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September 25, 2009 - Friday 
Back when I first started doing comedy, when the very idea of comedy didn't exist much further than my home club, I was in the finals of the contest they hold there.  People kept telling me I was going to win. Oh, for SURE I was the best one of the night.

"You're going to win this, Katrina!"

I remember the night clearly.  The club always plays some random DVD for music prior to the show and Billy Joel was playing.  Whoo HOO! An Omen in MY FAVOR!  How could I not be anything short of spectacular with Billy starting the night?

I tanked.

Hard.

I bit it on stage like I was Augustus Gloop heading for a chocolate river, people.

Friends and family alike did the "Avert thine eyes" thing when I came off that stage.  I received the obligatory "You were funny" remarks with such a lack of enthusiasm and honesty it was as though they were delivered with a gun pointed to the speaker's head.

I wasn't funny. I did not do well.  I TANKED.


The very next week, I showed back up at the club.  Head high. 

The owner and the house MC laughed at me as I walked in the door.

"We took bets on whether or not you'd show up here again....."



In the words of Bugs Bunny, "Dey don't know me vewwy well....."


Of course I showed up again.  One set back does not derail me.




Since that night I have had other performances that have been less than stellar, but nothing quite as gut wrenching and stark as that FIRST major tanking on stage.

It's a painful thing to watch, really:  A bad comedian.  Perhaps they aren't a bad comic so much as they're just having a bad night.  That's what happened that night.  My timing was off.  I attempted new material that wasn't funny.  I opened my mouth, got off on the wrong foot, and kept stumbling with zero chance or even ATTEMPT to right myself.

That kind of shit happens.





I haven't been to the gym in a month.  Between a horrific hormonal battle with Aunt Flo and a cold that will not clear up, I have let myself get back into the game of Random Excuses.

I do see not being able to BREATHE properly as a reason to not mount an elliptical, but it boils down to making excuses when the reasons linger too long.

I haven't stepped on a scale in a while.  I don't need to to know I've probably put at least 10-15 pounds back on.  I can tell in my face.  I can tell by how my clothing fits. I can feel it in my veins like someone replaced my blood with a rather thick and rich gravy of sludge.

In the past, when weight loss and health were the goal?

I'd just quit and be done.

It was easier.  It was easier to wallow in my unfortunate genetic build up than to fight it.
  It is very easy to slip up and embrace lazy than regain the momentum built by actions that are far from lazy.


I've had a set back.  Not because I couldn't do the work, but because I made a choice to become lazy again.  Complacent in my indifference.

Now the guilt should come in.  Guilt leads to guilt eating. Guilt eating leads to more fat. And so the cycle goes.



Yeah, fuck it.

Not this time.

I screwed up, but I see it.




And like the choice to get back on stage or accept failure came years ago, I make a choice to NOT GIVE UP just yet.

There's still an athlete in me waiting to get out.  I shall stop smothering her in neglect and continue to try to find her.....

Yvelise

 
Such a great attitude!  It might be hard when you start again, but you will feel good about yourself and that will pump more momentum into it. 

 
Posted by Yvelise on September 25, 2009 - Friday - 7:27 PM
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Katrina Brown

 
I haven't been "off" long enough for it to be too difficult, and this is something I know from other setbacks.  If I wait TOO much longer it will be just like starting over and..... pfft... who wants THAT!? ha!

 
Posted by Katrina Brown on September 27, 2009 - Sunday - 5:09 AM
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ishogirrrl[Heppest]
Lacey Eder

 
Try again. Just the motivational message I needed to hear (or well, read lol) today.

Damn, how do I always manage to read your blogs on those days..either with well-timed humor, a cute picture blog, or just a like this "try again" blog.

:)

 
Posted by ishogirrrl[Heppest] on September 25, 2009 - Friday - 9:51 PM
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Katrina Brown

 
:-)

I'm psychic.  I pick up frequency on the metal plate in my head.  hee hee hee

 
Posted by Katrina Brown on September 27, 2009 - Sunday - 5:09 AM
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ishogirrrl[Heppest]
Lacey Eder

 
I was gonna say twin telepathy...except we're not twins bahaha!

 
Posted by ishogirrrl[Heppest] on September 27, 2009 - Sunday - 6:09 PM
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Adrienne

 
And your oldest started school. This is all new time management territory. Now you know, you must do something and fit it in your new schedule...NOW. It will make you feel better.

