Let me ask all of you... Do you really think it matters what "God" thinks about you if you are having sex outside of a marrige?  Do you really believe that to be a sin?  Here's my thoughts....  I see sex as a way to really bond with another person, and a way to be as close as you can be with another person.  Wouldn't god want us to be close to each other?  I also believe that (if you are a person with any morals) sex with someone you truly love is at lease a hundred times better than with just some random person.  Because sex or "making love" with someone that you truly love becomes more about pleasing the other person rather than just getting yourself off.  At least that has been my experience.

So if two people love each other and want to please and pleasure each other when its not betraying another person, why is that a sin just because they are not married?