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Isolde



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Gender: Female
Status: Swinger
Age: 30
Sign: Virgo

State: GEORGIA
Country: US
Signup Date: 5/9/2006

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Saturday, June 10, 2006 

Current mood:  confused
Category: Blogging

I have seen a lot of "real" profiles, as some of them like to call themselves, writing about profiles like mine (which they love to call "fakes") and making rather broad assumptions about the kind of person I am and about my character in general, since I "am not honest about who I am". 

Me, personally, at first I just let it slide by, I stuck my fingers in my ears and started humming one of my favorite songs and pretended they weren't being so judgmental...I mean after the whole "Silver" incident who wouldn't be a little jaded right?

But now I am done.  Its just not right and its just not fair for those of you out there acting like that to make such a broad assumption about all of us who chose not to show our true faces on an every day basis.

Let me start with this is my MySpace dammit...I didn't invite you to it, (with a few choice exceptions that already knew and liked me ) and I didn't ask you to come in and look around.  Although I appreciate every person that visits myspace and who reads my blogs I never forced you to or asked you to, please don't act like I did. 

This is the one place in this world where I have truly been accepted for just being me, for saying whatever I want, think and feel.  I can truly just "be" and for once really find some support and happiness....  My life isn't perfect and my family and "real life" friends aren't either, if they were to read most of this or even know most of this stuff about me they wouldn't even talk to me anymore, (believe me I have tested them on occasion and its scary how fast I would become ousted).  This is my created world or "bubble" if you prefer where I can just let it all flow out.

I have made countless friends and acquaintances that have given me the support and encouragement that I need every day that I am not getting elsewhere.  Call me pathetic, call it whatever you like, but realize that it makes me happy and that was the point in the first place...

I am not writing any of this, nor did I post my profile, to deceive anyone or to make anyone think I am not who I say I am, more to the point this profile is more true then anything I could post of the so-called "real life" me. 

So call me whatever you like, but realize that this isn't about you and therefore you really shouldn't be judging people left and right.  I love and truly care for every person that I have really come to know since I have put up these blogs, I have several new friends that care about me just the way I am, funny enough they respected my right to be a little anonymous, and they cared about me without having to see a picture or know anything more about my life then I chose to share. 

They take me at face value, what I say is what I mean, and that is 100% true. 

So there is my little silly rant for the weekend, I hope it makes at least one person reconsider us "fake" profiles...have a great rest of your weekend everyone.

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~ Just Chelle

 

you are real to me....

Brownies, whipped cream and caramel sause and all...

Have a great weekend...


 
Posted by ~ Just Chelle on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 1:24 PM
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Isolde

 
you are so wonderful, from the moment you first commented you accepted me at face value and I cherish that about you
 
Posted by Isolde on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 1:33 PM
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kirkin

 
Don't let the bastards get you down!  I think you are great!!

OK - explain the whole "Silver" incident - isn't she the girl who died??

 
Posted by kirkin on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 1:31 PM
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Isolde

 

yeah, except for the fact that apparently she was made up by someone, I think the name was Wicked Mike(?)...who later wrote a whole blog admitting it was a cruel joke...i hate people like that...


 
Posted by Isolde on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 1:32 PM
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ITS ALWAYS ALL ABOUT ME!! ALWAYS

 

Mike didn't create her, he was scammed just like the rest of us only worse.....he fell in"love" w/the "silver" He started questioning those that created her and then THEY dissapeared as well. There are still some that really want to believe that she truely existed. He followed up on the information that those that looked into things found out.

My feeling has always been, and I even gave this advice to "Silver" who cares what a bunch of people that you will NEVER meet think?? Just be true to yourself  and all will be good. Given what you are going through and talking about it is understandable why you wouldn't want to put up pictures. Tell them all to BITE YA


 
Posted by ITS ALWAYS ALL ABOUT ME!! ALWAYS on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 2:02 PM
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kirkin

 
I thought about asking you since I knew that you wrote a blog about her too!  Thanks for the clear up!!
 
Posted by kirkin on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 2:20 PM
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Isolde

 
Thank you for clearing this up for us hon, I was just getting bits and pieces and was getting to mad with what I read to keep going...sorry Wicked Mike for tarnishing your name!!!!
 
Posted by Isolde on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 2:04 PM
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ITS ALWAYS ALL ABOUT ME!! ALWAYS

 

NO problem :) he is really going through alot b/c he got really emotionally involved w/her and one of the guys who "outed" her has been giving him shit about it. He is a nice guy. He was given the task of getting letters out etc. The scam was HUGE. and really planned out. They were really good @ this.........So he has that burden too.

And you know I LUVS YA


 
Posted by ITS ALWAYS ALL ABOUT ME!! ALWAYS on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 2:08 PM
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Isolde

 

I cannot believe there are such cruel people in this world that would do something so hateful and mean....


 
Posted by Isolde on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 6:10 PM
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~ Just Chelle

 
I clicked the link and it said the friend was no longer a member or deleted the account...
 
