My Ideal Person:
Update Jan 2007

Dating Profile

What I'm looking for is a progression. First I just want to go out and have fun. Second if I can trust you and you turn me on I want a few lovers from here. Because I want safe sex I do not take all offers any more than you do. So the following is only meant for sexual partners. I am much more reasonable about your physical body and my preferences if we connect mentally and spiritually. As it is I think I am more than reasonable that way as well. So lets just say if we click mentally/spiritually I am more open minded about my preferences.

As A Lover

Sensual spiritual passionate lover Into Tantra and passion I like to kiss a woman's whole body and appreciate a woman who gives me the same

I am also very into touch Every level of caress from a light breeze touching you to losing control and digging your nails in your lovers back a little Touch is key Even afterwards

Like taking turns afterwards where one of you run your fingertips over the other barely touching the other person which I call the electric massage

I firmly believe each lover is different and you should feel like a virgin the first time you make love so you have a chance to learn your lover personally

Turn Ons

Again not asking for perfection at all so I am not filtering out all women who not are exactly my size. That is ridiculous. Basically the closer you look to being my height my age and my weight the more turned on sexually I will be. But I do not want or need you to look anything like me. Since I am an abnormally small human being I accept most people are either taller than me or bigger than me. I just want someone with curves I can wrap my arms all the way around. I am not that picky. I promise

Well I only go into detail not because I'm picky but to clear up misunderstandings on my preferences. My main attraction in a woman's body is proportion and health. This means I don expect a woman to have large breast no but and a tiny waist. That to me is not even good for a cartoon. (Think: Does Jessica Rabbit have a small ass?)So if you have a fat ass it is no problem. And if you do have big breast that is fine for me if you have a big ass. .If you have small breast that is good too but then it is unlikely you would have a big ass anyway. Ok Nuff said.

One more thing if you are old enough to be my mother you better look 10 years younger then your age. (Hey I don't hit on the 18-25 year olds.)Mostly only older women who lived a hard life of smoking 5 packs a day and who drink alcohol almost every day turn me off. So if you are fairly healthy then age shouldn't be that much of factor. I just want what every man wants. I notice women a lot more shallow than I will ever be , on here making demands a lot less reasonable then me yet that is accepted. Not all of them are hotties either. My preferences are just that preferences.

So if you don't think you meet my standards email me anyway. You might be surprised. As long as you are not secretive about what you actually look like I will give you a chance and try to get to know you past just your appearance. But if you are to far off from my preferences I reserve the right to lose interest just like you do. At least I give people a chance which is more than I can say for some people on here.

Serious Relationship?

Ok now that we got that out of the way. That was for casual dating and lovers. I don't want a lot of partners. I have had very few partners and I want to keep it that way. I am disease free and want to keep it that way. I hate every form of VD I have ever heard of. Because of this I have become temporarily celibate for up to 6 months or more at a time. This allows me to remain reasonably picky and clean(Disease Free).

Finally there is a method to my madness. My main goal is to find a lover I can trust that may lead to some short term relationships. So married women I hate to say this but I'm not interested, tempted yes not interested. Believe it or not even though I'm in no rush. I do eventually want to get married. The basic plan behind this profile that I have put before you is to maximize my chances of such a miracle as love falling into my lap.

I am a great catch. I have a lot of great qualities that most women on dating services say they are looking for. I am strong, intelligent, passionate and sensitive and loyal as well as spiritual and philosophically deep. Plus I know how to have fun. That being said I have a few material flaws I'm working on. One is a slight pot belly and the other is a higher standard of living.

That is why it is convenient for me to be starting over in casual dating and working my way up slowly to marriage. It gives me time to balance out my material flaws with my spiritual assets. By the way if you read all this and think you don't fit my standards still feel free to contact me. I may have sexual preferences but I do not discriminate in friendship whatsoever. I am a very loyal friend and listen very well(For a man).


One last thing if you are looking for anything serious even way down the line much later …I am not Christian, I am a Vegetarian, I don't smoke and I do not drink. This means if you are a chain smoker, like hunting or live at the bar when your not working or in church, then a long term future is more than doubtful.


