on Wednesday, September 23, 2009 - 4:15 AM [Reply to this]

	Cgyj	I agree. #1 is the cool sexy photo. The ladies just can't resist. Lol Take care your pal John.   Posted by Cgyj on Wednesday, September 23, 2009 - 6:05 AM [Reply to this]