Does hurting me really make you happy?
I try to live my life without letting hurtful people affect me. One thing you might know about me is I can’t stand it when people don’t like me. I don’t see a reason for it. I would never hurt anyone intentionally and I don’t go humpin other woman’s boyfriends lol. If you ask me I think I am a pretty nice chick. Though I have accidentally hurt others in the past, I have always been the first to admit my mistakes and apologized for what I may have done. I am only human but I have never done anything to cause anyone to “hate” me.
I realize now that no matter how nice I may be or how much I do for others, there will always be someone out there that dislikes me. With that said, I have a few girls that dislike me and go out of their way to try and hurt me, talk badly about me to others, or make it a point to spy on my life. The ironic part is half of them did me wrong, friends who would rather sleep with my boyfriend, and spiteful woman who say they are my friends but are always battling to be “better” then me. Who ever said there has to be competition? Then there are those crazy ex girlfriends who just can’t seem to let the past go and the ones who can’t even give you an honest reason, usually it’s because their friend doesn’t like me. A little immature don’t you think?
Most of you would call them “haters” and we all have them. What you may not realize is they are usually very similar. Here are a few personality traits that they usually have:
-They all claim to hate drama, but spend literally 50% of their time talking badly about others, or trying to hurt and fight with people.
-They usually accuse you of what they are guilty of. For example “she is fake, she is a drama queen, she is a bitch, and she did this or that” ect…
-They will say anything they can to make everyone they know/meet dislike you, even if what they are saying is untrue.
-They will say and do hurtful things to people and for whatever reason they actually think it will make them feel better about themselves.
-They claim to be the happiest people in the world, but are never truly happy because instead of forgiving people or letting things go they spend their time hating people or being angry about something that half the time doesn’t even make sense.
-They usually jump from friend to friend, or relationship to relationship because no one ever wants to spend their days with someone with such an ugly heart.
-Most of them think they are Mike Tyson or something when in reality they are all talk.
-They are always in competition with the world thinking they are better then everyone else.
Those are just a few things I noticed. What I just can’t understand is why? Why would you live your life like that??? How could my tears make you laugh? How could hurting me make you satisfied?? Instead of spending your time with so much hatred and anger why don’t you just get over it and live your life for yourself? To me is sad. Unfortunately there will always be “Mean Girls”, but I believe in Karma and Karma will be a bigger bitch then any of them could ever be.
My advice it to just ignore them. Believe me it works, eventually they will get tired of not getting a reaction and will leave you alone. In honesty I believe that those who spend their time hating you or trying to hurt you, are those who just envy you and your life. Just a thought….