i value the days i have with my family, my son and friends. the times we share weather they are good or bad and always the memories. iv started looking at every chance i have with them as possibly the last chance i may see them. no one knows when a loved one will be taken away. be it permanently or just for a while. as i have grown into an adult ive learned to pick my battles and accept differences. as i heard in a country song today someday ur gunna miss this. as adults we look to the past and wish we could change things or just go back. as much as id like to go back and spend more time with those ive lost i cannot change the fact that i didnt. id like to think that i am sumone with many friends and very few enemies. and that one day someone will look back at a time we were together and say that they miss it. we cannot change the fact that our lives are busy but must learn to prioritize time spent with family because in the end u are nuthing if when u die u have money and no one to mourn for u.