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It
really all comes down to unrealistic expectations on marriage and love.
It’s probably super rare that anyone has that exact overwhelming new
love feeling the entirety of their marriage or relationship (this
feeling actually isn’t real to begin with; it’s you projecting your
desire onto another person. which is why it’s so easy to feel it with
so many different people, and why it’s easy for you to jump from one
person to the next as if humans are disposable). it seems more
realistic that you’ll have good days and bad, and when people see that,
or lose that happy love honeymoon feeling, they think the marriage or
relationship is over instead of realizing things can go in cycles.
Notice
that when you leave one relationship because you ‘fell out of love’ or
you refuse to work on certain problems, you almost certainly end up in
a new relationship that eventually ends in the same exact way. you can
either work it out with one person or constantly be in the revolving
door of new relationships, searching aimlessly and insatiably for
perfection.
it is rare that you will come to this realization,
and even more rare that you will find another person who is willing to
go thru the motions with you. there will always be passion; you can
feel it for anyone or anything. it’s a DECISION, not some great force
outside of yourself that dictates who you will love and when you will
love them. Relationships aren’t Disney, they’re a commitment and work.
5:56 PM
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