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Gender: Male
Status: In a Relationship
Age: 29
Sign: Aries

City: Atlanta
State: GEORGIA
Country: US
Signup Date: 1/11/2005

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Monday, December 17, 2007 


My Two Cents:

Before I begin to share my thoughts on this video, the minister, and what I believe to be a toxic theology that has manifested itself in black churches all over America I have to say this and forgive me for being so blunt, this is my blog and my thoughts herein. I don't ask for permission or require approval on anything I write or believe. If you don't like what you're reading then feel free to move along to a feel good blog that will not address the issues that directly impact our community. If you don't like what you see in this video then hopefully you're not sitting in silence while our lives as black gay and lesbians are being spiritually attacked from the pulpit, but are confronting this injustice head on. Are you?

I often write about the good and the bad of the black church because the church has always played a significant role in my life and I think the same can be said for most black people. Whether we continue to go to church as adults is a matter of personal choice but as a child many of us didn't have an option.

Not a week goes by that I don't hear from a young gay person who is struggling to reconcile his sexuality with his religion. Whether we choose to admit it or not most of the guilt and depression we experience when coming to terms with being gay is tied up in religion. The bible and Leviticus 18:22 has become a weapon used by the church to condemn gays and lesbians and convince us that we are loathsome and spiritually bankrupt. And what's so disheartening is that they've succeeded in many cases.

How many times have we attended services and heard messages like the one above and sat in our seats and felt uncomfortable but stayed silent? I'm guilty of it as well. Years ago I can remember being paralyzed by fear as I listened to ministers reduce my life to nothing...a mere biological and spiritual error at the hands of the devil.

How many times have we as gay and lesbian people decided to just walk away from the church completely because of the abuse, but yet refuse to entertain the idea of attending an LGBT affirming church? Meanwhile allowing ministers like Bishop Liston Paige to preach from his book of opinions and pass it off as the word of God to block our blessings.

This video makes me mad as hell! But what upsets me even more is when we can't discern the word of God from one man's twisted agenda and we accept the message as fact without researching the origin and intent of the scripture for ourselves. It's like the blind leading the blind.

Yes I was outraged when I saw this video. But guess what? Bishop Paige wasn't the first and regretfully he won't be the last. But we as black LGBT Christians or however you identify spiritually can decide to come out of the shadows of the choir stand, usher board, and yes... the pulpit and become examples of a true and living God in the lives of LGBT people and say enough is enough!

While silence is an approach that many of us are comfortable with, the old saying that if you continue to do as you've always done you will continue to get the same result couldn't ring more true.
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Divaleesh

 
Amen Darwoo!!

You should be a minister yourself...um maybe not! LOL!! No but seriously, you have hit the nail on the head. Too many gay and lesbian bothers and sisters are oppressed by this thing we call our ticket to heaven. I think if more people would actually examine their own lives and realize that some things that they do are biblical no no's. We have understand that a lot of translations and meaning were changed in the bible. Hence why people need to go beyond the bible and investigate...God won't strike you dead.

Darwoo, keep preaching...I hope in our lifetime we will see our "own" come around love all of our differences!
 
Posted by Divaleesh on Monday, December 17, 2007 - 2:03 PM
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*~*Diamond Boi*~* (Billionaire Boyz Club D.C.)
K.D. Perry

 
My Brother,
I am speechless. I am literally to tears because of this man. I had the rare opportunity to work for Randy and Paula White of Without Walls International Church in Tampa, Florida and two (2) years ago Bishop Paige came to out church. I was cool with the message until he hit on homosexuality and sissy christians. I became enraged. I at that time was already struggling with my sexuality and my place in the temple. I wish not to go further but fast forward to this past Sunday... I decided to put in a cd from a previous sermon... I asked myself, "Why I have not listened to the message in quite some time?" I forgot the content of the message. When I played the cd it was immediately taken back to that day. Flash back to today... I'm still trying to find my place in ministry where my fellow peers won't kill me. It's so funny because the one talking shit are the one living this life too. What a shame! I can honestly say, We've walked away from the true meaning of Christ. Keep it up man. Hopefully one day I will be able to stand with you in unity declaring the true Christ and making a difference in this world that far exceeds the the mission of what I call the "Boot-leg Jesus message"
Stay encouraged,
K.D. Perry
 