The Nitty Gritty

Looking for a woman who is very sensual and enjoys giving and receiving the ultimate kiss Also a woman who enjoys touch Who understands that the dance between touch and kissing lead to the sparks that catch the soul on fire consequently leading to love making that surpasses simple intercourse A woman who can be deep once and awhile and has an advanced sense of humor

So have I wet your appetite amongst other things? If so drop me a line

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
I have over 100 giga bytes in music on my external hard drive(IN MP3s that is ALOT)

Here is a taste
(This isnt everything I have..Most Bands Named I have every album and bootlegs rare covers etc)

Top 10

Pink Floyd
Jimi Hendrix
Bob Marley
John Lee Hooker
Galactic
Led Zepplin
Santana
Yard Birds
Ambrosia
Bright Eyes

Psychedelic

Pink Floyd
Ambrosia
Bright Eyes
Neutral Milk Hotel
The Alan Parsons Project
Velvet UnderGround

Acid Jazz

John Scofield
Liquid Soul
Wasa Express
Phish(Specifically Album:Billy Breaths)
String Cheese Incident

Jazz

Bob James & Earl Klugh
Chic Corea
Miles Davis
Return To Forever
The Rippingtons
Norah Jones
David Sanborn
David Benoit
Wes Montgomery (Jazz Guitar)

Rock

Primus
(I have some Pink Floyd Covers by them done great)

Deep Purple
(John Lord once wrote me back in email)
(I have every album the only band that can compare in variety of styles is GratefulDead.I think they started about the same time but Deep Purple is still around)

Kansas
(Love Wayward Son Their Keyboards sound like Deep Purple and sometimes better. One of their Guitarist Steve Morse is actually playing for Deep Purple Now)

More Classic Rock

Aerosmith
Animals
Beatles (The Later Times)
Cream
Doors
Eagles
Kiss
Led Zepplin
Little River Band
Queen
Rainbow
Rare Earth
Rush
Seals & Crofts
Simon & Garfunkel
Steely Dan
Styx
SugarLoaf(Green Eyed Lady)
The Allman Brothers
The Doobie Brothers
Three Dog Night

Reggae

Bob Marley
Big Youth
Desmond Dekker
Scotty
Burning Spear
The Police

Funk

Galactic (The Best Band Ever)

Parliment Funkadelic
Red Hot Chili Peppers (The Old Stuff I mean)
The Black Keys
The Roots

Blues

(Too Long To List)

Cross Over

(Music by real musicians that has been labled Pop ...I hate most pop music)

These are the exceptions
Alanis Morisette
Bob Seger
Bonnie Rait
Dr Hook
Fleetwood Mac
Jewel
Jim Croce
Jackson Brown
Meridith Brooks

 Moody Blues
Sheryl Crow

Heavy Metal

Ac/Dc
Accept
Alice In Chains
Black Sabbath (Ozzy)
Iron Butterfly
Iron Maiden
Judas Priest
Krokus
Megadeath
Metalica
Pantera
Primus
Tool

Classical
(Cant Remember All That I Like Because There is too much that does nothing for me)

Anything by The New York Philharmonic Orch and I think The London Philharmonic Orch
Mozart and Tchaikovsky (Best Composers Ever)
Beethhoven
Bach

Spiritual Anarchist's Information:

Gender:   Man Birthdate:   September 18, 1970 (36 years old) Sexual Orientation:   Straight Lives in:   Raleigh NC (0 miles from you) Relocate?:   Maybe/Yes Marital Status:   Single Height:   5 ft 7 in / 170-171 cm Body Type:   Average Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker Drinking:   Maybe on New Years Education:   Some college Occupation:   Writer Race:   Caucasian Religion:   Spiritual/Buddhist Have Children:   No Want Children:   Maybe Spiritual Path :   Visionary Psi Ability: Empath Speaks:   English Hair Color:   Dark Blonde Hair Length :   Medium Short Eye Color :   BlueGrey/BlueGreen/ Green Eyes Mood :   Neutral /Emotional/Passionate AIM Handle:   brgordon8 YIM Handle:   notagain5050

A Few of My Other Dating Profiles

Me On Ok Cupid

Me On Veggie Date

Me On American Singles

Me On  Short Passions