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Kimberly Prendez

Kimberly Prendez


Last Updated: 1/4/2010

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Gender: Female
Status: In a Relationship
Age: 38
Sign: Aquarius


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Monday, January 12, 2009 

Current mood:  excited
Category: Life
Ok so I had this idea the other day and I keep forgetting to write it down and follow through on it so I just told a friend and now I am blogging about it so I will be held accountable.
Anyone that knows me well, knows I worry way too much. It truly is a sickness, lol. I do not like it because all the worrying I do basically tells me and the world I have no faith. I do not like the sound of that. It's like this weird twisted way of thinking, I have had for many many years, like if I dont worry about everything it must mean I dont care, like I live in "la la" land.
There has to be some sort of balance right? Meaning, I can live a responsible, caring, loving, aware and happy life but leave the worry out of it. I need to remember that prayer and meditation should be a way of life and done with great amounts of faith, not worry.
So for the next 30 days I am not going to worry about anything, not money, friends, family, life, career etc. I will live each day in the moment. I will live with appreciation and faith. I will love every moment even if something comes up that is difficult. I will embrace everything each moment. Everything is exactly as it should be.
I am very interested in how this challenge will change me and my outlook on life. I think it is going to be great fun:) I will write in 30 days to let you know how it went or I may do a weekly update, we'll see.
Feel free to join me in the challenge or leave some words of wisdom that you think may help me:) 
Joel Danger

 
I am a big fan of Marcus Aurelius' method when it comes to worrying. he basically said there are two things in life....

1)the thing you can't change.
and because you can't change them and they are out of your control there is no use in worrying about them because nothing you do can dictate that outcome

2)the things you CAN change. and because you can indeed change them you have control over them so there is no use in worrying about them since you are responsible for dictating the desired outcome.


so basically, there is no reason to worry about either.
;)

"Never let the future disturb you. You will meet it, if you have to, with the same weapons of reason which today arm you against the present.
" - Marcus Aurelius

 
Posted by Joel Danger on Tuesday, January 13, 2009 - 7:26 AM
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Roel Corpus

 
This is a great intention to keep and remind ourselves as we go thru our busy body day... to slow down, for how easily we can get carried away and to remember to come back to the present moment. The only place Love, Compassion can blossom. Happy to be friends.
 
Posted by Roel Corpus on Thursday, August 27, 2009 - 1:16 AM
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