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Gender: Male
Status: In a Relationship
Age: 34
Sign: Aquarius

City: London, England
Country: UK
Signup Date: 4/30/2006
Saturday, July 19, 2008 

Today I feel hungover, despite the fact that all I had to drink last night was a hurried half-pint of Grolsch at the Maid of Muswell, before getting caught in a downpour.

Anyway.

Every so often a news story comes about and I think: I should blog about that. In general, I don't bother, because I don't really enjoy blogging that much, but also because most of the stories involve politics or complex situations - and I'm not much of an expert. There are so many bloggers on the net, all of whom are better informed about history, politics, sociology, economics etc and I know that I'll just come across as someone who doesn't really know what he's talking about. Also, by the time I think of an opinion on a story, it's normally about six months old.

Nevertheless, I keep reading stories about the "pregnant man", Thomas Beatie, who subsequently gave birth to a girl last month and wanted to write about it. Mostly, because I don't really understand why it's such a big story. The press has been having a field day, with front-page photos of Thomas mowing the lawn and cradling his baby bump.

Every time I saw a tabloid headline screeching "PREGNANT MAN!" I wanted to shout back "No! It's not a pregnant man! Why are you making such a fuss?" It's a hairy woman with no breasts. But "Hairy woman with no breasts is pregnant!" isn't such a good headline, is it? Of course, transgender politics is a complex issue, rarely handled sensitively, and vast swathes or ignorance and prejudice still surround the issue. Most transexuals face huge obstacles in being accepted by mainstream society. So, from a sociological point of view, I'm happy to accept Mr Beatie (a female-to-male transexual) as a man. I see no reason for him to experience any prejucide or be treated like a freak. In terms of his interaction with other people and his legal status, if he wants to be considered a man, great! I'll wave my flag in support. But from a medical point of view, the story is a bit of a non-starter, isn't it? Because medically speaking, Thomas is basically a woman. He's taken hormones and has a bumfluff beard, and has had his breasts removed. But there's no great medical miracle here. And for me, there's no real story. I mean, there are hundreds of thousands of transexuals in the world (although female-to-male TS still seems to make people more uncomfortable than male-to-female TS) and many of them are married and living happily in their "new" sex. So the fact that a woman has become a man isn't in itself a story. And I would have thought that most people accept that if lesbians can use sperm donors to get pregnant, then so can male-to-female transexuals, so there isn't much of a story there either. 

Like I said, from a sociological point of view, it's a (vaguley) interesting story. That's all. My issue isn't with Mr Beatie having a baby. I'm just slightly annoyed at the way that the story has been mis-sold. Maybe I'm prejudiced for not treating Thomas Beatie as a man; maybe I'm blinkered, but medically, he's 99% a woman. And women getting pregnant isn't a story, is it? Unless it's Britney Spears.

On a totally unrelated topic, here's another video of shoes:

 

 

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Kirk

 
This is a controversial and debatable post. I mean in some of the pictures you aren't even wearing shoes.
 
Posted by Kirk on Saturday, July 19, 2008 - 12:40 PM
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themanwhofellasleep

 
That's why I never post about real issues - I'm just not very good at it. I end up writing in some kind of strange Daily Mail tone and it comes out all wrong.

And yes, in some photos my delectable feet are on show.
 
Posted by themanwhofellasleep on Saturday, July 19, 2008 - 5:42 PM
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Kirk

 
oh don't get me wrong - I agree with the text in your post, I was just making a seemingly poor joke about the title of the video...

And posts like these - posts from opinion about the 'important' stuff, which are written without feeling the need to spend the day researching the topic are very often the posts that inject a little common sense that western media appears to be increasingly in need of. Particularly the Daily Mail.
 
Posted by Kirk on Sunday, July 20, 2008 - 3:53 PM
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