So why is it that people can tell you how great of a person you are, and yet, no one wants to give you a chance at anything?

I'm not looking for a relationship, per se, but I am tired of hearing how great I am, how horrible the ex-wife was, for lying, cheating, and leaving, yet...I'm alone.

I'm depressed, and people tell me I need to stop being so heavily depressed, but they don't understand what I'm going through, even though they believe they know some of it...they don't.

I'm the type of person who jumps in full fledged and that may be a problem, but for crying out loud, why if I'm so great, do people not want to get to know me, and be part of this?

Anyway, I would like to meet people that have their shit together, but right now, I don't have mine together.  

I know I'm a good person, a good guy, and should make someone happy...so why don't they know that?

Guess I won't know until someone does give me that chance...I just don't know where to meet people, or what to say to them...I don't want to be that person that everything comes off as a line, since this isn't about pick up lines or getting laid, its about meeting interesting people that I can relate to, make laugh, and be understood...