I believe  that real love is color blind. Just know that their are those whom are not, but in the end, ..DO YOU !!!!!!!!!!!.. ..
 

We'll my great grandmother who reffered to blacks as "colored folk" and whites as "crackers" told me that if a person respects you, loves you then you return it back reguardless of their color.  You know once you reach that age you can't get the termanology to change.....it just is what it is.  It is difficult enough to find someone sometimes with in your own race that meets your standards of trust, loyalty, faithfulness and respect(Of course you not going to go threw everyman in your race to eliminate the others....its just whom presents himself best when your looking for a mate). Really, in any race so I say considering there is a shortage of honorable (God's honor...... not street honor, players honor or hood honor) if you find a good man that can love you unconditionally and willing to move mountains ....KEEP HIM!  Yet, at the end of they day a brother that takes care of home, family and works is beautiful.
 

I have not problem with it. If there is nothing but love in that relationship it doesn't matter what other people think it is about how you and that individaul feel about each other
 

I think its okay. People should date who they want to date and have no problem with it. Just like the Bisexual and Homosexual they should be able to be with their loved ones without a hassel. I always say its their relationship and life if u dont like it dont look!!
 

i myself have no problem with it! i embrace the unity of two souls... whether it be that of the same race or not! when you find some one that is mutually compatible then i think you should let go and let flow.......... i could care less if the person was blue! if i love him and he loves me then what the hell..... i dont care what my family or friends think of my decision because my happiness is important.... i have lost plenty of family members because of my decision to marry my childrens father that is black..... i have never been with a man of my own race and dont see it happening.....i am more attracted to men of a different race. i feel to each his own! i feel that everyone should have a chance at true happiness.... so get out of our way! no offence taken.....
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I Love it! The World is one big beautiful melting p0t!(^_^)
 

I wouldn't have it any other way....Loving vs. Loving happend for a reason.....This is why our creator made us different...to teach us "to" love one another.....Besides...in biblical times people didn't really care that much about interrmarriage...because it was common among folks. There was so much war and fighting and conquering of  city after city after city....who knows how much sex went on between all these cultures!~ Man separated "himself" from his brother.....not God.....Besides...a black man's skin is like velvet...who wouldn't want to touch that and not feel a little guilty pleasure.......
 

....I am a person that has dated different races of people. I am not at all against it. I am a black woman who white men love. I just believe it is my kindness to all souls which belongs to God. He made us all.
To each their own. I love my black men and they are my personal preference. Yet I have been with very kind and loving white and spanish guys.
I need a handy man, one that makes love beyond this world, one that loves to listen and talk, one that is a best friend who loves to shop and go out with me and someone who don't mind spending money on me as I will do to him. LOL!! I am asking too much out of one man?????? Talk to me.....
 

Speaking to a black man, you already know the issues we face the inner pain of a black woman.
It hurts to see so many of our entertainers, athletes and prominent black men choose women outside of their race to marry and rear children with. The suffering of black people is ongoing because no one wants to address it. If black women are treated with the same values as other women and not forced to carry the burden of rearing children alone, things would change. Interracial dating would be more widely accepted.A healing has to take place before change can occur.

 

White men are disrespectful to white women...I speak from experience. I work in a mans world driving and 18 wheeler. In the 13 years I have driven....I have never been disrespected as a woman by a black man or other race. But a white man will walk right by you and not acknowlege you are even there. They call you names, cut you down, and so on and so on. This is why I date/marry outside my race. Because  the majority of white men are evil. Struggle has been for all women, pain has been for all women. When women come together as one and not define themselves by the color of their skin, then....we can agree on something. Women have been raising children alone for thousands of years. Since when did a woman not struggle? Who do you think cooked the "last supper"? Did we get any credit for that? We live in a patriarchate way of thinking..What has man done for women ever? We have had to struggle tooth and nail all because of the stupid ways of man. Before the Bible...women were cherished, loved, adored, worshiped, respected...women ruled in the lands of our ancestors...Anyone who stresses over the color of someones skin or cultural background has got some growing to do....WOMEN NEED TO UNITE! The color of someones skin does not define who they are! Its no different than saying....Oh I like red hair vs brown hair...or I like oranges vs tangarines! Labels!! I hate them!
 

