Love the blog, and you`re right, I recently wrote a blog because my past came back for me, after I decided to move on ...Don`t get me wrong we had fun together and he kept me laughing, but this time around it`s different, Andre shows me beyond measure how he feels, admits that he don`t want to mess things up...misses me when I`m gone and SHOWS me he cares each time we`re together... It`s crazy yet it amazes me, scary, but i`m willing to take the risk...I love this man because of him and how I feel with him, falling but haven`t felled, in fear of not being caught..Don`t want to move fast, but don`t want to move to slow, and it`s not just based on the bedroom...I`ve been married twice and through it all I realized what love is , just like you say (action)...Gurl, you did it this time love the blog , keep `em coming , if no one else has a comment I will, you are truly an inspiration, thanks so much..I needed that .....
 

hi.. boo wlll am cameing her to show u some real lov and keep doing you thing babygirl u have a really wonderful vices baby keep it up .....u boy g,money$$$$$$$$$
 

Wow!! You are so right when it comes down to it! People have no sense of themselves these days we livin in. They tend to confuse themselves and hurt others they involve using that word when they don't mean it. I ain't gonna lie, I recall using the word when I didn't mean it but I learned from my mistakes, and that made me the man I am today.
I gotta laugh at them dudes that's saying they love you because they have no idea how to handle you! And I got a question for you ChesZerae, are these lame dudes walking that walk? Excellent blog. Keep your head up SeXy!
I admire you!
Jus
 

You know last week I said that to my girl. Howeveer, since then we have been saying we "like each other VERY much" . Sometimes I do lose sense of who I truly am. You shed light on a very sensitive subject and I applaud you for that:)
 

I am very enlightened on the responses so far..And to answer your question sweetie (Jus)..I'm becoming like Sunshine Anderson: "I heard it all before lol" In other words, I'm just hearing words and not seeing that walk.
 

I think that Mariah Carey said it best through song: LOVE TAKES TIME! I believe this is the truth in almost ALL facets of life even with babies. When a baby is born, the parents nor the child really love one another. The parents recognize that the baby comes from them, but they are just starting a relationship with this new life in their arms. After numerous trials & tribulations like the first steps as well as his/her first words, love starts to grow from both parties. If they're relationship stays this tight into adolescence then love will mostly likely be in full bloom. I have only told one past female of mines those words, and it was the damn truth. Every other woman has never heard those words from me if they're family. Love is like every other principle in life in that it must be stated (or implied), and it must be lived. In order to fully love someone, you must KNOW & DO what is best for that person. If you really don't know what's best for him/her, then your love is compromised. The same goes for those who don't do what's best for that person. One simple example is myself. As a child, I told my mother "if you love me oomi (mother in Arabic), then I want you to feed me nothing but ice cream." I didn't know any better, but my mother did. She knew that feeding me only ice cream would do damage to my physical body, and she acted on that by telling me to shut up & eat my dinner. If she didn't KNOW or DO what was best for me & instead listen to my idiotic lines, then I would be in terrible health if I were alive. This act shows that she LOVED me, and I hope to do the same for someone I will hopefully love in the future. Nice blog home girl!
 

Hey to all my lovers, those who think they are in love, and those curious about love. KUDOS to CHESZ for starting this blog. This is just a lil' poem I wrote that fits right in with this topic The title is "WHEN LOVE AWAKENS"

Have you ever awakened love?
Once you have there is no turning back
Love heals all pain, heartache and enemy's attack

You say if he/she loved me why did they hurt me?
But I'm here to tell you that love doesn't hurt people, people hurt people.
We learn from life lessons good and bad
They can break us or make us
Make us weak or make us strong
Whatever the case love can bring you through the toughest storms

Don't look for love in material things
Temporary happiness, that's all it will bring
Don't search for love in someone or something that don't love you back
That will turn you around in circles and you'll end up where you started right back on the same path
Real love will come and find you, right where you are
Search for love in the innermost parts of your soul
No matter what the circumstance
when you find love; take hold and don't let go
because it can bring healing to your broken soul


Jesus' love, rains from above
Floating like a dove

Surrounded in purity
Living in you and me
Binding us in unity
Captivating us in liberty

Love is a short four letter word but full of power
When experienced it grows louder and louder
So strong, so pure, so sweet
It can make you weak and knock you off your feet
Clogging up everything that's in you, until nothing else matters
Changing your heart to a rhythmic beat
Love fills your spirit, like no other, so unique

God's love surpasses all our understanding
And elevates us to places we couldn't even imagine

That's the kind of love that only comes from heaven above.
 

well said !!!!