Posted by ~ Just Chelle on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 1:46 PM
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Isolde

 

lets try this the old fashioned way then shall we....since myspace is being stupid this morning...

blog.myspace.com/wickedmike


 
Posted by Isolde on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 1:49 PM
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kirkin

 
wow - I didn't know the part about being made up.  That's fucked up.

Wicked Mike seems to have deleted his profile.....

 
Posted by kirkin on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 1:54 PM
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Isolde

 
nope, myspace isn't working links correctly right now...(well some are and some aren't it just depends on if it likes you or not, and apparently I am not on its a list)
 
Posted by Isolde on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 1:55 PM
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Isolde

 

lets try this again since i just visited his site...

wicked mike's link if it works this time


 
Posted by Isolde on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 1:56 PM
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kirkin

 
That worked.  You are so smaht!!
 
Posted by kirkin on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 2:19 PM
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Isolde

 
mwah!  thanks dear!!!
 
Posted by Isolde on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 2:56 PM
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Isolde

 
lol, no babe this was not directed at what you said, although it wasn't my favorite thing you said I understood what you meant
 
Posted by Isolde on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 2:56 PM
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Isolde

 
are you so sure about that one...why don't you tell me your favorite part?
 
Posted by Isolde on Monday, June 12, 2006 - 12:09 AM
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MiMi

 

I do not think your profile is fake, trust me! I do have a problem with other people creating fake profiles to solicit sympathy for their alter egos and then making other people suffer because of their "death." That is not right! Thank God I have a keen gift of discernment, to where I can sniff a bluff, liar, etc., even if it is on MySpace!! Trust me, I know the fakes and you are not one of them!!! One day the other bloggers on MySpace will be just as keen and vigilant, I hope and stop feeding into a few "profiles" in particular because some people are "attention whores" in disguise.

Great blog and I had to respond!!!


 
Posted by MiMi on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 2:22 PM
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Isolde

 
thank you for this comment, I value your words and your input so much...and I promise this wasn't directed at you, there is someone who will probably not read this who this is directed to
 
Posted by Isolde on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 2:55 PM
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Karen

 

I totally respect the fact that you what to remain slightly anonymous. You need to do whats  good for you.

Fuck all these people who have shit to say.


 
Posted by Karen on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 2:27 PM
[Reply to this] 
Isolde

 
i love you so much, esp. for your constant use of the word fuck, a girl after my own heart
 
Posted by Isolde on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 2:55 PM
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~ Carol ~

 

I have never heard anyone consider you a "fake" profile. And I am around an awful lot of bloggage.....

I love you...and I know you.  You are more real than most people will ever be blessed to know. I'm glad I saw this before heading out to Little Man's play off game. 

Keep writing as Isolde....you are safe to share the other parts of you here. And anyone who calls me a fake profile can kiss my beautiful ass. 


 
Posted by ~ Carol ~ on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 2:56 PM
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Spidey

 
can  i use my tongue as well babe    
 
Posted by Spidey on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 9:08 PM
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Fuck the haters...why the hell would they care so much anyway?
Steve~
 
Posted by on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 3:15 PM
[Reply to this] 
Isolde

 
my thoughts exactly...i don't see why anyone feels the need to say shit about something they obviously know nothing about.
 
Posted by Isolde on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 6:11 PM
[Reply to this] 
Isolde

 
  cough cough i am so gonna get you for that cough cough
 
Posted by Isolde on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 6:12 PM
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Stephanie

 
You aren't fake, you're anonymous. There's a difference. And there's nothing wrong with that. There are a lot of crazy people out there and you don't want them finding you in real life. Plus it gives you the ability to create a new persona, where you reveal all your deepest dark secrets. It enables you to be even more honest and I like that!
 
Posted by Stephanie on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 4:21 PM
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Isolde

 
see, there is a difference, and from a very knowledgeable and smart source....lol...by the way i love your blogs!!
 
Posted by Isolde on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 6:12 PM
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MiMi

 

Isolde, your words are captivating, and you as a person mezmorize me!  I NEVER questioned your validity nor aunthenticity! The ones who are in question and who are FAKES, cry out for attention and almost lure people into their trap! You are not begging for comments or attention in your blogs!

One can only gather from your avatar that you value connection!!! I gather that I VALUE ISOLDE!!!!


 
Posted by MiMi on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 7:23 PM
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Isolde

 

mwah!  you, as always, know just what to say!

how is your baby doing?  i hope well!!


 
Posted by Isolde on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 6:13 PM
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Spidey

 
babe il be honest,i never read your blog,way to muxch drink,but i think i no what your getting at,dont worry,i love you this way,fake profile or not,ive seen the real person behind it all,and she is lovely...mwahhhhhhhhhhhhh
 
Posted by Spidey on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 9:09 PM
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Isolde

 
moosh pot!  thanks hon, you need to keep up the "honest" part of you too
 
Posted by Isolde on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 6:14 PM
[Reply to this] 
Thumb

 
amen!

this version of me is more real then that which walks the streets. for this is the me i am inside and to fit into society, here my thought i do not hid. just keep on rolling and ignore the haters, i like your space

 
Posted by Thumb on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 9:59 PM
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Isolde

 
thank you, i know exactly what you mean...
 
