hello friends and fans! well not really fans just friends who worship me hahahaha! Haven't logged onto MySpace in while cos i have had a slight addiction with the enemy that is known as Facebook! eek! yes i know i'm a Judas, but i'm like that with shiny new things, anyway i get bored just as easily so am back hee hee!
A friend of mine recently asked me whether it is possible to have a good relationship with someone that u dont have chemistry with... you know that spark that makes you instantly drawn to each other...
Theres no straight answer for this really... cos the way i see it you either start a relationship with someone that has amazing chemistry - and most people do this cos its an instant indication that you have a connection with someone. When u start a relationship on chemistry, that usually burns out after a while, and all u have left is either feeling comfortable and happy with each other or findin that u really dont have that much in common if its the latter, then people usually give up but this is when the hard work starts and u have to try harder before you give up.... but most idiots dont do this and lose somethin that couldve been amazin...
however if you start a relationship with someone u dont really have the spark with but are entirely comfortable with... so u feel like friends rather than lovers... you have time to get to know each other... and because you've accepted each other for who u are, who have a different kind of connection that can turn into amazin chemistry.... it just takes time and people dont see that and so never go for the 'comfortable' option.... and this kind of chemistry lasts SO much longer... you just got to be able to see the potential!
And in conclusion.... either way.... the relationship can work, you just have to be prepared to work hard at it... cos love isn't easy!