Well loves, guess what! Enough of you have asked me about Valentine's Day, that I've finally decided to help everyone as best I can. So I got my besty, Tori, to help me out in making 'The Ultimate Valentine's List'. Every thing we can think of for Valentine's day is here for you guys to read and hopefully get helped. Even if this is the least favorite holiday for both of us, I thought it'd be better than having to answer all your questions.
[This is for Quizilla folks too!]

Below is a list of questions and 'Dos and Don'ts'. I have it divided in sections. There's responses from both Tori and myself, sectioned off by color after each question. Hope this helps.

If there's anything that needs to be added, contact me and tell me! I'll reach Tori and get right on it!

♥NikkiHeartagram

Table of Contents:
I. Short or Soon-to-Be Relationships [For Guys about Girls]
--------------1. How a guy should treat a girl he likes.
--------------2. How to approach a girl he likes.
--------------3. What to get a girl he likes.
--------------4. Gift Ideas [by Tori]
II. Short or Soon-to-Be Relationships [For Girls about Guys]
--------------1. How a girl should treat a guy she likes.
--------------2. How to approach a guy she likes.
--------------3. What to get a guy she likes.
--------------4. Gift Ideas [by Tori]
III. Longer Lasted Relationships [For Guys about Girls]
--------------1. How a guy should treat a girl he loves.
--------------2. How to approach a girl he loves.
--------------3. What to get a girl he loves.
--------------4. Gift Ideas
IV. Longer Lasted Relationships [For Girls about Guys]
--------------1. How a girl should treat a guy she loves.
--------------2. How to approach a guy she loves.
--------------3. What to get a guy she loves.
--------------4. Gift Ideas
V. Dos && Don'ts of V-Day and Dating in General
--------------1. Guys Don'ts
--------------2. Guys Dos
--------------3. Girls Don'ts
--------------4. Girls Dos
VI. Credits

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Short or Soon-to-Be Relationships [For Guys about Girls]

How a guy should treat a girl he likes:
Tori: He should treat her like the world for the extent of Valentine's day, though he should treat her like that all the time.
Nikki: Babes, don't be afraid to be yourself. There's nothing a girl likes more than that. On V-Day [oh, don't you love the deadly nickname? Tee heet. Nikki©] see only her. Don't spend it with your friends or especially other girls. Spend it with her.

How to approach a girl he likes:
Tori: Just walk up to her and yank her away from her friends. Don't actually grab her, just ask for a minute of her time. Be nice and be sweet.
Nikki: Be direct. That's all there is to say. Pull her aside and be straight up. Personally, it's cute if you give her a note attached to a little present. We'll get to presents later.

What to get a girl he likes:
Tori: In my opinion, you need to just ask her what she wants. You really shouldn't need to ask if you know her well enough.
Nikki: Ask. But sometimes people don't want anything, so don't get them anything if you know they don't want anything. Some girls will say they don't, but really do. My opinion is, get them something small no matter what.

Gift Ideas
From Guys to Girls- Personally, small things say the most. For instance, I'd love to get a necklace made by the guy himself with some colorful beads on it that has his name on it. That'd be really sweet. Or a small stuffed animal, or like Nikki says, a single kind of a flower. Or maybe two or three, but not a lot. Be simple but meaningful. Even better is a poem or a letter. -Tori©

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Short or Soon-to-Be Relationships [For
Girls about Guys]

How a girl should treat a guy she likes:
Tori: She should treat him as if he meant everything to her and even treat him like a big teddy bear.
Nikki: Be yourself bitches! =] That's really the main thing. If you're loud, be loud. If you're shy, be shy. If you're sweet, be sweet. Spend the day with him, not your friends. I admit, you need to be around you friends. But this is a special day.

How to approach a guy she likes:
Tori: Walk up to him and be yourself. Just act casual and dumb it down if you want to ask him out. He is a guy after all. Just kidding fellows!
Nikki: Same thing. Be direct and approach him. Some guys love it when girls aren't afraid to approach them. It just depends on the guy.

What to get a guy she likes:
Tori: Get him something casual and small. Don't be pink and frilly about it girls, unless he likes it like that.
Nikki: Again, ask. If he doesn't want to tell, go to his best friend. Some people know their guys enough to know what they want. If you don't know, find something they wear, do, or talk about a lot and get them something to do with that.

Gift Ideas
From Girls to Guys- Something he'll remember and keep close to him. Something simple but meaningful. Good ideas are also a beaded necklace with your name, or maybe a lighter if he smokes or just something simple. This is pretty tough, but I'm trying here! Geez... Also, try to get him to tell you. If he won't, ask his BFF and go from there. Mainly it depends on the guy.-Tori©

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Longer Lasted Relationships [For Guys about Girls]

How a guy should treat a girl he loves:
Tori: Treat her like she's his everything, his only one.
Nikki: Treat her like there was nothing else around you but her. Kiss her. Hug her. Cling to her. Be playful. See only her and be with only her. Go on a walk, watch a movie, do something. Don't text or call other people while you're with her on V-Day. Turn your phone off. Be yourself and make things happy.

How to approach a girl he loves:
Tori: Go up behind her, hug her from behind, even in front of her friends. Love her like crazy.
Nikki: If you're smart, you're all ready dating her and loving her. But some guys aren't brave enough to approach a girl they love. So just ask her out. Be kind, treat her like a guy should treat a girl, not like a girl expects to be treated. Some, of course, expect good, but if they've had bad relationships, they expect bad. Show them how guys can really be. Not what the stereotype describes. But I'd wait a while to tell her you love her. Don't say it straight out immediately after dating and never and I mean NEVER say it unless you mean it with all your heart!

