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This Week's Updates ..> ..> Don't miss the Swingers Board Meet Ups! This summer there are some big events planned so be sure to check out the Meet Up forum for the event near you (or the event in the city you most want to visit)! Visit any Swinger Clubs lately? Then don't forget to post a review in our  Club Listings & Reviews section. and let others know how your night went. Remember, your reviews help others make informed decisions.  If your night goes really well you might just want to write a story about it for our swinger stories section. Help us get the word out about the Swingers Board, tell your friends about this great site.  You can also help us out by adding us as a friend on your MySpace and Yahoo360 profiles.  Swingers Board on MySpace -  SwingersBoard on Yahoo360. Have you checked out the   Swingers Board store lately!  If you are planning to attend one of the upcoming Meet Ups, you definitely want to pick up a Swingers Board T-shirt and how about one of those tote bags! Have you taken the Swingers Board survey yet?  We are looking to update our statistics so be sure to stop by and input yours.   Featured Swingers .. START AdPeeps.com Code --> .. .. END AdPeeps.com Code --> New Club Listings New Club Reviews The Gold Key Club - Keego Harbor MI   Northaven Resort - Irish Hills MI TJ's  - Newport PA   For our full listings of clubs and club reviews be sure to visit http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/clubs.php If you would like to submit a review of a club you have visited, please use the link provided above, find the club you wish to review, then select "post a review" from the clubs listing. To have your club listed on the Swingers Board, use the link provided above and select the appropriate region.  From the region page, select "add a club".  If your club belongs in more than one region be sure to submit it to each one. New Stories Events Calendar A Younger Guy - by MiamiMark A Friend's Husband & My Wife - by MiamiMark  Visit GroupSexStories.com for more Swinger Stories View Upcoming Events on the Swingers Board Events Calendar! Please Visit Our Sponsor: .. START AdPeeps.com Code --> .. .. END AdPeeps.com Code -->
Swingers Message Board Digest
Introductions!!
A big Swingers Board welcome goes out to all the new members who took the time to introduce themselves this past week: Swinginfree, BRaysHoNeYBree, curiousswingers, Loves2eatslit, edandmaryinmn, Pam/Zeb, PCC, wickedwolf, Tex Longone, Curious George, cuplin, BorednUnexplord, unforgiven, paige200624, ladytaster and Oui2You2. To introduce yourself and to read other's introductions go to:  http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=19
Situational HELP!!!
The HOT Topic this past week was "We had a 3 some but now it's very complicated for my wife...need advice please!", posted by smpdjd. He posted that he and his wife had their first threesome with another man that they both really liked. However, now his wife is confused about her feelings. She wants to sleep with the other man one-on-one, which one part of him wants to let her and the other part is afraid it might turn into an affair. He's not sure what he's suppose to do.  Most of the responders felt that it was just the "new toy" syndrome for his wife but that he really needed to talk to her and let her know what he was feeling. A few responders think there might be other problems in the marriage for his wife to feel this way and that he should put his foot down and say no to the one-on-one.  Click here to read the entire thread and post what you think, is it just a "new toy" syndrome or could there be other problems? In "Ready to play with close friends but", an Unregistered Guest posted that he and his wife are considering playing for the first time with close friends who are experienced in swinging, they have a couple of issues with these friends, one that the husband is not really attracted to the other wife and the wife is not sure how she feels about having a bi experience with her good friend, they are looking for advice on what they should do. Ind41couple "Need advice", they asked is there a difference between an open relationship and being a swinger and do you think a couple can do both. DBL D said "To Whisper or not to Whisper, that is the Question", while in the middle of playing with some playmates, Fem D and the other husband were whispering to each other and this upset the other wife, they asked what are the boards feelings about whispering with your playmates. Gladiola4u are "Confused about strange feelings", the morning after their last play date the hubby started having strange feelings that he couldn't put his finger on, not jealous or shame but just strange. They asked if others have ever had strange feelings after playing before. HappyCouple2308 asked "Am I crazy???", a couple they were planning on meeting informed them that they were meeting with friends of theirs on a Friday night and them on a Saturday night, this didn't sit well with them as they felt uncomfortable playing with someone who had just played the night before with friends of theirs, plans were canceled and now they wonder if they did something wrong by letting their feelings known. Knockedonmyass asked "How do I handle this one?", his wife performed a sexual act with a play partner that she refuses to perform with him, when he asked about it she became defensive and won't discuss it with him, he's not sure how he should feel or what he should do or say.     To read all of these topics and more go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=11 .. START AdPeeps.com Code --> .. .. END AdPeeps.com Code -->
