all sorts of common thoughts hun, trust you me.  you'll be a great momma of that i'm sure.
 

having my son has been the BEST thing to ever happen to him. dont let anyone tell you how to raise your own baby. everything that i have done for my son is entirely my own. for example: i put down a polka dot thick wash cloth on his changing matt, so IF he were to pee, i'd point it down and it can always get washed.....i see no point in covering him up with the new diaper when he never even wore it, only for it to be thrown away. a waste of diaper in my eyes!
secondly...after my son takes a poopie, after i get him cleaned up, i always go back with a Cucumber scented wipe to make sure his butt smells fresh and extra clean. =D
my husband things i smother him. others tell me "you're a fucking great mom", yes with the cussword in it.

but you know what? GO WITH YOUR INSTINCT. everything i do. everything other mommies do. is not only their instinct, but from love. sure they take note of advice other mommies give to them, but you should just love your child...and whatever flows..flow.

(except me, im a total OCD, clean-freak, stocking psycho lol. oh..and i overpack hahah. carry too many of this and that and such, but like i said...gut instinct)