As for comedy, the first cut is the deepest. And you learned. It had to happen and probably best it was the first time. Great thing you did not let it deter you from doing it again!

 
Posted by Adrienne on September 25, 2009 - Friday - 10:06 PM
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Katrina Brown

 
We're learning our new schedule now.  It took a while. 

And that first cut is what separates the people who want to do it for a living versus a hobby.  HAVE TO learn from those mistakes.  Sometimes it's hard but most of the time it's not.  I know comics who get stressed out and worked up and freak out...... and I rarely do, which makes me wonder sometimes if I'm doing something wrong because..... hell, I LOVE it all!! 

 
Posted by Katrina Brown on September 27, 2009 - Sunday - 5:08 AM
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Erin Raper, LMT

 
i love smothering that perky bitch! "Go run on the tredmill" "No, video games!" "fine play wii fit!" " yeah but the board's in the other room" "isn't the point of excersize to get off your lazy ass?" "shut up, i have oreos" "oooo... cookies" and then she's quiet!
 
Posted by Erin Raper, LMT on September 25, 2009 - Friday - 11:43 PM
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Katrina Brown

 
HA HA HA HA!!

 
Posted by Katrina Brown on September 27, 2009 - Sunday - 5:07 AM
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cinsuze

 
You'll be find.  Your attitue is right!  That's more than half the battle.
There's not a comedian out that who hasn't bombed time and time again.   I used to love it when one of Johnny Carson's jokes bombed.  He handled it so well!

 
Posted by cinsuze on September 26, 2009 - Saturday - 6:01 AM
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Katrina Brown

 
New jokes, on occasion, still flop.  Learning how to deal with it is fun.  At first you panic and now I play RIGHT along into it with the crowd.  And it ends up being funny BECAUSE it bombed.  Such a riot!!

 
Posted by Katrina Brown on September 27, 2009 - Sunday - 5:07 AM
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Suzi ♥'s sushi

 
You soo rule!

It's like me, even though my gimp leg makes it hard to be "on top", I keep on trying.

LMAO
 
Posted by Suzi ♥'s sushi on September 26, 2009 - Saturday - 6:22 AM
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Katrina Brown

 
You are so fuckin' funny, woman!

 
Posted by Katrina Brown on September 27, 2009 - Sunday - 5:07 AM
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Susana B
Susan Barrett

 
I can so relate Kat.  I got a bike for my birthday, starting riding and walking and doing Zumba.  Starting for feel somewhat good and then....hubby comes home and gives me his bitch of a cold.  I'm still trying to get over it.  I walked yesterday and was miserable but I powered through it.  So hang in there girl, we'll get there.
 
Posted by Susana B on September 26, 2009 - Saturday - 11:03 PM
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Katrina Brown

 
If at first you don't succeed and all that happy horse shit, right? ha ha ha!!

It's a life long battle for me.  I know this.  And that's okay.  Some people battle cancer or horrific things.  I'm talking about ass fat and cellulite.  In that perspective I think I've got it pretty damn easy.  :-)

 
Posted by Katrina Brown on September 27, 2009 - Sunday - 5:06 AM
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Mama K

 
You go Girl!  I know you can do it.  Get back on that horse and while you are at it, don't beat yourself up too much.  New photo.  I can't resist.
 

Isn't he just a miracle?  You gave me this hope.  You truly are my friend.

 
Posted by Mama K on September 27, 2009 - Sunday - 4:36 AM
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Katrina Brown

 
That made me tear up a bit there woman.  He is a true blessing.... and a cute lil' bugger to boot!! Sooooo very happy and excited for you  guys!!

 
Posted by Katrina Brown on September 27, 2009 - Sunday - 5:05 AM
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Collette ~ Gypsy unleashed

 
I noticed my loose comfy jeans were not so much of either this weekend.

I too am on a search for that skinny girl who was here a few months ago. *sighs*

Hang in there, you have the perfect attitude to find her!
 
Posted by Collette ~ Gypsy unleashed on September 28, 2009 - Monday - 6:05 PM
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Laura

 
We all fall off the wagon.  You're human.  I just got back on the wagon a month ago and i thought the elliptical would kill me.  I started weights today for the first time in a year.  Hope I can walk tomorrow.  You'll get back on it when the time is right.  It has to be your decision and you have to have the right mindset. IT'S FREAKIN HARD!
 
Posted by Laura on September 29, 2009 - Tuesday - 2:44 AM
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Katrina Brown



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