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Thursday, September 28, 2006 3:47 AM

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Okay, if this story doesn't make you sick, then you might just have something wrong with you.

I just got done watching a show that discussed the death of an individual that did nothing wrong but look different than the boy that murdered him. As bad as that sounds in itself, I was absolutely disgusted at the way the town they all lived in took it. 

Okay, so, this kid that has a Mohawk and looks/is into the punk scene is obviously is evil because of the way he dresses. (Mind you, I'm being sarcastic.) I was treated like that throughout school. I never had the money to get good clothes like everyone else wore, so after middle school I started customizing them so I didn't look like everyone else. That was my form of individuality, and though some people liked it—my parents were fine with it—there were always that select group of people at school that picked on me because of it. They thought that I worshipped Satan and was into the occult and all that wonderful stuff that people have a tendency to think when they have no contempt of who you really are, so, I took this horrific story to heart.

He dropped out of school his junior year because the jocks at the school kept picking on him. The way his friends were talking, it seemed that he was jumped by people at least every week, just because he was so different looking.

The thing that really gets me on this one is that his family was very religious. How horrible is that in itself? I mean, usually people automatically think that people that dress in black and wear spikes and such are Satan worshippers, but for him and his family to be that religious and for those people to still think that seems really horrible to me. I always thought people picked on me in school and said those things because they knew that my family and I do not attend church and are not the most remotely religious. How can a community that is generally based around God not notice someone for who they really are and not for how they appear on the outside? 

This poor man went to a local restaurant that he and his friends would go to for coffee and such, only to be heckled and have things thrown at them by a large group of jocks from local high schools in the area that had been trying to start something for a few weeks. In the melee that ensued after they attempted to leave, he was caught alone in a group of men that basically tried to beat the hell out of him or possibly kill him. It was not just a one-on-one thing—there were many people with weapons trying to beat him and his friends. His friends finally got to him by fighting their way to him, but he was alive at this point. This beating was just one of many that he had endured over the years and wouldn't have killed him. What came next did.

Some of his friends were trying to avoid a Cadillac that had been seemingly trying to hit them. The car did manage to hit this 19-year-old and not just run him over, no, it ran him over, drug him under the car onto the curb, and then went in reverse. As we should all know, it's not like going in reverse is something that one can accidentally do, so this cannot really be labeled as an "accident" at this point. 

His older brother picked him up, what was left of his body face and mangled body at this point, only to hear him say "I love you" right before he died. Now, that is absolutely horrendous—having to deal with your little brother dying in your arms knowing that you can't do anything to save him.

Now, on top of all this, obviously the man that ran him over drove off. He was a local high school football player. He was a "good kid" that everyone liked. His friends thought it was horrible that he went to jail because of this event. I'm sorry, but the tissue of the man he ran over was found on the bottom of his car. The girl in the car with him when it happened testified against him. He said some of the worst things that someone in the position to be found guilty should have ever said. He basically dug himself into a hole, first saying that he was trying to protect a friend by hitting him, but upon realizing that the statement was badly flawed; saying that it was an accident, which was tossed out the window when they mentioned to the jury that he went in reverse.

 So, it would seem rather obvious that he would be found guilty of murder, no? There were witnesses, character witnesses, the car which was the murder weapon, his own statements, and it all made sense to find him guilty. But, no—he was found guilty of manslaughter and, here's the kicker, got ten years probation.

He is in jail now, because he was caught drinking underage and fled from the police to hide it, but, still, if this doesn't seem like an outrage, I don't know what does. 

Anyone that was ever picked on for being different can most likely relate to his story. He was described as a kind-hearted boy that loved his family and, most importantly to me; he just wanted to teach tolerance to those around him.

He could have cut his hair the way everyone else did, he could have wore the same clothes that the popular kids did, he could have been just like everyone else—but he didn't, and he was killed for it.

chrrris-sayy!!!

 
i liked the story... its sad. anyways i noticed that most kids that do dress goth/punk or whatever do go to church and stuff... kinda unexpected. well just for the record jocks suck.
 
Posted by chrrris-sayy!!! on Thursday, September 28, 2006 - 4:00 AM
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spill.your.gut

 
See, I never understood that at all. By my senior year, the only thing that I ever wore to school that was black was a hoodie, and still I had girls come up to me and ask "Do you really worship Satan?" Obviously, I would ask them why they thought that in the first place, and their response was the same ol' "you wear black." I would just laugh, because I had a tendency to wear a lot of white and light colors, but all they ever bothered to see was my black hoodie that I wore sometimes.
 
Posted by spill.your.gut on Thursday, September 28, 2006 - 4:08 AM
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spill.your.gut

 
Well said.
 
Posted by spill.your.gut on Thursday, September 28, 2006 - 4:10 AM
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spill.your.gut

 
Oh man, you're from Decker. I tend to forget that. X/
Well, don't worry. No one will bother you anymore,
'cause there are too many ppl here to kick their asses.

 
Posted by spill.your.gut on Thursday, September 28, 2006 - 4:37 AM
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spill.your.gut

 
There were a lot of people that were constantly threatened in school. You never realized what was happening to me throughout school, and neither did anyone else. That's half the problem. No one seems to see what's really happening around them.
 
Posted by spill.your.gut on Thursday, September 28, 2006 - 7:00 AM
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spill.your.gut

 
It has a lot to do with me not standing up for myself as well. I didn't want to fight back, I didn't want to deal with it at all because I thought that was the right thing to do. Which, I still believe in most cases. Generally, if you ignore those types of people they will eventually let you be, but that's not always the case.
 
