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Dear Friends:
This note is being written by one of John's friends, at the request of his family.
If you've read his blog or spoken with him, you know that John has been very frank in describing to everyone his illness, and his feelings about it, and about life. You know John – he's not one to sugar-coat much of anything. So we know, and you know, that he would want all of you to know the truth of his current condition.
John's cancer has progressed far more rapidly than even his doctors expected. The radiation treatment that he underwent last October to shrink the lesions in his brain was ineffective. John had decided beforehand that he would seek no further treatment. His family supports his decision, because it is his decision.
John has also decided to spend his remaining days at home, with his family, rather than in hospital. That is where he is now, at home.
As of this writing, it is expected that John may pass in a few days. It might be longer. There is no way to measure such things. But it is clear that John is in the end stage of his illness.
You will be comforted to know that John is surrounded by his family, who are providing exceptional care for him and cradling him with their love. He is not in any pain, and though thin, he's still a handsome fella. There is music playing constantly in his room – the Beatles, Joni Mitchell, all of John's favorites.
At this point, John has little awareness of his surroundings. Occasionally, he will open his eyes, see who is with him, and smile, before slipping back into sleep. Those around him say they feel John has made his peace.
If you have sent John an e-mail that has gone unanswered, understand that this is why. Know, however, that John read your messages for as long as he was able, even though he was unable to respond to you. Your love and support and friendship means so very much to him, and he wants everyone to know that.
Please feel welcome to post messages to John in the Comments section here on his MySpace page. In fact, we encourage you to do so. His family will make certain he knows. Now's the time to show him all of your love, affection, friendship and support.
We'll keep you posted on John's condition. In the meantime, keep a good thought. Keep a picture in your mind of big, blunt, growly, handsome John, laughing his big laugh. Send him a smile, and keep him and his family in your prayers.
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