Jeff is driving the boys to school, and I may have five or ten minutes to write - incredible.  It is nearly 830am, and we have a memorial service to go to that starts at 10am.  One of Jeff's close friends, whom he met around 1990, passed away last Wednesday 4/16.  He had a seizure, found to be caused by a brain aneurysm, and had surgery on about 4/7.  He began to recover, but developed meningitis, and the following Sunday 4/13, we learned he was suffering strokes.  On Tuesday or Wednesday, they removed life support.  He was my age, 36 years old, his birthday a few weeks after mine.  His wife is 34, and they have a daughter and son.  It baffles my mind, and I feel terribly for them.  What is to be done?  What can be done?