My brother in law killed himself last month. It has really affected our entire family. It is hard to believe that he is gone and we are sad that he coulden't find any joy in life. I believe he is in a better place but what is sad is that he suffered so much in life.
As A life coach I realize that some peope and thier souls come here to learn a lesson that we can't really understand. I know none of us can save anyone and people have to want to save themselves. As I begin my walk as a minister I know God is always with us and we do create the experience we desire in life. I believe we all know what we need to know and we have all we need to have. As A coach I support you in remembering the truth of who you are!
So, I know the sadness in my family will get better as we all move through the pain and support each other. I know we need to understand the lessons this will teach us and we need to be gentle with ourselves as we move through the process of healing.
We can forgive and surrender ourselves for all the things we did say, diden't say, wanted to say or coulden't say. I surender all of the WHY"S to you!
How can we move forward from this? we can choose to celebrate his life and celebrate his peace now! We can make a choice to celebrate the life his soul intended and honor that! We can ask for Divine guidence in walking through this with grace and ease. We can ask God to show us how we can use this experience for our own personal growth and healing. We can call forth all the peace- filled, comforting presence and power of God! We can Surrender the grief.
We can ask to be filled with peace,comfort, strength, courage and acceptance.
Let it be so and so it is!