I'm not sure if you are attacking me or not with your comment, regardless of the way you feel I have a right to my opinion. My comments might have offended you, but they are true. I'm speaking from my own culture and experiences.
There is nothing wrong with me wanting better for black women or any other race women. I don't expect you to understand how I feel, but don't reply to me negatively if you feel women should stick together. Why don't you ask me why I feel this way  and what type of experiences I have had. There's nothing wrong with you loving a black man and I also know there are good and bad in all races.

 

It wasn't negative...I promise you.
 

I just wanted to say thank you.

 

I don't have a problem with inter
 

I do not have a problem with interracial relationships, dating or marriages. I agree with "Serious Diva Mix" when she said
 

Love is a good thing regardless of race.  I think as long as both individuals are happy everything will be fine...

 

I think if you are truly in love with a person as GOD loves you. You should not see color! As long as a person is happy a person should do them race should never be an issue! I get rude looks a lot but I get good ones too! I love my husband and he loves me!
 

I have no problem with that. My brother married a white girl, so all is well.
 

Depends all my life i have been screwed over by different races but not my own so how can I agree with it after a while you say whatever and develop your own oppinion because they left you no choice. I use to date out my race until it almost cost me my life.
 

My son is biracial and my man is black! Who cares bout color....I know I don't!
 

..New Interracial Dating site..
 

..There is nothing wrong with dating whoever you love. However, it only becomes a problem, if you are involved in the relationship for all the wrong reasons. It has been my experience that many, but not all, black men, and women engage in those kinds of relationship, because of “Internalized Racism” the hatred of self. So that my words don’t get misconstrued, I emphasized the word, “But Not All.” There is a small few, that I can say, “Honestly have true love.” That is why this is my experience?.. ..
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.. ..I have witnessed black women that have gotten into interracial relationships, and blame an entire group of black men, because of her bad experience with one black man, and because she made the wrong decision in her choice. I think that this happens far to often, and is unfair to a lot of good brothers. I have also seen black men, down grade black women because he couldn’t deal with her attitude, forcefulness, or confidence. He didn’t know how to show her the lion... ..
.. ..There is a silent problem that also comes with “Internalized Racism” the hatred of self, this problem exist when parents who are involved in interracial relationships, teach their children how to hate a particular side of their heritage. When I used to work in Corporate America I witnessed these two black sisters that would only date white guys. They would be in the office complaining about black men smoking weed, and driving their cars. But they were dating white guys, that like to smoke weed, and drive their cars. I thought to myself “Wow that’s rather strange.” WTF! But later, after meeting their mother, I finally realize where their hatred came from. Because their mother wasn’t happy with her experience, she taught her daughters that all black men were bad, especially if he smoked weed in your car. LMAO .. ..
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.. ..I love all kinds of women African-American, Caucasian, Asian, Latino, but most important of all, I love myself. But if you can’t learn to love yourself, how can you love someone else?.. ..
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..In a world of transparencies, there has always been somethings that have always been transparent. The moral of the story about the two sisters has to do with “Hypocrisy vs Standards.” You can’t reject one group because of their flaws, and accept another with those flaws. In a transparent world that my friends is called “hypocrisy.”  We see it happening everyday, but no one has put it on the table...
 

The Bible says. I Samuel 16:7 that man looks at the "outward" appearance but God looks at the "heart". To me its a blessing just to find LOVE in these times. So who cares if your skin tone is different as long as your hearts match that's all that matters. The saying we all know goes like this " you can't judge a book by its cover" if we actually read the book we would appreciate what's inside of it. Who cares if the cover looks boring its what's inside that's going to empower you. Love empowers us to do what we couldn't imagine doing on our own, that's why God says its the GREATEST gift. If people would focus on whtas inside the box and not the wrapping they would be amazed.
 

