It's about 11:30p on a Sunday night and I've been doing a lot of thinking. Much more than normal, that's for sure. So since this is my blog, I figured I'd use it to vent a little.

I'm not sure if it's just me or if it's just some kind of uncertantity that's lingering around making me have these thoughts. But anyway, I'll ask you this:

Are you paying attention?

What do I mean exactly? Well, thanks for thinking that. I would like to point out that sometimes people may seem that they are paying attention to what your saying and doing but really are they? I mean, I'm the type of person who reads between the lines and even more so, tries to find the meaning behind what's being said and done. Meaning,  I'm a firm believer that actions speak louder than words. I would think it's safe to assume that most people would agree but I'm starting to notice that maybe these are just words also. And, I'm not talking about myself. I just don't say one thing and do another. I keep my word and my promises.

So, how can you tell if someone is pulling one over on you? I really would like to know. It's a pretty sensitive subject. Do you just come straight out and say it? Or do you wait to see how it plays out? Either way, it's a situation I wish I could just avoid. But I keep thinking to myself, what does this all mean.

I know you may be a little confused while your reading this, but it's my thoughts and thoughts are always this confusing.

Back to the subject.

Are you really paying attention to all situations?

I mean, have you ever said one thing and have done another. I mean it happens all the time but are you sorry about it. Or do you just not care? Or are you just not paying attention?

I bring this up cause a lot of times you may be hurting the people who care about you most and not know you're doing it. So my advice is to be a little more cautious, and notice what's happening around you. There are plenty of signs right under your nose. And if you don't stop to notice them, you may be doing more damage than you think. You could even be possibly hurting someone who loves you.

Anyway, I'm pretty lost in my thoughts right now. Maybe I'll let you know what I've concluded. Just remember this, actions really do speak louder than words.