i soooo fuckin agre with ya...mad props to my halo baby! we need to play xbox. we need to chill at your house again. but ne way. i dont think that people should care about what they look like. i just wanna be healthy. ugh! stupid fucin people! ahhh! FUCK!!! lmao love ya!
 

The whole reason this is allowed to carry on is because of girls (and women) who go out and buy those magazines. There's always going to be barsluts and hot moms who want to go and be as "sexy" as possible so that they can get 'perfect' husbands. There's girls who want nothing more than to bring home a husband who will eventually become a fat, abusive, alcoholic. I feel that women should just let themselves be who they are (in both appearance and personality), because it's only then that they'll find a guy who truly wants to be with them for who they are. If they cake on the makeup and wear revealing clothes, they're only setting themselves up for a guy who just wants what he sees (or doesn't see, for that matter). When the looks go bye-bye, then so does the husband.

By the way, fucking great choice for the album to listen to :D

 

I agree with you. I think however, that there are more women who feel pressure from the people around them rather then those magazines. Personally, and I know others agree, I feel a lot of pressure to not be myself because of the people around me...and that's just not with men, but other women too [because god forbid girls didnt critic one another every chance they got]. It's all ridiculous.
 

I eat lunch with Jerry and Nick, both of whom are short-haired, polo-wearing, church-attending boys. Jerry constantly picks at my clothing and hairstyle. Every.Fucking.Day. Now, despite this and constant pressure from people who know me (or don't), I'm not going to go buy a fucking magazine to tell me how to get buff and trim my hair all nice. I simply just don't give a fuck what everyone else wears or does. It's everyone's individual choice to be an individual or not. If one chooses so surrender thier individuality, then fuck them, because they're neither 'one', nor possess any form of 'individuality' anymore. And you think girls have it bad? Try having teachers, adults, family, everyone in the god-damned locker room, "friends", and nearly every other group I encounter tell me how I need to cut my hair. It's fucking ridiculous. Guys get it just as much as girls, what with all the girls saying how 'hott' Sunny Moore and Zacky Vengeance (I'm only going to apologize for spelling that wrong because you like A7X) are. And if it's not some scene musician who's be idolized, then it's some preppy, well-built mother fucker. And if it's not that, then it's some 'thuggin' rapper. Girls idolize all these guys and never seem to shut up about how 'hott' these bastards are. You think that does wonders for a guy's self esteem? Fuck that. Girls and guys get it equally.

Erm... sorry for the mini-rant.

 

While I agree that men also suffer from the pressure to look a certain way, I definitely do not think it is equivalent to those of women. Men at least have more leeway then girls. A lot of girls like men buff...or skinny...or tan...or pale...or 'scene'...or ghetto...or prep. But it's like every girls gotta have that perfect body. Men have more freedom with that, because more body types are "accepted". Men are just as notorious for talking about "hot bitches" as girls are, and probably more so. With girls, its always a competition. Get the guy to notice you and make sure you're the top. Guys do that too, but like I said, they have more of a variety of looks then most girls. Every girl wants the same thing: big boobs, tight abs and an awsome ass. Or they want skin and bones. Each of them are very hard to achieve. Girls also make up the majority of people with eating disorders....the center of that? The pressure.

Not apologies necessary.

 

awww..babe, you are amazing. you basically just made me feel way better...'cause i always have problems with self image. you're awesome. thanks. love ya.
 

i agree with you 100 percent.

and you should know what beauty is, as your the definition of it :D lol. :P

 

I'm guessing you already know who Anton Lavey is, right?

Anyway.. I might not be the typical person to comment on this.. I've modeled and been a part of "THAT" world. But it is a disgusting world. I hated it - I hated the way it chews you up and kicks you to the curb and the way that it takes good people and completely changes them into evil little narrow minded selfish, insecure, materialistic UGLY people. See, society's views affect everyone - even the typical "pretty" girls that get to close to the flame - I also hate it - it really turned me off and I had to get out.

The smart people look past all the foundation and lipstick and the collegen and plastic. They see the beauty that is on the inside. After all, that beauty never fades.. or sags, lol and I'm sure many people see that beauty in you..