If we take the time to assume the feeling of the wish fulfilled more often, then we could master our fate, however we seem to only do it for a moment or just when we get all amped up about it. We need to more often time practice making real the feeling of the wish fulfilled. Once we have assumed the feeling we should ware it like a fragrant odor, and not close it like a book that we have grown tired of reading. Allow this feeling to be apart of all your actions and reactions. A mood often repeated tends to gain momentum as would a bit of water joining with a river joining with a ocean becoming greater and greater rushing ... becomes unstoppable. So one needs to be aware of the feelings they often entertain. Habitual moods reveal the state with which you are fused. An old saying would be show me the people you hang with and I can tell you who you are ....
Again change your mind and your ass will follow ... what are you creating today? If nothing changes nothing changes and you are in control of your FATE not someone else. (Food for thought)
What is your mental diet?
If you think from not of then you have the key to your destiny ....