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This Week's Updates ..> ..> It's a big issue this week. There was no newsletter last week because I was moving, so I'm making up for this week with an over-sized issue.  More for your reading pleasure.  Enjoy! Visit any Swinger Clubs lately? Then don't forget to post a review in our  Club Listings & Reviews section. and let others know how your night went. Remember, your reviews help others make informed decisions.  If your night goes really well you might just want to write a story about it for our swinger stories section. Help us get the word out about the Swingers Board, tell your friends about this great site.  You can also help us out by adding us as a friend on your MySpace and Yahoo360 profiles.  Swingers Board on MySpace -  SwingersBoard on Yahoo360. Need some ideas for Valentines presents for your Swinger friends? Try the  Swingers Board store Have you taken the Swingers Board survey yet?  We are looking to update our statistics so be sure to stop by and input yours.   Featured Swingers .. START AdPeeps.com Code --> .. .. END AdPeeps.com Code --> New Club Listings New Club Reviews   Meeting Place -Decatur MI   For our full listings of clubs and club reviews be sure to visit http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/clubs.php If you would like to submit a review of a club you have visited, please use the link provided above, find the club you wish to review, then select "post a review" from the clubs listing. To have your club listed on the Swingers Board, use the link provided above and select the appropriate region.  From the region page, select "add a club".  If your club belongs in more than one region be sure to submit it to each one. New Stories Events Calendar Friends of the Family - by OnceWere Group Sex Weekend pt 3 - by Edison Carter  Visit GroupSexStories.com for more Swinger Stories View Upcoming Events on the Swingers Board Events Calendar!
Swingers Message Board Digest
Introductions!!
A big Swingers Board welcome goes out to all the new members who took the time to introduce themselves this past week: des1re06, wildandmo,  Nudesailing, swingcouple69, clrmntcpl, mawilbwm, midwestgal, bmndallastx, trent69, bobbarb07, BlackPaul, ColdOkie, MidwesternStock, mrmrsglass, dwcortez, droberts, explorin, Zocrow, mrmass, guero, AreU4us2Nite, 2BeDeviled, johnde, Drrobb, miss peaches, theworthingtons, hotmusicdude, 2monkeys, Bliss8177, Made4u2pleasure, aquapipo, omahahot, bobnjan, KinkyOHcpl, cubnamy1995, couple85602, hancimi, applevenus and FreeLove28. and rocknrollrebal. To introduce yourself and to read other's introductions go to:  http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=19
Situational HELP!!!
KinkyKat asked "Do We Just Forget It?", she posted that her and her SO have both had group sex in the past while single and she would enjoy a MFM threesome with him but he wants a FMF first. She feels they have different views on swinging and is looking for advice on how to work this out.   New Beie asked "Did I Go Too Far", she is considering becoming a sexual tutor for a much younger man but is worried that he might want more than just a physical/sexual relationship. In "Tired of Swinging", MinxyAgain posted that after a year of swinging and several encounters, she does not feel like swinging anymore. Her SO wants to continue, she doesn't want to disappoint him but only wants to play with him and asked how does she get through to him. In "Emotional Questions", crackerOjack posted that they have had two full swap encounters and he wonders if he is looking at things wrong in that he asked how should he react when he sees his wife doing something to the other man that she has never done for him. Mr&MrsSwing are "Needing some clarity and input", while at a club she made a move on another man, which her husband knew she was, but during her move her husband interrupted her. She was upset for being interrupted and he was upset feeling he was being excluded. In "One for the ladies. Do you lose respect if your man plays with a man?", SuAndBud posted that Bud is considering performing a BJ on the male half of a couple they are planning on playing with since it's something that the women would enjoy to see, his concern is if this will make him gay or not. In "My mother is a swinger", 3465 posted that she is upset with her mother because she had a party and allowed guest to play in her brothers' room and is wondering if she is going about confronting her mother in the right way. In "Girlfriend loves to go, but won't play", lafinwest asked why his girlfriend enjoys going to the party, drinking, dancing, being nude and watching others swing but doesn't want to make the final leap of joining in on the fun?  MulderNScully said "Man, am I that nervous when it comes to the Lifestyle?", Scully has made observations that Mulder seems to be really nervous when attending a club as well as not seeming interested when they are in a room with another couple, he's looking for ways to relax more at these times.  Gatorvol64 are "Caught between the lifestyle and a teenager", their son caught them on the board and now he says he's going to tell people about their swinging and that they are not good examples. They are looking for advice on how to deal with him.    To read all of these topics and more go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=11