Posted by *~*Diamond Boi*~* (Billionaire Boyz Club D.C.) on Thursday, December 20, 2007 - 2:51 PM
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Pony Horton's Gravity Arch Media
Pony Horton

 
I once was asked, by my older brother, who is a "Born Again Christian" to assist in the videotaping of a guest lecturing pastor at Church On The Way, in the San Fernando Valley. This is a "Yahweh" church, filled with mostly evangelicals. One member of the congregation even tried to lay hands on me and the camera equipment in order to "bless" us, which caused me to literally shy away like a... well, like a pony. Anyway, it seemed like the meeting (a large, two-day affair attended by about 2,500 people) was going along well enough, and in a positive, constructive meanner. Then, on the second day, a well-loved guest minister spoke from the pulpit, vehemently denouncing Gays, Lesbians, prostitutes, and anyone else who was not heterosexual AND "married in the eyes of God." Well, I knew that this video was important to my brother's company, and normally my professionalism as both a journalist and film maker would have kept me in my place. However, this preacher became more and more outraged about Gays in particular, calling for blanket condemnation of Gays. He topped it off with that tired old bullshit about "love the sinner, but hate the sin." Sorry, but that's still just plain old hate, masked in some twisted political correctness, as if these people can stab us in the belly with a knife while saying, "I'm not really hurting you; I'm helping remove your evil," while your liver and colon fall out onto the floor and you die.
Anyway, I decided that I could use my small amount of power in the situation to stop this man's statement from getting any further technical help from me, so I shut down the video equipment, and in front of the entire congregation, I walked out of the building.
That afternoon, I got home, called my brother, and basically ripped him a new asshole. He tried to explain that he didn't know that the man in question would say those things, but he also tried to defend the preacher, saying he would never advocate hatred or violence against Gays. I told him that not only WAS he doing JUST THAT, I could also guarantee him that there were probably several people in that congregation who themselves WOULD use that minister's hatred as permission to practice hate and even violence against Gays. After all, if it comes from the pulpit, it must be okay, right? Our pastor says God hates Gays, or at least the idea of homosexuality, so therefore it's okay to practice that hatred on those who are Gay or have Gay friends and family. Right?

This is part of the problem with so many Americans: they don't exercise independent thinking. They follow the flock. They think in whatever way their priest or pastor or police or politicians tell them to. And, as a result, they bury their heads in the sand when it comes down to real, individual situations. Because their brains have atrophied as a result of disuse. Why do you think Fox (alledged) News is so popular? Certainly not because it's accurate or correct. Because it's easy. Fox loves to point fingers of blame at anyone with a progressive or "liberal" bias in the world, and tell you "Liberalism is the cause of all the world's problems." Like Rush Limbaugh, Bill O'Rielly, Sean Hannity, and many others, they're not interested in offering solutions. They are interested only in fomenting fear and insecurity among people who should know better. And making themselves rich at the same time.
Add to this pattern the fact that more and more churches, congregations, preachers, and "faithful" in America feel the need to proselytise, and basically cram their beliefs down everyone else's throats without concern for whether their victims really WANT to be converted or preached to. Many of them are using their religious beliefs in the most fundamentally un-American way possible: to enact legislation into the Laws of The Land based upon their own narrow viewpoints.
Many of us should know better, and make the effort to act better toward Gays, Lesbians, Transgendered, and all others around us. But then, that would actually take some thought and effort, wouldn't it? It would take a challenge to a lifetime of ingrained, destructive, false programming by those we were supposed to trust, but who in reality were following their own selfish agendas. It would take the guts to stand up to those in "authority" with intelligence, thoughtfulness, and even forceful resistance when need be. We have become a fascist country, because we refuse to stand for what's right about The American Way.
After all, doing so would be a risk to our comfort zones.
Wouldn't it?
 
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