Posted by spill.your.gut on Thursday, September 28, 2006 - 7:08 AM
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Amanda
Amanda Flener

 
You know it's sad to think how horrible this world is. I know in jr. high I got picked on well, my cuz, and me did. We both always wore black, and made it very clear we did not worship god, and that we were pegans. You know we had the usual things said like we were saitanists, and such. It really had upset me. Then into high school I dressed like everyone else. Then about the time of my junior year I stopped caring what anyone thought, and had two close friends. All we cared about was making us, and everyone around us laugh. Then my senior year I dressed the way I wanted, and had a close group of friends who growled at anyone who got in our way. We were bitches to be honest, and didn't give a shit what anyone thought cause wew were being ourselves. You could hate us or whatever we didn't care. The unusual part is we got along with lots of people who thought we were unique not wierd. Either that or they were scared of us. Whatever the case was we never got picked on, but made friends with a lot of people. Still that just makes me sick to see what kind of shit goes on in other schools. People should learn by no, but since this has gone on for so long I don't think they ever will. sigh*
 
Posted by Amanda on Thursday, September 28, 2006 - 7:52 AM
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spill.your.gut

 
No, they probably never will. XP
 
Posted by spill.your.gut on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 7:35 PM
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spill.your.gut

 
You're lucky. You sux.
 
Posted by spill.your.gut on Thursday, September 28, 2006 - 7:36 AM
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spill.your.gut

 
Well, I sort of always thought everyone was just trying to be "buddy buddy" with you in high school too, so, yeah. :/
 
Posted by spill.your.gut on Thursday, September 28, 2006 - 7:43 AM
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spill.your.gut

 
Well, no offense to them 'cause I always liked them myself, but they did always seem just a tad bit fake around you. I noticed that on my own, but I ignored it.

Let's put it this way: Remember Mrs.Wells class? Did your "friends" ever drop in to say "hi" if it wasn't on their way to a class? Did they ever met you halfway just to ask you how your day had been or how you were doing?

 
Posted by spill.your.gut on Thursday, September 28, 2006 - 7:49 AM
spill.your.gut

 
Yeah, oopies about that. I tend to forget that if I close the top to my laptop, it disconnects from the internet. X/
 
Posted by spill.your.gut on Thursday, September 28, 2006 - 7:35 PM
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bre

 
that is sad, but maybe the guy killed him for another reason, i highly doubt it was just because of the way he dressed, good "christian" kids still have a tendency to have some dirty little secrets, cuz im definately one of those, and actually a ton of kids who are "goth" or dress differently are christians, ive met a lot. and this story sounds so stereotypical like all jocks are just horrible ppl when i havent met one who is a jerk or anything and all goth or freak ppl always are like preps suck and hate on preps for absolutley no reason and i havent even ever heard a jock or prep diss a goth or freak. and besides i dressed like a goth for a year and i never once got made fun of or picked on by a prep, but i did get made fun of and my feelings were hurt by other goth/emo/skater/freaks, so i think this story is either from a really big school or extremely stereotypical and there is probably something behind the lines we didnt hear about and when ppl hit something(like if the kid stepped into the street at night) and got hit and it was stuck underneath the car, lots of ppl back up to try to get it out from underneath there and i am almost positive the "jock" fealt horrible later even if it was an accident and if it was im sure he feels even more guilty when ppl make it into something its not and ppl tell everyone it was intentional over something as stupid as the way the kid dressed, i mean seriously that is ridiculous.
 
Posted by bre on Saturday, September 30, 2006 - 3:58 AM
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spill.your.gut

 
It was in TEXAS, if that helps.

And he was hit in a parking lot full of people. His friend that was helping him up was thrown over the top of the car, he just happened to go under it.

Now, though you might not have been picked on that much in school, I know I sure as hell was, often times by the fact that I didn't wear the right clothes and, no joke, because I didn't talk that much. For four years from middle school to high school I had a girl and her group of friends threaten my life and try to fight me just because "they didn't like me." I had never done anything to them, but that didn't matter because I refused to fight back.

So, just because you were one of the lucky ones that didn't deal with shit in school does not mean that it doesn't happen to others.

 
Posted by spill.your.gut on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 12:46 AM
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jeff

 

I have no doubt that this kind of thing happens, and I agree, it is an outrage.  Things won't change as long as the school itself is set up to be a catalyst for this kind of behavior. If a school is small enough to develop cliques that can basically control a school, all it takes is the right combination of intolerant idiots to make bad things happen. What can be done to change a school that has that kind of dynamic? I think that has to be the core question, and frankly I don't have the answer.    

I was not a jock or rich or anything like that in high school.  Hell disaffected goth was easily as popular as dumb jock.  I went to school in Texas too, but my graduating class was over 600 at the start of my senior year.  There were so many people that it was pretty easy to find a niche or several niches, and picking on smaller kids was frowned upon.  Then again, I was lucky- went to a decent school and a pretty big school where there was no easy answer to who would win a popularity contest.  I think parents need to really pay attention to where they send their children to school.


 
Posted by jeff on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 2:41 PM
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spill.your.gut

 
A lot of times all it would really take is the power of some teachers and parents to make it stop, sometimes not. But I know from experience how hard it was for me to even tell someone that I needed help--I could deal with the problems on my own by ignoring them, though that did not mean they went away. In the worst circumstantes, they do not just "go away" they keep on until they get what they want--a response of violence back. That is something I'll never quite understand about human nature, but I understand that it is a part of it.
 
Posted by spill.your.gut on Sunday, October 01, 2006 - 7:30 PM
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