I realized that whenever I get on a dance floor, I feel awkward. I end up playing the air guitar because I'm not really sure of the dance steps and had some blockage about being free with my hips. I know by looking at other people that they feel awkward too (especially guys) and I normally don't care what other people think because I've made a fool out of myself so many times in public, it really doesn't matter to me anymore. About wiggling - I realized that I was uptight, even though I thought I was free spirited. So lately, while walking uphill with my blind dog, Bunny, I started shaking my hips left to right as far out as I could swing em. It felt so good. I didn't care if cars were distracted, I just kept wiggling my hips. A flow started to happen and I started to see my movement as fluid, instead of rigid and uptight. That's how I was walking. Fast, and always in a hurry. Now I'm swingin' it baby, and it makes me feel free like a child. So if you're in a weird funk, I suggest you wiggle around and get the fluids flowin. I think I'm ready to skip now.