Ok why is it that dating is such a stressful and horrible thing for some people? Think of it this way.....it is like shopping for shoes. You sometimes have to try on several pairs to find the one that really fits you. You may buy the wrong pair many many times before you slip on the pair that makes you wonder where they have been all your life. If you don't keep trying them on, you will never find that perfect pair. And just like a great pair of shoes, you have to take care of it in order to make it last. You can't drag them through the mud and expect them to stick with you forever. There may be a few blisters involved, but from what I have seen it is worth the effort and pain to find the perfect fit. So grab some bandaids and keep moving in the right direction.