MySpace
myspace music my music  featured playlists  top artists  music videos  karaoke  shows  forums 


blogs.myspace.com/oneonedeuce112
MySpace.com | rss | sign in
112



Last Updated: 9/23/2009

Send Message
Instant Message
Email to a Friend
Subscribe

Status: Single
City: Atlanta
State: Georgia
Country: US
Signup Date: 5/27/2006

Who Gives Kudos:

(2)
miss.kat (2)
'licia (2)
(2)
RED (2)
Shorty (2)
Shannon (2)
Michael (2)
Shawny (2)
(2)
‡Amb.. (2)
(2)
Monday, January 08, 2007 

I choose to only date females that are younger than me.  They're not stressing over commitment.  Women my age or older are in the race for the ring and I don't have time for that.  A relationship with a younger woman is all about having fun.  She doesn't care if you take her somewhere expensive or somewhere cheap, as long as you take her somewhere.  Older women usually have their own money so they "don't need no man" to take care of them.  A younger woman needs you, almost like a father-figure.  And they are more tolerant of the shit we do than older women are.  You make one mistake and an older woman will kick you to the curb before you can say sorry. 
A younger woman will give 2, 3, and 4 chances.  The last girl I was with was 25.  I'm 39 by the way.  She had just finished school and started a new job.  She didn't have a whole lot of money so in order to get the things she wanted she had to call me.  That's right, she called daddy.  lol  She couldn't do a thing without me.  When she found that I had cheated on her (wrong, I know) she gave me another chance.  Hell, I'm her ATM.  I know she's not going anywhere.  I'll choose someone younger than me any day.

-- Oh boy.....ok what he meant to say was....... Hell I don't know where he's going with this, but seriously people let's not pretend as if we don't know where this brotha is coming from to some degree, let's keep it all the way real.  The reason why I brought this topic up is because I want you (the reader) to see what a "Normal" individual views and opinions are about this, because I have to step outside of it on this one and try to referee, I mean let's face it when you've accomplished what I've accomplished and your as Goodlooking as myself you meet a lot of women of all colors, shapes, sizes and of course ages, and my opinion may be a little off....just a little.
So what I heard was this: the older woman has been there and done that and quite frankly its old what she's looking for is a change in her life. A change from bullshit!!!
And for a lot of women that means having that one man in her life and her
feeling confident in knowing that this man belongs to her and vice versa(I'm
just now learning this from my best friend, she knows who she is wink wink) lol
And trust me older women can be just as exciting as any younger woman, maybe even more.....know why?
That's right....cause they've had more time to play with that CAT!!! I mean
learn they're bodies. Lol Now I won't get into this big debate about which scenario is better, honestly its up to the people involved. ( Dude may just be that dude around his way). And that's cool, don't knock the hustle. However if your not ready to get into a serious relationship then I suggest you find someone that's in the same boat as you regardless if she's younger or older. You feel me? NEXT!!!

Hi Uncle Princey.  I like this topic.  I'm 19 years old and my current boyfriend is 31.  I've always dated guys that were older than me.  When I was 14 I was dating a senior in high school.  I like dating guys that are older than me because they can take better care of me than I guy my age could.  The guys I go to school with can barely feed and dress themselves.  Why would I want to be with them?  Especially when I can have a man that can take me out to nice places and buy nice things.  And at 31 my boyfriend is it that point in his life where he 's ready to settle down.  That's exactly what I want.  I don't want to have to chase any of these little boys around just to get them to commit.  You can barely get them to stay faithful let alone propose.  When and IF I meet a guy my age that's got his stuff together then I'll rethink dating men my age.  Until then, I'm
good.

-- Now I have heard some women say before to me that they prefer an older man because he provided a sense of security for them, not like take care of me, more of a have my back kinda deal. You feel me?
And let's face it, most young men don't have their own backs let alone someone elses. Lol
I've also heard that some women like older men because they didn't  have a strong male figure in their lives growing up, and being with an older man was comforting to them in the ways a father is to his daughter like being the
protector, spoiling the hell outta her, making her feel as though whatever she wanting she could go to Daddy and he'll make it happen.
Also older men wanna know if they still got that swagger to grab a younger
woman. It takes them back to their glory days when he was pulling them left and right.
Take it from me there's nothing like being in a situation of this nature, when
the other person is inspired. Something to Ponder.... NEXT!!!