Posted by Isolde on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 6:14 PM
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Whosa whatsa? fake who? I want to be called by mr hotey mchot... oh wait fake what?
 
Posted by on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 10:30 PM
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Isolde

 
silly bunny...
 
Posted by Isolde on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 6:15 PM
[Reply to this] 
~*~Dizzy Girl~*~

 
I'm just sad that you don't get to be yourself around your real life friends and family members. I wish you were allowed to let your true self shine through for them to see and love. They are fools and they have no idea what they are missing.
 
Posted by ~*~Dizzy Girl~*~ on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 1:20 AM
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Isolde

 
and you are way to sweet to me
 
Posted by Isolde on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 6:15 PM
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Dexter Saint Jock

 

Fake people dont leave sweet comments on my dark blogs.

*hugs*


 
Posted by Dexter Saint Jock on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 4:05 AM
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Isolde

 
thank you, and they aren't dark, so much, as contemplative...is that even a word?
 
Posted by Isolde on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 6:16 PM
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Dexter Saint Jock

 
its a word...lol.  Well used, i have to keep it in mind.
 
Posted by Dexter Saint Jock on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 9:13 PM
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Isabella

 

I'm new to blogs, and when I read this I think, 'You've got to be kidding me - people are actually talking about whether/not a person is Fake or Real?!'

Ok, like you said - this is MYSPACE - No one is required to read certain profiles.  People don't ask or have to read anything ~ Heck, 1/2 the time I wish 'certain people' didn't read my profile -haha!  But then I read this & learn folks are Judging* you & commenting about whether/not you are REAL -- Do people just have 'Sooo Much time on their hands' that THIS has to be a topic of discussion for them?!  Gosh, it's like high school & the lil groups that used to complain/tease+ the ones they were jealous of -Hey, think about that next time you read/hear something. They are just jealous that I'm such a Great writer and a Good person

Also, I just want to cadd -I LUV your blogs, that's why I first subscribed to them ;)  It seems I'm meeting more 'REAL' people -like you -on MS+.  Sad but true -I sometimes find more REAL-NESS here than in my own Life!  And Hey, it's REALLY NOT about them -like you said.  Your expressing yourself -however you choose to do it -is what you should think about.  Who cares what others think ~less of course it's Good, than 'Bring it on', right?!


 
Posted by Isabella on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 6:41 AM
[Reply to this] 
Isolde

 
can i tell you how very much i LOVE your comments...thank you for this...I love this pic!!!!
 
Posted by Isolde on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 6:16 PM
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Tralfaz

 
Although mine wasn't directed towrd you, whom I've never seen or heard of until two minutes ago, I did recently post a blog blasting "fake" myspacers. But like many others who posted similar things, I wasn't speaking about pepole like yourself. You have found in myspace a place where you can be yourself without being judged by those in the real world who might well be shocked if they could see behind the "mask." I have several myspace friends who have found a sort of peace in being able to be themselves in cyberspace. Some are in the closet everywhere but on myspace, which is why they have a "fake" profile. Others have created "character" versions of themselves to protect the innocent... or guilty.

The "fake" profiles that I and many others have been ranting about are those that set out to purposely deceive people in harmful ways. I know of one fake site which proports to be of a gay married man struggling to deal with his sexuality. When people try and offer up words of advice and help, they are then targeted by some of the nastiest hate-mails you'll ever see. Obviously, the fake profile has been set up as a way of luring people inot a trap so that they can then be spewed upon. It's vile, evil and hateful.

For me, and, I think, many others, that is the type of "fake" we're bothered by. What you've done here is not only the complete opposite of that, but is also obviously something that is very helpful to you!
 
Posted by Tralfaz on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 4:47 PM
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Isolde

 
thank you, i think a lot of people need to have the difference cleared up for them!!!
 
Posted by Isolde on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 6:17 PM
[Reply to this] 
elyse

 

Internet drama is lame

I'm glad that you've found happiness here. I've met a lot of good friends on here too, but then some of my "real life" friends find my profile and don't agree with something on there, so they start drama.

Geez some people should grow up.


 
Posted by elyse on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 10:38 PM
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Kiltboytoo

 
Sometimes I wish I had started with an alias. So much drama when you start laying your heart out there. Of course I have become really good friends with my myspace friends, even dated a few. Scares me how quickly people trust though, you almost have to force them to check you out and make sure you are on the up and up.
 
Posted by Kiltboytoo on Monday, June 12, 2006 - 1:49 AM
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Isolde

 
yeah but sometimes trusting easily and quickly helps you find the real people
 
Posted by Isolde on Monday, June 12, 2006 - 2:09 AM
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Hello again.   I've just been reading some of your blogs from the past....that I missed....you are the best blogger!!! 

"So call me whatever you like, but realize that this isn't about you" AND  "Let me start with this is my MySpace dammit...I didn't invite you"

....That says it all.

For all you judgmental, hypocritical assholes out there, who do nothing but harp about fake or private profiles, and how it will one day ruin MySapce....GET OVER IT!   This girl's on to something here!

Happy Sunday Isolde.

(I know this blog is months old...but I'm always a day late and a dollar short...LOL)

 


 
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