What to get a girl he loves:
Tori: Give her what her heart desires, even if it's something small, she'll love whatever it is.
Nikki: It all depends on the girl. If she doesn't like gifts and she actually means it when she says it, get her something anyways. But make it something memorable, not necessarily something expensive. Like if you share a memory of a special place, bring her back to that place and hold her for a while. Reminisce with her. Or if she does like gifts, even if she denies it but you know she does, get her something she deserves. If she's a great girl, buy her something great.

Gift Ideas
From Guys to Girls- Guys, if you've been dating the girl a long time, jewelry never goes wrong. It really depends on the girl. Hell, maybe something funny like a picture of you showing off your nipple or something. {Lol.} Or even better, bring her somewhere you have a sweet memory with her. Like maybe a secret spot or even a public park where you met. Anything works. Just make sure you hold her as much as possible and tell her how much you love her every time you get the chance. -Nikki©

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Longer Lasted Relationships [For Girls about Guys]

How a girl should treat a guy she loves:
Tori:
Nikki: He is your world. You love him. You have to balance out friends and such, but on V-Day, he is your only heartbeat. If you can't see him, talk to him all day. If you can see him, talk mainly to him. Don't be texting other people or taking phone calls from friends. That's annoying and bothersome. Turn your phone off. It's all about him for the day.

How to approach a guy she loves:
Tori:
Nikki: Well, hopefully if you love them you're all ready dating. If not, ease into it. Don't straight out tell them you love them. That's stupid and might scare them off. So, what you must do is date them and prove to them how a girl can act when she's in love. But if you love him, wait a long while to say it (or a while at least) so you don't scare anyone off. Remember babes, guys are pretty fragile no matter how they like to seem like badasses. Don't say it straight out immediately after dating and never and I mean NEVER say it unless you mean it with all your heart!

What to get a guy she loves:
Tori:
Nikki: If there's one thing that even confuses me, it's what to get a guy you've been dating for a long ass time for V-Day. It's really hard to figure certain guys out, but if you truly love a guy you should know him enough to know what to get him. Get him something useful or something that you know he'll love. Maybe even something to make him laugh at.

Gift Ideas
From Girls to Guys- I get stuck with this one mainly for this part I bet, since Tori hasn't as long of relationships as me. {3 Main Were: 20 months. 8 months. 3 months.} In the past, I've gotten guys all kinds of fun things. I have a playful personality, so I'm more into getting funny gifts. The last guy I had on Valentine's, I gave a stuffed dancing monkey just because it made me think of him when it danced. I've gotten a guy a really nice watch before because he broke his to pieces, and I've even gotten monogrammed boxers. Just be creative. The guy will love whatever you get, trust me.-Nikki©

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Dos && Don'ts of V-Day && Just Dating in General

To All Guys:
Don't...
...ever hang out with another girl instead of your girl.
...talk to your friends over her, especially on this day of the year.
...ever talk to another girl without your girl knowing. She will find out.
...cheat, especially not on V-Day!
...give a gift you got for your girl to a friend or another girl. Even if your girl didn't want it.
...ignore her.
...not call her on V-Day. Even if you're like me and Tori and hate phone's, suck it up and call her!
...lie to her.
...make false promises.
...ditch her. [Hell. Fucking. No. Don't EVER do this!]
...get overprotective.
...compare her to old girlfriends.
...compare her to her friends. [Fuck that shit! -Tori]
...expect her to change.
...break her heart.

Do...
...kiss her as much as possible.
...tell her how you feel about her as much as possible.
...compliment her even on her worst days or when she wakes up and looks like a bedhead.
...cling like crazy. Physically I mean.
...introduce her to your friends as, "Guys, this is my girlfriend, _(name)_."
...call her cute pet names.
...tell her your deepest, darkest secrets.
...surprise her, even if she hates surprises.
...show up at her house when she doesn't know.
...get jealous occasionally. Most girls love it when a guy shows they care by getting jealous.
...write her sweet words and tell her sweet things. Girls are suckers for sweeties and even if you come off as a bad-boy, you have to have a sweet side.
...trust her if she's known to be trustworthy.
...the moment you know you love her and thinks she's ready to love you, tell her. Don't hesitate. You don't know when she'll be gone.

To All Girls:
Don't...
...talk to other guys behind his back. He'll find out.
...do things that are stupid and reckless all the time around him. Most guys get worried about their girls if they do, at least the one's that care do.
...compare him to old boyfriends.
...try and get off the phone with him, especially on V-Day, even if you hate phones.
...pick fights with his ex's.
...pick fights with his female friends, unless their bitches or their trying to steal him. Then it's okay.
...lie to him.
...make false promises.
...get drunk around him. Trust me, it's not attractive when you're throwing up or giggling like a maniac.
...diss him.
...expect him to change.
...cheat on him. EVER! NEVER EVER! NEVER EVER EVER!
...break his heart.

Do...
...tell him if you love him.
...let him defend you.
...watch his games, even if you know jack shit about the sport. [Ha, you might learn something. I know more about football from the past few years than I did! XD]
...accept him for what he is, even if he isn't gorgeous or the sharpest crayon in the box.
...tell him if you're afraid of something.
...trust him if he's got a good rep.
...kiss him. He doesn't always need to make the first move sweethearts!
...call him cute pet names.
...compliment him. Just don't over-inflate his ego.
...hold his hand.
...brag about him.
...love him like there's no tomorrow.

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Credits

Created by:
♥ NikkiHeartagram
♦ ToriTerror

We both hope this helped you guys out. It may have just been pointless, but hell, it was something to do and maybe you guys can stop asking Miss Nikki here questions. Hopefully I got em all answered.