Written by Linda Furiate
What’s the secret to a long and happy marriage? We can look to the sky for a clue. As an astrologer one of the biggest questions I get is "when will I find the right person and how do I know if he/she is right for me?" Most people just look at their sun sign and wonder if they can be compatible with another person. Unfortunately or hopefully - luckily, there’s more to finding a successful, lasting relationship than just knowing a person’s sun sign.
When I do relationship readings for couples I compare several planets in a person’s chart and how they interact. I am big on a person’s sun and moon sign comparison and what houses they fall into in the others person’s chart. The moon represents our emotions and how we feel about things plus it’s a very karmic point. If your moon sign falls in your partners’ 12th house and/or is near their ascendant that typically tells me that this isn’t the first lifetime they have shared together. It doesn’t necessarily mean you will live happily ever after, but it does show that there is purpose and meaning and even some unfinished business that must be addressed in this lifetime.
Beyond the moon sign I compare a person’s lunar node and how that may interact with the other person’s sun or moon sign – there again, the node is another indication of past life experiences together. Knowing your time of birth is very important when it comes to knowing if a relationship has staying power, because where your planets line up in your partners natal houses further shows how the energy of that planet will be expressed.
Of course we want to compare our Venus’ – the planet of love and Mars – the planet that rules our sexuality and drive. If these planets are compatible in air signs it may show that you have a great ability to communicate well with each other. In fire signs, it may indicate your relationship is very sexually driven with a lot of excitement. In water signs, you feel very intuitive with this person.
As far as longevity for the relationship, it’s always important to compare the person’s Saturn and Venus because these two planets together represent our karma and our love. If we look at charts of Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward, who are one of Hollywood’s longest lasting marriages we will see that his Venus is conjunct her Saturn in Capricorn in her 12th house and his Saturn makes a trine to her Venus in water signs.
No one knows for certain how long a relationship will endure, but having the right planet alignment is essential for any potential compatibility and longevity.
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