Aight Uncle P, tell me if I'm wrong for this.  I like sex and I like things a certain way during sex.  Men in their 30s are set in their ways and they're less likely to be willing to learn anything new.  With my ex-husband, it was the same boring thing every night.  It was so boring I had to cheat.  I found me a boy right out of high school who was more than willing to please me how I wanted and from then on I was hooked.  I have a 21 year old "friend" right now.  I can call him anytime of the day or night and he'll be at my house in 10 minutes.  There's no need to spend the night or cuddle.  Just do it and go.  The only problem with this is that you can't bring your "boys" around your family or friends because he's liable to say something that's going to embarrass the hell out of you, there's never any mature conversation, and you can forget him taking you out.  Not gonna happen.  Lucky for me, I don't have a need for any of that right now.

-- Your right and your wrong on this one love. Come on now, sex can be a wonderful thing, but if it dictates the motion of your marriage(to the point you have to cheat) then you have a major problem. But we know this already....don't we?On the other hand with regards to the younger man, it shouldn't  be a surprised that the man doesn't have a lot to converse about, he hasn't lived long enough, so just know what your getting into. And if its just about the sex....let the man know that as well, we have some feelings afterall. That last thing you want this young man to feel like is him being used, all your doing is helping to create another monster with no respect for women. The cycle will never be broken that way love, remember your in the driver seat on this one.

5:56 AM
 
Print
Previous Post: Ask Uncle Princey - 01.05.07 | Back to Blog List
Shannon

 
You give such great advice Princey.
 
Posted by Shannon on Tuesday, January 09, 2007 - 4:19 AM
[Reply to this] 
Shorty

 
I agree with the first guy when i dated a guy that was older than me he wanted marriage and i didnt so i could see why sometimes its fun to date older guys but be carefull. Yea for some reason guys my age well when i was 18 19 20 didnt want marriage the other guys might have. to the 3rd question be carefull the boys young you dont want him feeling used he might end up doing that other girls i mean he has feelings too.

 
Posted by Shorty on Tuesday, January 09, 2007 - 4:19 AM
[Reply to this] 
RED

 
Uncle P .....that "boy toy" she is talkin about is Da Bomb!!!!  I did that for a few years but fell in love and married him...(lol)  Aaahhh come on people, stanger things HAVE happened.  But he makes me happy in more reasons than one.  Kisses to you Uncle P.
 
Posted by RED on Tuesday, January 09, 2007 - 4:20 AM
[Reply to this] 
'licia

 

Okay this topic is good.... A guy recently told me, the reason older women date younger guys, is because they have control issues. Now I was offended, cause I'm older than he is, but from what I see, he's definitely on to something. Except he missed the fact that older guys "clearly" have that issue too!

Now where number one is concerned, that's just plain childish. You want to be a father, then go have kids. The only reason you are with younger women besides not wanting to commit to a mature relationship, is so that you can swing your b.s any which way you like, and a younger girl would take it, because you're taking her out or buying her stuff!...I'm just a couple years older than your last chick, and I'm sorry but I wasn't having that. So you may need to go a little younger. But hey if it's working for you, have fun!

Number two, you are helping guys like number one think that your affections are for sale. When you're young that's what you're supposed to do...live your life, date and have fun with it. You may be very dissappointed in the future if you think every older guy is going to give you what you need and protect you; and stay faithful.....cause their age has absolutely nothing to do with it.Thinking about settling down is a very mature step; I just hope you don't regret it in years to come; cause he's going to hit that midlife crisis long before you and there's no telling what he'd want to do. Good luck with the boyfriend.

Number three, girl I wish you luck. I so do not have the patience to train; but I guess somebody's gotta do it. I don't know if I agree with your theory though. Seems to me guys in their early twenties are just having fun with sex. By their late twenties, they have finally started realising there has got to be a lot more to it, than just hopping on and off. By their thirties they should know every woman is not the same. My question is though...why couldn't you tell your husband what you liked, just as you're willing to teach this new boyfriend?


 
Posted by 'licia on Tuesday, January 09, 2007 - 4:21 AM
[Reply to this] 
miss.kat

 

#1-  To each their own but just remember you shouldn't judge others because what works for some people may not be what works for you and vice versa.  You may still be concentrating on having fun with no real responsibility, but some people want to have something with more substance (and for the record, it can still be fun).  Some people may appreciate having someone who will be there for them in good times and in bad, someone they can trust with their life. 

