Mission Man - Do What You Love tour recap
Unbelievable! Incredible! Life changing! Seriously.
When I moved to Chicago, I thought I'd be performing there constantly.
The music scene there is really good. Unfortunately, honestly, other
aspects of life became too much for me to concentrate on music. I
decided, after 6 months of the windy city, to quit my job and go on
tour. I did it responsibly because it's important to me. I gave 2
months notice, and I even did some telecommuting work for a few weeks
after leaving (a total of maybe 40 hours) to make sure my old company
could afford to lose my services.
From April 16th until July 11th I lived a surrealistic dream life. It
wasn't the life of a rock star. I never once paid for a hotel. I either
crashed at random friends' houses, family members' houses, or slept in
my car at rest areas. I often ate on less than $5 a day, and towards
the end of the tour, I was eating on $1.25 a day. My dreams have never
been about money. They have been about doing what I love, which is
making and performing music. I met some tremendously talented musicians
along the way, reconnected with friends I hadn't seen in years, and
took the time to smell the roses.
All
told, I had 14 full shows, and approximately 20 open mics in 3 months.
Included in those shows was my Orlando debut. This show was very
important to me, as I learned to rap in Orlando in 1992, but I had
never been able to book a show there previously. While I was there, I
visited my old high school, which I hadn't been in since 1994, and I
grabbed the rim of the same basketball hoop that I grabbed the day I
met BJ, the kid who taught me to rap. During that show, I performed the
same 30 second freestyle that got me started doing hip-hop. Watch the
video here:
The stresses that came along with my life in Chicago caused me to gain
30 pounds in 9 months. Going on tour caused me to lose all 30 of those
pounds in 2 months. I haven't stepped on a scale since, but I do know
my low stress diet on the road has lead to me being happier and
healthier. It is truly amazing what love can replace. For the last few
weeks, I was eating less than 1,000 calories a day on average because I
couldn't afford to buy more food than that. The amazing thing is, I was
almost never hungry because I was so happy.
I rarely had big crowds. Most of the time I played for about 5 people.
It didn't matter. Sometimes those 5 people were people I hadn't seen in
years, so just getting to see them made touring worth it. I made maybe
$300 in 3 months. It didn't matter. I kept driving until I was down to
my last $5 in cash, and all of my credit cards were maxed out. I then
went back to Papa John's in Oxford, hoping they could give me some
hours. I left on great terms, and I knew they'd take me back if the
work was there. I went back to working there in mid-June, and still had
a handful of tour dates left. The Papa has always given me the
flexibility to continue to pursue my dreams. That's why I've been with
them so long. I will likely be there for 2 more years as I finish up
"31 Hours Til What?" properly. I will go to a professional studio to
record the vocals, and have it mastered.
I did have a few shows canceled, the last of which was the Brooklyn
show that was supposed to be the end of the tour. I will make it back
to NYC some day. What turned out to be the last show of the tour was a
benefit concert in Toledo. I was originally slated to play at 4 pm, but
I agreed to switch to 9 pm so a band from Oregon could play early and
then leave. The extra 5 hours gave me time to write, so I wrote the
song "I'm Going Home" and performed it that night. I also recorded that
performance. Watch the video here:
I
ended the night, and the tour, with that song. I am home now. Home to
Oxford. For the first time in my life, I feel like I truly have a home.
I always thought I'd leave before. After living somewhere else, I know
how truly special this place is to me, and while life can certainly
still take me other places, this is where I want to live.
I have many more photos at facebook.com/missionman and
myspace.com/missionman. Thank you to everyone for making this tour so
incredible! Everyone who helped me book a show, every club that took a
chance on me, every fan that showed up to a show or open mic, everyone
who bought my music to help me buy gas, all of my friends and family
who gave me places to sleep. Thank you all so much!
With love,
Gary