General Swingers Stuff
"Ethical Non Monogamy" was our first HOT Topic this past week, posted by ViSexual.  He posted a link to an article that used the term 'ethical non-monogamy' to describe swinging and other alternative lifestyles. He feels that it isn't what you do nearly as much as choosing the right words or spins, in describing it.  Those that responded had varying views.  There were some that felt no matter what word or term you used to describe 'swinging', it was still the same thing.  Others felt that yes, it did matter what term/word was used as the meaning behind the word or term described things differently. There were also those that didn't really care one way or the other and just felt that the article was well written.  What do you think? Is a rose by any other name just as sweet? Click here to read the whole thread and post your opinion. Our second Hot Topic was "GFE-Prostitution In The Lifestyle, Part II", posted by Spoomonkey.  He asked if prostitution were legalized, how do you think this would affect the lifestyle and how would those changes affect your experience with the lifestyle? The majority of responders seemed to think that legal prostitution would not affect the swing clubs or swing lifestyle at all, as they feel that the two would still remain separate. A few posted that if prostitution were legal and prostitutes were allowed in swinger clubs they would no longer attend swinger clubs. Where as a few other posters said that they could see where it would be much easier to find a single female for FMF threesomes if prostitution were legal. What do you think, would legalized prostitution affect swinging and/or swinger clubs in anyway. Would it affect your experience in the swinging lifestyle? Click here to read the entire thread and post your opinion. In "Bumper sticker", an Unregistered Guest asked where they could find a bumper sticker that would let others know they were swingers. In "Do you go to the party?", NewFrontier posted that they were invited to a small house party but are not attracted to one of the host. They asked would you go if you're not interested in the hosts, especially since it's a small gathering. In "Hands Full", 28volts posted that they are getting more offers and invites than they can handle and asked if you would be disappointed if you knew you would have to wait a while to meet someone or would you lose interest. In "The End of an Era", SW_PA_couple posted that they received word that Connection Magazines will be ceasing publication of their magazines. In "Swinging in the news", TNT posted a link to a news feed about swinging for others to view. In "A good night for a MFM!", Youngcalcpl posted his excitement about his wife being out with a friend of his while he was waiting at home for their return. Forchasingamy asked "FMF-How did it happen?", they are looking for a single female for a threesome but have had no luck and are asking others that have experienced this how it happened. In "Not necessarily your cup of tea", Nicepairinct asked the women if once they got into swinging if they basically enjoyed the foreplay of flirting and dancing but could not see themselves doing more than that on a regular basis.   In "How about the girls, what kind of guys heat you up?", mywildside asked the ladies what makes you hot and slippery for a guy.  In "SLS and jealousy...Or were we doing something wrong?", Oleg&Lena post that they are having a hard time finding people that want to form a friendship first before sex and they think it's due to jealousy issues.  In "Weeding out the Fakes", des1re06 posted that they are thinking about canceling all their on-line ads and meeting people only at swinger events since it seems to them that no one really wants to meet after saying they do through e-mails and IMs.  Tncuple asked "Any of you guys been intimidated by a woman's sexual past?", they met a couple where the female talked extensively about her past sexual experiences and the male half didn't feel like he could live up to her past. In "What a great evening!", MrsVan posted that she wished more swingers would focus on how swinging reassures their love for each other, a thought she had after they had a great evening at a club. In "Swingers interviewed-things they say!", Tybee Swing posted exerts from an interview of swingers from a news article for others to read. In "Looking for 'The Lifestyle' by T. Gould/recommended reading?", sexcupid is asking for help in finding this book for a reasonable price. In "Fluffernutters?', richdon03 asked what a fluffernutter was as it related to swinging. In "Vanilla or not Vanilla...that is the question", SuAndBud met a vanilla could that they enjoy spending time with and flirting with but they can't seem to find the words to ask if they are also swingers. Tybee Swing said "Please take this poll: Swingers have a voice!", she posted a link to a poll on another site for people to participate in and tell why they swing.  