The Bible says. I Samuel 16:7 that man looks at the "outward" appearance but God looks at the "heart". To me its a blessing just to find LOVE in these times. So who cares if your skin tone is different as long as your hearts match that's all that matters. The saying we all know goes like this " you can't judge a book by its cover" if we actually read the book we would appreciate what's inside of it. Who cares if the cover looks boring its what's inside that's going to empower you. Love empowers us to do what we couldn't imagine doing on our own, that's why God says its the GREATEST gift. If people would focus on whtas inside the box and not the wrapping they would be amazed.
 

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..Love has no color.  People need to stop with the hating process and get with the accepting process.  Look, we are all on this planet and the way I see it, we need love not hate!  We should never be put in a position to hide our love for someone because of the color of his or her skin.  .............. ............Recently a young man who was dating a black woman almost lost his life because he loved a person in an unconditional manner. Apparently, people within the neighborhood did not like the fact that ....an African American ....from their community was dating a white man. This man was beat down and almost died. The father of the victim is pursuing this as a hate crime; with which, I agree, it should be treated as a hate crime. .............. ............What gives a person the right to decide who should date whom? My grandmother always said, "Never kick a turd cause it might just be your cousin".  We are all interracially mixed whether we like it or not.  Do not think for one minute your skin color depicts otherwise.  What we should be working on is the racism within our own culture/community.  .............. ............Martin Luther King fought for equality, acceptance and respect of person and now we have the nerve to tell someone that they are wrong for having an interracial relationship.  Consider, “that in it of itself is considered racist act.  Now [we] think we have the right to infringe upon two people who are in love.  What right do we have when Mr. King gave his life for the sak....e African American.... of freedom?  If you do not like someone being racist towards you then you should not do it to others. I say this IMHO............... ............IBLAUL.................... ............
 

I like what you have said here. I do not condone the violence of attacking someone for the sole purpose of inter-racial mixing. I believe to each his/her own. Being a member of The Nation of Islam, I think it is best that Originals and Non-Originals do not mix; but what is already in existence I will not act out against. I am a product of a mix of Original and non-Original people, as most of us are here in the wilderness of North America. Perhaps it is here that Allah is teaching us how to come together as one Nation. Imagine if all remaining non-Originals were to have children with Originals; then we wouldn't have a new generation of non-Originals. So eventually racism would end, but what about tribalism, which is as bad as or maybe even a worse form of racism. I could expound for a long time on this subject, which is to say I'll take a break here.

Peace and Blessings,

Kevin 6X, author of Psychological War: The Battles of a Young BlackMan, available at www.kevin6x.com, barnesandnoble.com, amazon.com, and for free excerpts visit http://psychologicalwar.ning.com.

 

....Thank you for reading my response as I too have read your comments and did find some similarities with respect to our thoughts on this subject.  I would like to bring to your attention a statue that remained on the books until 2000 in the state of Alabama.  This statue was  known as the “Miscegenation” which was considered a deviant act. Miscegenation prohibited people of different races from being romantic, sexual, or even having marital relationships with one another.  This statue specifically targeted interracial marriages and/or relationships in order to, as they would say, “Keep the races from mixing” which if you must know is a form of ethnocentrism. Sounds to me they were too late in their thinking as the mixing of races has been in existence for centuries. A person ethnicity should be a strong point for the sake of the past present and future.  The bottom line, no one has the right to discriminate as our history has shown it only breaks us down as a race of people – the human race.  With my grandfather being white and my great grandfather being full-blooded Indian; the rest, let us just say it’s Heinz 57.  There’s no way I would change who I am nor the past that makes me what I am today, Heinz 57, a little bit of everything in one bottle.  Got fries?  (All smiles) g2g.........Love has not taste, color, it just knows where it belongs!
Many blessings...
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Using the wisdom of Father Ibrahim (Prophet Abraham of the Bible, the father of all the righteous) he told his sons not to mix with the seed of Canaan. Now with that in mind, I'd like to fast forward to what we have been taught by The Honorable Elijah Muhammad. He explained that The Original Man is the Asiatic Blackman, and within the Asiatic family we have the Black, Brown, Red and Yellow. The Caucasian white man is the non-original man. (read Message To The Blackman in America, by Elijah Muhammad, available at www.finalcall.com, or visit your local Mosque or Study Group). My paternal Grandmother, was a Dutch woman. I say was, cause she passed away in 1998, and she grafted herself back into the Original family, by marrying a half-original man (my Grandfather was German, Indian). Their son (my father) married and had children with an Original woman (my mother being Black, Native American). Now, you Original and non-Original people: BEFORE you lay down with each other, decide if you want to participate in the graft process, which will eliminate the non-originals. How do I feel personally about this issue? I am a product of a graft, and I thank Allah for having mercy on me to allow me into His Nation of Islam. I oppose the mixing of Originals and non-Originals in theory, but if the couples have already come together, I respect those couples and pray that they are at peace with their choice to be one. Non-Originals know that they will no longer be non-Originals through their offspring. Some of them love this truth, and some of them despise this truth. On another note, I would like for my Asiatic Black Sisters to accept your own Asiatic Brown, Red and Yellow Sisters who mix with your Asiatic Black Brothers. I would like for my Asiatic Black Brothers to accept your own Asiatic Brown, Red and Yellow Brothers who mix with your Asiatic Black Sisters. To clarify who I am talking about with these "colors": Brown (Hispanic/Latino/Mexican); Red (Native American); Yellow (Asians). WE ARE THE ORIGINALS, ACCEPT YOUR OWN AND BE YOURSELF! Thank you!

