He's Fine...But is He Saved?

Reading Group Questions

The following questions are designed to enhance a group discussion in regards to the novel, He'sFine...But is He Saved? By Kimberley Brooks. Each question is
followed by suggested Scriptures which are meant to aid in answering the questions.

1. In Chapter 1, Michelle and Liz witness to a fine man at a public restaurant. Was this inappropriate? (Mark 16:15; 2 Timothy 4:2)
   

2. In Chapter 2, Sandy's Ex-boyfriend and former bed partner stops by. Should she have agreed to his visit? Why, or why not?
   (Matthew 26:41; Ephesians 4:27, 1 Thessalonians 5:22)
   

3. Should a woman who desires marriage chase after or make initial advancements toward a man in order to reach her goal? (Proverbs 18:22)
   

4. Liz's character appears judgmental and overbearing at times. How should she have behaved towards her initially unsaved, promiscuous mother?(Matthew 5:16, Ephesians 5:2, Ephesians 6:2)
   

5. Michelle thought Pierre Dupree was, “The One,” and it turns out that he was anything but. Was Pierre a wolf in sheep's clothing?
   (Matthew 12:33, James 1:22)

6. Sandy thought Carter was her “Boaz,” because he was fine, rich, and of high prestige. He said he was saved, but was he really? Also, do you think a man's tax bracket should determine whether or not he is marriage material? (James 1:22, James 1:26)
   

7. In Chapter 12, Michelle and Pierre make out on the couch until Michelle finally stops him from going any further. When it comes to sex outside of marriage, is there such a thing as, “it just happened?” How can one avoid sexually tempting situations?
   (Ephesians 4:27, 1 Thessalonians 5:22)
   
   

8. After one has fallen into sexual sin, what is a Christian woman to do?
   (1 John 1:9, 1 John 2:1, Proverbs 26:11, Philippians 3:14)
   

9. What role do Christian Friendships and associations play in ones spiritual development? Does it help to have a fellow sister to lean on and be there as a friend? (Proverbs 27:17, Psalm 1:1)
   

10. If a brotha approaches a single, Christian woman for a date, what should be the first thing she should find out before proceeding?
    (2 Corinthians 6:14)