I don't know if tis the season or I'm just sensitive lately, but I've been getting an apalling amount of disrespectful/dirty emails from men, and I am not alone! So here is a simple straight-forward guide you can share with your offenders, just link them here to read it maybe they'll be smart enough to get it, maybe not, but at least you tried lol.


Always ask first what her intentions are online, not everyone uses myspace for dating: "You are very beautiful, are you single and looking?" (and don't mass email this message, we can see who the recepients are).

Send a friend request first, it shows you are somewhat interested in what my profile has to say.

Start off a conversation by READING the profile and picking up on a common interest you both have, for example, maybe you both do web work or both like hockey, or went to the same university, etc.

We always appreciate compliments, but if it starts there it kind of ends there with just a "thank you"...get MORE game like, well, see the sentence above about common interests.

If you don't get a response we are either busy or not interested. Don't keep emailing or threatening. Many of the other professional ladies on here are making money on their shooting projects and even traveling! WWE Superstar Matt Hardy, for example, doesn't answer every piece of fanmail. Professional models are just as busy at times and often...I hate to say it, but COMPLETELY OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE. Harsh, but true, sorry. Hey, I emailed Matt asking for a date and he never got back to me lol, I lived!

Asking for nudes for money is plain insulting in general, especially when you ask a CONTRACTED professional. Contracted means we cannot. Our company owns our pics and we don't just get naked or shoot because you "demand" it. Besides we are in a recession, I know you're broke, don't lie. If you weren't you woulda joined the adult website! Besides, do you really want my boyfriend to kill you?

Too much work? Well then you don't deserve "the ass", straight up. I imagine there might be some poor misguided desperate fatties out there that will do all that for free, unfortunately, cause it makes a bad name for everyone! But they do exist, go to them, don't waste my time, I actually have brain cells and boundaries.

P.S. If you just gave me your number in an email, before you know it I've already plastered it on here so expect call from gay men and my angry boyfriend and some of my prowrestling buddies. Cause, are you REALLY that desperate? Disgusting.