Princey couldn't have said it better than this, "So what I heard was this: the older woman has been there and done that and quite frankly its old what she's looking for is a change in her life. A change from bullshit!!!
And for a lot of women that means having that one man in her life and her
feeling confident in knowing that this man belongs to her and vice versa" 

You may not know what you are missing or maybe you are scared.  Haven't you ever heard the saying that anything worth having isn't easy?  It may not be all fun and games to have a serious relationship but the reward is so much greater than taking the easy way out.  How about this one?  You get out of life what you put into it?  I'm not judging you, I'm just trying to open your mind.  If you had no money to take care of these younger girls, do you think they'd still be around?  If you needed help, would they be in the position to help you with whatever you needed?  However, in the end, it is dependent on the individual, not their age, so don't make generalizations because you may miss something/someone great. A good woman won't be single forever.

 


 
Posted by miss.kat on Tuesday, January 09, 2007 - 4:22 AM
[Reply to this] 
Shawny
Shawntina Wallace

 
 
This is a hot topic lol
 
Overall, I think there's nothing wrong with dating outside your age range. Me, personally, i would talk to older guys but only 2 or 3 years older. I wouldn't date anyone younger. True enough, there are young guys that seem mature but the majority of younger guys are not.
 
For number 1 lol Uncle Princey, i think dude set himself up for that question. Whoa he is  bold to say all of that um hmm. First of all, as far as my opinion goes, I think in some cases with older guys like that. they seem like they're going through some kinda middle age stage when they feel like they don't wanna get older. Like do  things to keep themselves young such as being involving with younger women. I  was watching the Girls Next Door. That's the show about Hugh Heifer's three girlfriends. It's a trip. When i  watched that, i was thinking.  Now what does that older  man has to offer those girls besides a paycheck and room and board? He's  old enough to be their grandfather. That's a dirty old man lol What does he have in common with 20 something year old women. Sex? Maybe old dude got a little pep in his step. but still i'm sorry but i wouldn't go that far that is gross. But for the man that had comment number 1, he has a lot to learn about women. Maybe the man feel like young women are easy to manipulate than older women because older women is hip to his lame game that he is pulling with younger women. Younger women don't have much experiences in relationships because they still are learning about themselves and trying to find what they want and what they don't want. Whereas older women are more settle and more mature. But yeah younger women get involve with older men because they are looking for father figures. But i wouldn't be with a much older guy like that because I already have a daddy and nobody will take his place. I don't need a second one I need a man not a sugardaddy I can make my own dough. I seen older guys with younger women. Some of them act like their daddies, like being controlling. But maybe the man is scared of a mature women they can't deal with a woman like that. Maybe it's the  fact that he is immature and haven't gotten to  that settle stage yet  so he is looking for women with his mentality. But i think it depends on the nature of the relationship if an older or younger person makes you happy go for it, but haha my grandmother has a old saying about that i'm sure some of y'all had  heard this before it's like don't mess with a old person or else you will get worms hehe I don't know what that means but i guess it's a old wise tale. But i think sometimes if a couple have a big age gap they cannot relate to each other, For a younger person they may seem old before their time and they may feel they have to be older to be on the level of their partner.
 
Sorry if this post is long i had to get my opinion about that one This was like a "Oh no he didn't" post lol but i don't understand men why men are so afraid of marriage or commitment? Is it because they feel they're missing out on something?

 
Posted by Shawny on Tuesday, January 09, 2007 - 11:32 PM
[Reply to this] 
ChElLeZ=ima NEWYORK gurl iMIGHT take sum getn USE2
First name Last name

 
yeah yeah i'm feeling this topic  but  i get it i under where the 1st was coming from  but #2 well lets say asshole
 
Posted by ChElLeZ=ima NEWYORK gurl iMIGHT take sum getn USE2 on Tuesday, January 09, 2007 - 11:33 PM
[Reply to this] 
‡Ambitious‡
Stephannie Reed

 
He sounds super childish to me. And extra insecure. But like Prince said, to each his own. Did he ever think that maybe she doesn`t trip b/c what's good for the goose is good for the gander?
 
Posted by ‡Ambitious‡ on Monday, January 15, 2007 - 3:41 AM
[Reply to this]