Songwriting – don't try to be original!
(Chapter 2 from my coming series on songwriting)
Once you have decided on the message of the song (chapter 1) start brainstorming! Write down all your thoughts. Don't censor anything yet. Don't worry about structure or rime.
And - don't try to be original!!
Why? Well – to be honest, everything has been said before!
If you have to wait until you have an original thought you may have to wait forever!!
Maybe you think I am cynical. Maybe you are right?!
But I write this to set you free!! Not to bring you down.
When I started writing it took me FOREVER to write a song. I would sit by the piano for hours waiting for lighting to strike. I would not settle for anything less than brilliant. I gave up on SO many songs because they did not match my unrealistic expectations. My goal was to be original and fresh. I wanted to be different.
But I had to realize that I was not able to be that...
What I WAS able to do was to write songs about MY life.
To write about MY problems and MY pain.
I was able to write about MY joy and MY dreams.
To write about MY God.
When I wrote "Lord hold me*" I didn't say ANYTHING new. You can find hundreds of songs with the same message. So should I not have written the song? Of cause I should. Because I NEEDED to write it! The words are not deep or profound. They won't go down in history as great poetry. BUT still – this song changed the lives of many people.
Why? Because I didn't try to be someone I'm not!
I didn't try to write about something that I had not LIVED and felt in my own life.
How can you lead someone to a place you've never been to yourself?
How can you be 20 years old and expect of yourself to write with the wisdom and experience of a 40 year old?
You have to write songs that matches who you are. What you've been through.
When you write about something that is important to you, chances are that it is important to someone else too! When you write about real "stuff" – real life – people can relate. Everybody needs someone to "hold them" – no matter how many songs there is about that subject.
You'll never know if what seems "unoriginal" or "simple" to you is just what people need to hear. That's what I experienced with "Lord hold me*"
So am I saying that you should just settle with whatever comes to mind first?
No – of cause not!! (and I will talk about that later) I am just saying that when you start out – when you brainstorm - don't be too hard on yourself. Don't dismiss ideas 'cause they seem "unoriginal". Maybe that idea will set of an other idea... and an other – and suddenly you are a whole other place... 'cause you allowed yourself to be WHO YOU are!
In a musical world of "copy and paste" being yourself IS being original!
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*Lord Hold Me
Written by: Hans Christian Jochimsen
Recorded by Opstand Gospel Choir "Deeper than" album
"Lord hold me" is in my musicplayer
Lord I come before You
Hear me now I pray
In Your presence I find comfort
You're my hidingplace
Lord hold me now I pray
I need You please let me stay
Only You can heal my broken heart
Never let me go
Lord You're my hidingplace
I run to You for shelter and grace
Lord hold me now