General Swingers Stuff
The HOT Topic this past week was, "Activities with cheating men. Thoughts?", posted by LetsParty . They were out with another couple and during the conversation it was discovered that the wife will go out with married men, who are cheating on their wives and thinks there is nothing wrong with this as she's not the one lying, they are.  This set them back a bit and they are looking for others thoughts on this. The majority of the responders agreed that this was wrong in their opinion as they felt if someone is going to lie to their spouse, what stops them from lying to them and that they would not knowingly play with a cheater. A few others who posted said that it was not their place to police other's lives and if someone was a cheating spouse that they were a match to they had no problems with playing with them.  Click here to read the entire thread and post your opinion on playing with those who are cheating on their spouse/SO. In "Interracial Swing", an unregistered Guest posted that because they are a mixed race couple, black female/white male, they get a lot of mail that states because she is black this is a turn-on and they ask why is a black female a turn-on and a black male a turn-off. In "Condom use", sexcupid asked how prevalent is condom use in your area, to them it seems to take people by surprise when they have them available for use.  In "Opinions...The sweet, sweet smell of a woman!", Texasfuncouple would like to get opinions on what the ladies favorite lotions, perfumes and powders are.  In " Alt.com ...good?", edein is looking for advice on if it's worth paying for a membership on Alt.com. Hose4play said "I am adventuring out alone...any suggestions for me?", he has been in swinging with his wife for a few years but now she has lot interest and approves of him going at it alone, he's looking for suggestions on how to do this. In "Would this concern you or your SO?", Menage_a_Trois posted that during playing the man she was with told her how much he loved making love with her, this made her uncomfortable yet flattered, she asked has anyone else ever experienced this and if so how did you feel and how did your SO take what happened.  Hopeless_Magic said they are "Feeling like we were born in the wrong era", they are in their early 20s and swinging and finding it hard to find people their age to play with. http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=8
New Swingers
In "What do you do the first time?", racycat posted that she has thoughts/ideas on how she would like things to play out for the first time but asked how do these situations play out. In "Slow and Steady Wins the Race (we hope)", Cloud of Love posted that since making the decision to actually swing, they have been on a couple of no-play dates and are looking forward to their first time.  In "Advice on finding people", Swinginfree are looking for advice on ways to meet people, either couples or singles for some fun. In "How to approach", Mrs.CO5 is looking for ways to feel out if another person is interested in swinging or not. In "Very Bi-curious", BRaysHoNeYBree is looking for advice on finding a bi-female to join her and her boyfriend. In "Totally New And Had Many Questions", Neisa701 posted that her SO has experience in swinging but she does not and asked if going to a meet & greet is a good place for new people to go.  In "Why is so much Pay Only", kontroll4 asked why so many date sites cost money to join. In "With Children", curiousswingers asked how do you swing with young children, when they take up so much of your time. In "I am interested...Maybe?", msfunlady posted that she has been doing her research on swinging but still does not know how to bring it up to her husband, she's looking for advice on this. In "Went for the first time", an Unregistered Guest posted about their first time at a swingers club and the fun they had and how much they are looking forward to returning. To read all of these topics and more go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=9
Swinging Single
To read all of the topics in this forum go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=10
Polyamory & Swinging
In "How would you handle this...", The other Mrs. Menage of Menage_a_Trois posted that she is constantly getting asked why her and Mr. Menage don't get married (he is know at her work as her live-in boyfriend) and she is tired of repeating that she's happy with the way things are. She asked what would you reply to co-workers if you were in her shoes. In "Vacations in a poly relationship", Menage_a_Trois posted a question that was asked of them. How do you do vacations, everyone at the same time or just two of the three go alone. To read all of the topics in this forum go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=137
Sex Questions
To read all of these topics and more go to http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=5
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