In "A swinging wife's trust level", TNT asked how would you have reacted to a phone call where the person who called you said your husband had slept with her and told her that he and you were separated. In "YMMV-Prostitution In The Lifestyle", Spoomonkey posted about a growing trend that they have noticed happening at one of the clubs they attend-sex for money where erotic dancers were coming into the club and single males were using escorts as tickets into the club. In "Swinging with an Asian Wife", peabody posted that his wife is Asian and that men they swing with seem to get very turned on by her but he wonders if men really get that turned on by Asian women.  Havefuninsun said "People, People--where is the LOVE?", he's noticed a lot of negative post on the board lately and asked can't we all just get along.  To read all of these topics and many more (and to add your own thoughts as well) go to: http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=8
New Swingers
In "Our first full swap! WOW!", des1re06 posted they had their first full swap and how much fun it was. In "contact us please", cpleinfrtworth are interested in swinging but have no idea how to start. In "Married Man", Roundstic posted that they have been having MFM threesomes with a man they thought was single but now think he is married, they enjoy the time they spend with him and wonder if they should continue or call it quits. In "Need some swinging advice please", swingcouple69 posted that she has no interest right now in a MFM threesome, although her husband is willing, but is finding it hard to find a female for a FMF threesome so she wonders if there is a way to get her past not wanting another man. In "First timer", cpl36996 post that he thinks his wife is interested in having a MFM threesome but when he tries to talk to her about it she says she's not. Pdogg asked "Were we wrong?", they met a couple that they felt comfortable with but before their play date with them, the wife got scared so they called to explain her fears and now even though the other couple said they understood, they no longer will return e-mails. In "Finding couples without clubs", theworthingtons are new to swinging and are not comfortable with a club setting, they are looking for ways to meet other couples without having to go to clubs. CrackerOjack said "It Happened!!!OMG", he posted that they had their first swap and how much they enjoyed it. In "Safety, How Did You Do It?", Big Red Machine asked how do you prevent STDs during swinging. In "Frustrated Duo in MD", Bliss8177 posted that they are having a hard time finding compatible couples and singles to play with and are looking for advice. In "Questions from a young newbie couple", aquapipo posted that they are really new to swinging and asked do you experience jealousy during swinging and how has it affected your overall happiness. In "Update", crackerOjack posted that he and his wife feel that swinging was one of the best decisions they ever made as things are going great with the couple they are playing with. In "Advice on GF re-swinging", nyloveandsex posted that his girlfriend had threesomes before they met but does not want to have them with him, he asked what can he do to encourage her wild side. Nyloveandsex posted a poll question in "First time experience good?", how was your first time swinging. In "My Age...Or WHAT?", AreU4Us2Nite posted that since she has brought up swinging to her husband, her sex drive has increased and she wonders if she is hitting her sexual peak. To read all of these topics and more go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=9
Swinging Single
In "Single Men?", kush2112 posted that to them it seems like there is a lot of single men who pretend to be couples in an effort to collect pictures and have cyber sex. In "Finding a single guy on SLS", summitcouple posted that they are interested in a single man for a MFM threesome and were wondering if anyone could recommend one off of SLS. To read all of the topics in this forum go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=10
Polyamory & Swinging
In "My Semi-Poly Relationship is Ending", NaughtyKitten posted about her heartbreak over her poly-relationship ending due to the third finding a girlfriend and moving out of state. To read all of the topics in this forum go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=137
Sex Questions
Anothercouple69 posted a poll question in "Gangbang?", have you ever had a gangbang. In "Vasectomy?", a guest asked if having a vasectomy affected sex drive and ejaculation volume. In "The Definition of Good Sex", Spoomonkey asked what is good sex and how do you define it. To read all of these topics and more go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=5
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