Whenever I hear someone say they don't like "drama" in some dissing manner, I find myself recoiling. As I think about why this is, I realize that mainly this comes from men. And when they say drama I suspect that what they really mean is emotion. " Please don't expect us ..to be emotional or respect your emotions", is the underlying subtext I hear in this.

In other words it is a diss at women and our tendency to be more in touch with our emotions and to want to express them. Whenever I hear anyone talk about this drama thing I hear someone talking who is uncomfortable with emotion. They need to get a parakeet or something.

AND, the next time I hear the phrase"too much drama" coming out of some man's face directed at a woman,  I am going to tell the bastard he should date a hyena if feelings are too damn much for him!