Kevin 6X, author of Psychological War: The Battles of a Young BlackMan, available at www.kevin6x.com, barnesandnoble.com, amazon.com. For free excerpts visit http://psychologicalwar.ning.com

 

......I would like to bring to your attention a statue that remained on the books until 2000 in the state of Alabama.  This statue was  known as the “Miscegenation” which was considered a deviant act. Miscegenation prohibited people of different races from being romantic, sexual, or even having marital relationships with one another.  This statue specifically targeted interracial marriages and/or relationships in order to, as they would say, “Keep the races from mixing” which if you must know is a form of ethnocentrism. Sounds to me they were too late in their thinking as the mixing of races has been in existence for centuries. A person ethnicity should be a strong point for the sake of the past present and future.  The bottom line, no one has the right to discriminate as our history has shown it only breaks us down as a race of people – the human race.  With my grandfather being white and my great grandfather being full-blooded Indian; the rest, let us just say it’s Heinz 57.  There’s no way I would change who I am nor the past that makes me what I am today, Heinz 57, a little bit of everything in one bottle.  Got fries?  (All smiles) g2g.........Love has not taste, color, it just knows where it belongs!....
 

....Let us not be unevenly yoked? ........What, about the pressures children of interracial couples have? ........There, children after a certain age suffer behind their relationships. They’re, often neglected by a parent or family members. Due, to their skin color becoming too dark or the texture of their hair becomes too tight? ........Often, mix/black children are made fun of, laugh at and ridiculed just because their “parent” reluctant to learn how to care for their skin and hair. And especially their daughters they’re made too walk out the house looking foolish or disheveled. These Children often times grow up lacking confidence and uncertain about whom they are confused how they’ll fit into society. Some white woman refuses too allow their mix sons to date black girls. I’ve know them to even demand that they don’t associate with them and they better not think about bringing one home. What, does that really say, about them and their love for the black man?........What, about their language and cultural differences who gives up what?........What, about their Religions who gives up what?........What, about the depleting of ones race who becomes non-existing?........What, about what Statistics are saying about the Black Race becoming extinct by 2010?........Why, so quick to point out love is blind when we’ve not yet learned to love each other.........If, love were truthfully blind there would be no racism in “America” or the World.........I wonder what is really behind other races fixation to have a Black Man? ........After, all that has been said about them and done to them over the centuries. ........I say yes. Date who you want since what you’re doing is lusting anyway. ........Though, don’t have children by them and don’t marry them. ........And yes, my family looks like yours very flavorful in color.........Learn to love self and your race before you speak on loving others. ..........And please stop with the excuse that love is blind till racism is dead.  ..........And for the record Black Woman, do own the rights to the Black Man. ........Yes, simply because they are both from the Black Race and need each other to continue being. ........Why, should any race have to become extinct for others to have “fun” “compete”? ........Love you all in Jesus name yet; love on My Black Peoples the more.......Sister Kat/..