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Gender: Male
Status: Single
Age: 21
Sign: Aquarius

City: Thanet/Europe
State: London and South East
Country: UK
Signup Date: 1/15/2005

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Wednesday, January 09, 2008 

Current mood:  thoughtful
Category: Life
Hello all..

This isn't a blog so much as it is a statement of my feelings at the moment regarding the general exodus occurring on the Island..

Hopefully, if you're reading this within a few weeks of my posting, I too will have left, and I couldn't be happier.

What once was a bustling network of seaside towns, full of life, love and excitement, has turned (for me) into a dreary series of non-events (the new year not-withstanding)

The same clubs, bars, cafe's and people. Except less of it every day. People are leaving, venues are shutting down, the area in general is.. thinning.

So I'm off to pastures new, following in the trend of many people, most of which have left for Uni. Good for them.

Everyone came home for christmas though, well, most, and there were a few real standout occasions where everyone came together and just had a fucking great time, if you know what I'm talking about and where there, I don't need to remind you, if you weren't, I couldn't start to explain.

However, a few things brought me down.

People change. People have changed. People become arseholes.

With this though, is a bright side. I may have lost, or come to realise, people who I considered my friends, or simply good people, are now assholes, but I also met some new people, some were longstanding aquaintences I had never taken the time to speak with, and others completely fresh faces whose friendship occurred at random.

It never ceases to amaze me how many people we know but haven't yet spoken to, and that of those people, how many potential great friends we have.

Anyway, coming full circle, I am left with many answers, but many new questions.

Yes, leaving Thanet will be grand, and meeting new people will be a great experience, of this I have no doubt.

However, how many great people will I be leaving behind, people who I just haven't quite had the occasion to speak with and form a friendship with? How many people may be just one week, one day, one evening away from being a part of my life?

I suppose whereever you are, you will be missing meeting someone wonderful, but at the same time, wherever you are, your closest companion may be right around the corner.


If you took the time to read this, thankyou, and please leave your ideas, comments or opinions, I'd enjoy reading them.

Thankyou.
Basil Fawlty™
Emily Anne Campbell

 
Wise words cheese =)
I miss you alot =(
(8)Byeee byeee baby baby gooodbyeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Mow
x
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Posted by Basil Fawlty™ on Wednesday, January 09, 2008 - 7:54 AM
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Meg

 
i think most of the people feel the same as you. i think you're making a good decision and one of the most important things i learnt from moving to london for university is who the people you actually need in your life are.
you start to realise what is important and what really doesn't matter. you're going to have a lot of fun. best of luck with everything x
 
Posted by Meg on Wednesday, January 09, 2008 - 3:36 PM
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Katya

 
This blog made me sad for I am still in Thanet and shall be for at least another year and a half, it is quite depressing.

Anyway, I hope you have fun and that even if Thanet is shit you should still remember it and cherish those memories.

xx
 
Posted by Katya on Wednesday, January 09, 2008 - 6:33 PM
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Abi

 
You are insane. I never want to leave.




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xxx
 
Posted by Abi on Wednesday, January 09, 2008 - 7:18 PM
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!Jen

 
I've been meaning to reply to this all day but keep ketting distracted, sorry!
Insightful that was. Very much so. =)
Never forget the good times you've had here though, despite your feelings of the place now. Belgian Bar, Morelli's, rev, broadstairs in general, oscar cafe, countless visits to the Carlton, blatently the Lido, and just random house parties, chance meetings, spur of the moment goings out.
I don't think the place has changed so much as your perception of it; the same can be said for the people. I think that once you get to the sort of post-6th form kind of age, as much as you can go down the pub, get in wired....everything seems a bit banal really.You've been there and done it and so it all becomes increasingly monotonous. You grow out of it all in a wat. And I suppose as alot of people your age have all moved on, even if you could get out, there's a decreasing number of folk to do that with that you'd share common ground with.
It will do you the world of good career wise, but also just for yourself to get out of here, explore pastures new and see what life brings, and what you can bring to it. Meeting new people, seeing new sights, just the experience in general. The sooner the better i suppose, I mean why wait? Go for it, and I mean that with all sincerity.
And of course you might miss out on meeting some amazing folk if you stayed here, or getting to know some better, or spending more time with them...but weigh it up.
People -can- become arseholes, granted, but I think as people grow up your perception of alot of things changes, so people become one of those many things. People grow up and apart.
Best of luck with everything babe. I'll come and visit you as soon as you're setled in, and miss you tonnes untill then.
Love you loads bear. Xxxxxx
 
Posted by !Jen on Wednesday, January 09, 2008 - 7:27 PM
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Basil Fawlty™
Emily Anne Campbell

 
I say.
Go out.
Meet new people.
Do something with your life chris and make your own self proud =)
You deserve to be happpy.
And Thanet just seems to do nothing for you now.

And you can always go back and see folk you know?

=) I say go on cheese.

xx
 
Posted by Basil Fawlty™ on Wednesday, January 09, 2008 - 7:36 PM
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